Originally posted by: Nephy
Hmm yup that will make sense.
Separation hoga hi jab meety higher studies ke liye jayegi.
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Baki mujhe ek aur baat kehni hai...mein uske liye sorry bol deti hoon pehle hi,par mujhe lagta hai ki as viewers we are also getting adamant ki he loves meety like people of BL are regarding rishi loving lakshmi,I am not comparing becoz obviously rishi and meetA obviously holds no comaprison,I am just talking about viewer's pov as viewers of BL knows ki leads are rishi-lakshmi so they just ship them claims them to be in love even after rishi's constant denial and ambigous harkatein same way as viewers of meet knowing meets are end couple we are also somewhere hell bent on saying or proving ki meetA loves meetH while it is constantly being cleared by meetA and various points in their story ki such is not the case.
I still very strongly feels ki its an arranged marriage where as an husband meetA become comfortable with the arrangement,it doesn't involve mind numbing emotions from his side but logical practical approach towards his side.
Aur yaar mujhe nahi pata ki how much people believe in this but I think that emotions mein logic nahi hota jahan logic hota hai vahan planning hoti hai...aur I agree ki real life mein planned relationship is like best relationship but fiction mein man nahi karta yaar dekhne ko itna planned and thoughtful relationship,it hurts ki meetH deserved to be wanted rather than being accepted just becoz of gratefulness or she is too good to be hurt scenario.
You know sometimes I fear ki meetA likes meetH who is perfect who is fit for his family,who is always right,he want that perfect image of hers to be in his life who motivated him,its scary actually becoz when we plan out things we want best for us but when we like something we just buy or want it fir hum uske pros cons nahi sochte toh love is all about accepting imperfections happily while planning or thoughtfully approaching is all about wanting perfection.
Sab kuch organic hai acha hai lekin yeh cheez scary hai ki maybe her something which would be not so perfect abput her will it be accepted by him.
He doesn't love her,kyunki mein delusional nahi hona chahti mujhe uske actions se bhi nahi lagta ki he loves her,he accepts her as wife no doubt,intimacy meine pehle hi kaha hai ki its not about emotions its requirement,its a step in marriage,aur vo hi baat aaj meetA ne bol bhi di for him Kiss is just a part of their arrangement called as marriage,thats the reason he didn't give much thought to it unlike meetH.