Meet| EDT #16 - Meet aur Meet bane Meet² - Page 99

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

No Nephy most of us from here don't think that MA loves MH already, that is why we want to see more of his thoughts, where do he lie exactly. That is why few felt it was abrupt.

For me it was not abrupt as his actions already show that he takes her as his wife and much more than a wife and he only used the word -pasand.

If you see my earlier posts more than 10 times, I have always mentioned that for me also it is more like an arranged marriage only where MH has already fallen in love whereas MA crossed the friendzone stage but still not in love . That is not where the problem lies.

That is why it is best with the world - like - as he used it.

The problem we have is we only are given MA's actions which point out his liking towards her but not a clear picture of how he thinks or feels or his monologues like we get MH's.

That is what Divya(fanktlk) said may be if there is separation, we may get to see how he thinks when he misses her or so. She told about seperation due to reasons like training etc .

Originally posted by: mehraan

Nai yaar… its not angst for me … i njoyed tat golgappa epsde aftr they returned bac frm bustop… that was a comical epsde, so mujhe koi problm nai hai ki they was no separation ya angsty feeling…. Mujhe ye Gadha Ahlwat samaj nahi aya aj😆… Chahta kya hai bhai!!! I feel the writing is not upto the mark here or the Cvs r not able to convey emotions rightfully… i felt a disconnect with the whole buildup of the kiss track n the outcome they served today… Again their scenes were good today but if these had come one by one or after a few episodes when things were beginning to settle down between them… i would have njoyed… i feel too much rushing and showing each n everything casually is spooling my mood!Upar se no proper instropection from the heros side… They are always not clear n nvr indicated…. Pata nahi … i vil watch it again at night, sukoon se

Ha Dekho fir. Yaha toh I have to give you points that they are rushing it. We need more monologues and a little slow-paced episode. But yeh soch k Khush raho ki we will get to see their Bf-Gf phase now, and Meety will not be flying around with heart balloons, she knows where she stands.

Another thing that has been bugging me for days but I chose not to spoke about it, but I think now is the right time. I had an issue with their first kiss. Yes, it was beautiful, but it was rushed, but why?

Dekho normally ITV couples kiss after confession. Yaha they showed their first kiss when the guy's stance wasn't clear, and he was in drunk state. But now I feel glad that it happened the way it happened. Till date, I couldn't watch their paper dance episode, because I feel uncomfortable. He was drunk, and he was probably imagining Manushi there, and so no matter how hot it was, I can't watch it. I was scared aisa same Kuch unke first kiss k saath na ho jaya. Like I know he wont imagine Manno there, but what if he blurts out that he never wants to get intimate with her or something. Dekho now that they have shed some light on Meetwa's notions, it is clear that Meetwa sees physical intimacy as an integral part of marriage, and not a symbol of love. I believe this notion of his will change when he realizes love, but abhi aisa ha. So, if they had there first kiss in any other situation, it would have been a rational decision from his side. He would have acted on the Do's and Don't's list in his mind, and kissed her after taking her permission. But yaha because he was drunk, he acted on his real emotions, on his attraction and on his feelings. Uskay dimaag mein woh list ney backseat le li. I don't know if this will make anyone feel better. Infact, I don't know whether or not I have been able to keep my point and I should insane. Paar samj rahe ho na main Kya Keh rahi hoon? Ya phir main blabber kar rahi hoon?

Now I can watch that kiss again and again thinking that my babies acted on their feelings

Originally posted by: mehraan

Arey I believe he loves her 🤣🤣🤣…. I dooo n will vouch my life on it…..😆 He loves everything of her but Gadha Ahlwat is still a zombie in his thoughts …. I can very well see his actions but they were nvr voiced or we were not given a clear perspective on that aspect…. I just wanted him to say ki mujhe fadak padta hai… smething on those lines even if he doesnt confess i dnt care…. 😵 Its jus that ye Ladka Point A se Point B kab pahuncha … ye mera sawaal hai n y wasnt it disclosed to us?? Atleast Cvs cud hve given us a mere hint here n there… Atleast usey thoda restless, bechain ya tadapta hua bata dete…. Ham andaza lagalete… Till the bustop epsde i really njoyed n understand wats goin on… Golgappa epsde was also fine with the tension between them…. Aaj bilkul hi alag Andaz mei tha ladka…. I cnt connect to that transition if emotions from one point to another!!! Bas

I didn't say all. I said most as I know you and some more believe he loves her.

