Why is abhimanyu still questioning Akshara's love?

Okay so what else is this guy expecting?

He knows she is a girl with a lot of trauma and he knew since day 1 that she loves her family and that's one of the reason he chose her... Yet she went against her family and spoke for him on various occasions, even jumped in fire for her...like I wouldn't do that for a dude I met on a 3 day trip even if he professed his undying love for me... Instead of appreciating her for going against her nature for him and acknowledging the brave act a thin girl put up of literally taking him out of the fire, what else is he expecting? What kind of security does Abhimanyu still need? Wasn't last incident on valentine's day proof enough when she told her bade papa that she wouldn't apologize for staying with abhimanyu, when bade papa asked abhi to leave she stayed near the gate, she even went to jail going against her bade papa and was ready to get herself arrested?

Why is abhimanyu being so desperate? Soon he will be married to her and then he will have all rights as her husband. What makes him think that akshara would leave him then if she isn't leaving now?

Should akshara die to prove her loyalty to abhimanyu? Even though the girl proved that she could do that too by doing extreme things.

Didn't abhimanyu himself ignore Akshara because of the stupid Anisha fiasco? Yet akshara was calm and patient in dealing with him...

And of course akshara should feel guilty and so should abhimanyu. Bade papa would never have this heart attack problem ...it happened ever since the aarohi wedding cancelled fiasco, then harsh causing diamond kaand and final trigger by abhimanyu threating outside goenka's gate ki bhaag jaenge, you have to get us married...even in OT he was all about his marriage with akshara...yes he saved him but this situation wouldn't have arised if abhimanyu acted maturely since tilak 1.0 as he was the one who proposed marriage both the times ...first he came for akshara and then for aarohi but it was his responsibility both the times to stick to what he says . First time also prime responsibility was his to inform the name as ultimately he was to get married and he was the one who was desperate after the trip, not akshara it aarohi ...neither did he inform his mother the name of the girl and nor did he tell goenkas which of the daughter he has come for... Which landed in this confusion...if he had one direct open conversation with akshara regarding her feelings before bringing any rishta, akshara would have surely confessed as that time she didn't know that aarohi was also interested in abhimanyu ...and let's not forget that BAD JIJA wala phase where he kept on torturing akshara....acc to me akshara is absolutely right - "AISA PYAAR NAI CHAHIYE THA MUJHE!" Nobody would want this kind of love who is creating havoc in the life of my near and dear ones... All of Abhimanyu's actions has resulted in storm in everyone's lives... Along with the support of his mother manjari who just creates kaands and blindly supports her son in whatever he does...

His pehla PYAAR jaap and undying love for akshara has only done more bad than good.

Abhimanyu knows whatever akshara has done for him and he even knows that she loves him a lot..but like I said..Abhimanyu is Obsessive for akshara...obsession is a very dangerous emotion.

When you are obsessed with someone..nothing in the world can give you the satisfaction or security..no matter what akshu does for him..the moment she starts giving someone else attention or care..abhimanyu's obsession will come into picture..

In precap akshu seemed pretty normal and she's happily celebrating shivratri with her family..she has no idea what abhimanyu is feeling..she simply thinks he's busy right now so its better to call him later..

On the other side abhimanyu is behaving like a stalker of his own girlfriend and watching her dance video with her family and getting jealous..he doesn't want to share akshara with anyone not even her own family..he wants her all for himself..

He's somewhere competing with goenkas for akshara's attention so its obvious that no matter what akshu does for him..he'll always demand more..

Akshara wasn't jealous or didn't doubt abhimanyu and anisha because she loves and trusts abhimanyu ..her love is not that crazy or obsessive like abhimanyu's love..And she also knows that abhimanyu has other important relationships in his life and he can't always give her all his time..akshara is understanding and she's not competing with abhimanyu's family..

I hope abhimanyu also gets this level understanding..and learns to balance out love and family together..