Not quoting you but it is a sign of an empathetic person - and ain't nothing wrong with that! The world needs more people like you but is also very hard on people like you. I find most folks want someone else to take on guilt on the behalf of their grievances. It's the Jesus syndrome in the west - the idea that someone else must bear the cross of their sins and through that they get absolved. I'm not quite like that but I suspect my parents are...