I think it is more like a spectrum and slowly and hopefully he might soon get there. Let us see.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

Ha Dekho fir. Yaha toh I have to give you points that they are rushing it. We need more monologues and a little slow-paced episode. But yeh soch k Khush raho ki we will get to see their Bf-Gf phase now, and Meety will not be flying around with heart balloons, she knows where she stands.

Another thing that has been bugging me for days but I chose not to spoke about it, but I think now is the right time. I had an issue with their first kiss. Yes, it was beautiful, but it was rushed, but why?

Dekho normally ITV couples kiss after confession. Yaha they showed their first kiss when the guy's stance wasn't clear, and he was in drunk state. But now I feel glad that it happened the way it happened. Till date, I couldn't watch their paper dance episode, because I feel uncomfortable. He was drunk, and he was probably imagining Manushi there, and so no matter how hot it was, I can't watch it. I was scared aisa same Kuch unke first kiss k saath na ho jaya. Like I know he wont imagine Manno there, but what if he blurts out that he never wants to get intimate with her or something. Dekho now that they have shed some light on Meetwa's notions, it is clear that Meetwa sees physical intimacy as an integral part of marriage, and not a symbol of love. I believe this notion of his will change when he realizes love, but abhi aisa ha. So, if they had there first kiss in any other situation, it would have been a rational decision from his side. He would have acted on the Do's and Don't's list in his mind, and kissed her after taking her permission. But yaha because he was drunk, he acted on his real emotions, on his attraction and on his feelings. Uskay dimaag mein woh list ney backseat le li. I don't know if this will make anyone feel better. Infact, I don't know whether or not I have been able to keep my point and I should insane. Paar samj rahe ho na main Kya Keh rahi hoon? Ya phir main blabber kar rahi hoon?

Now I can watch that kiss again and again thinking that my babies acted on their feelings

Hamesha confession k baad hi kiss hote hai na ITV mai , toh yaha they changed that reet and showed that Kiss in a marriage when one is not totally into love but going that way or when on the way to love might also happen.

I get that you want to say that he might not love her but kissed because he wanted to and not something he regrets right?

Your last part though 🤣🤣. Blabber hai ya nahi pata nahi but I am also not finding the right words

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

No Nephy most of us from here don't think that MA loves MH already, that is why we want to see more of his thoughts, where do he lie exactly. That is why few felt it was abrupt.

For me it was not abrupt as his actions already show that he takes her as his wife and much more than a wife and he only used the word -pasand.

If you see my earlier posts more than 10 times, I have always mentioned that for me also it is more like an arranged marriage only where MH has already fallen in love whereas MA crossed the friendzone stage but still not in love . That is not where the problem lies.

That is why it is best with the world - like - as he used it.

The problem we have is we only are given MA's actions which point out his liking towards her but not a clear picture of how he thinks or feels or his monologues like we get MH's.

That is what Divya(fanktlk) said may be if there is separation, we may get to see how he thinks when he misses her or so. She told about seperation due to reasons like training etc .

I know most of people don't see love from his side..

And I've little bit difference in the part ki I don't feel his actions also is of someone who is in like love or something.

He considers meetH as a friend,confidiant and also considers her as a wife so his actions are of only care,compassion and concern along with respect,I never ever felt his actions also to be more than that.

Baki I know show is good,story is good,characters are good and very realistic also but sis mujhe toh fiction mein kafi passionate si love stories pasand hai..mera issue hai hai yeh I agree...completely agree.....ki meine khud se hi soch liya ki yeh vaisi love story hogi vaise meine khud se nahi socha actually it was promoted as BK remake aur vahan rishi really loved bokul too much,itna pyaar ki otherwise very stoic rishi even with his own parents had very extreme emotional reactions for bokul's little bit of actions toh bas usi vajah se thodi umeedein laga li.

Na hi aadat hai aisi love story dekhne ki jahan ladki pyaar kare ladka na kre..adat bigaadi hui hai fiction ne kyunki aisa dekhne milta nahi generally.

Show ke sath galti nahi hai show toh different hai mein agree kar rahi hoon na hi mujhe meetA se na hi meetH se koi complaint hai individually unki feelings sense bnati hai but you know.😆

Originally posted by: tamanna1391

atleast they are not streching like ekta shows

EK = chewing gum 🤣

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Hamesha confession k baad hi kiss hote hai na ITV mai , toh yaha they changed that reet and showed that Kiss in a marriage when one is not totally into love but going that way or when on the way to love might also happen.

I get that you want to say that he might not love her but kissed because he wanted to and not something he regrets right?

Your last part though 🤣🤣. Blabber hai ya nahi pata nahi but I am also not finding the right words

No not really.

In any other situation, the kiss would have happened because intimacy is integral in marriage (Meetwa's pov)

Yaha this kiss happened because of pure feelings and no rational thought process. Warna MeMe ka toh humesha yahi raha Hain ki they do everything in the most ideal way after discussing ekdum goals set karte hua for which their marriage seems more practical and less romantic

Originally posted by: Nephy

I know most of people don't see love from his side..

And I've little bit difference in the part ki I don't feel his actions also is of someone who is in like love or something.

He considers meetH as a friend,confidiant and also considers her as a wife so his actions are of only care,compassion and concern along with respect,I never ever felt his actions also to be more than that.

Baki I know show is good,story is good,characters are good and very realistic also but sis mujhe toh fiction mein kafi passionate si love stories pasand hai..mera issue hai hai yeh I agree...completely agree.....ki meine khud se hi soch liya ki yeh vaisi love story hogi vaise meine khud se nahi socha actually it was promoted as BK remake aur vahan rishi really loved bokul too much,itna pyaar ki otherwise very stoic rishi even with his own parents had very extreme emotional reactions for bokul's little bit of actions toh bas usi vajah se thodi umeedein laga li.

Na hi aadat hai aisi love story dekhne ki jahan ladki pyaar kare ladka na kre..adat bigaadi hui hai fiction ne kyunki aisa dekhne milta nahi generally.

Show ke sath galti nahi hai show toh different hai mein agree kar rahi hoon na hi mujhe meetA se na hi meetH se koi complaint hai individually unki feelings sense bnati hai but you know.😆

Oo I understand. If it is something you don't enjoy, there is no use watching it even if it is good or bad.

The reason why I feel MA has gone to the like zone is because of the last few episodes starting from when he comes to know of the challenge. We usually don't celebrate V-Day with a friend in that particular way he did , or his behaviour in whole fashion show, taking to a date or being so touchy as compared to before😁. Baas isliye.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

No not really.

In any other situation, the kiss would have happened because intimacy is integral in marriage (Meetwa's pov)

Yaha this kiss happened because of pure feelings and no rational thought process. Warna MeMe ka toh humesha yahi raha Hain ki they do everything in the most ideal way after discussing ekdum goals set karte hua for which their marriage seems more practical and less romantic

Oo isbar samjhi, last post mai I was confused thora sa due to the explaination.

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

I didn't say all. I said most as I know you and some more believe he loves her.

I think it is more like a spectrum and slowly and hopefully he might soon get there. Let us see.

Kya kare saare feelings Pyaar se jure hua hain paar Pyaar nahi hain ye maan le? 🤣

But I also don't think he is with her because she is a compromise. I believe they both reached a state where they both know that they can't live without each other, and they will always have each other's back.

I think we atleast all agree on this that we need more Meetwa's pov now. I'm glad ki Meety got her security in this relationship. She won't go down her knees and propose him after this. He has to figure out things...but janay kaisa Hoga. Pyaar mein na thoda Daar thodi insecurity hona laazmi hain. Shokh nahi hain Mera logo ko rotey hua dekhna. Paar ML k intensity se pata chalta hain Pyaar hain ki nahi but they don't create a situation like that. The show has been serving great for the most part (atleast till now) ,I will give them the benefit of doubt and see what they have up their sleeves. With Deep being back in picture, I have some hope from him, but no hope from our GA.

Moreover, I love MeMe too much to leave them beech rastay. Aur ab toh curiosity bara diya hain inhona ab toh dekhna parega. Main dekhungi😆