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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Here I see what you are saying! However, there is something called professionalism?

Shaheer didn't make reels or give interviews with Rhea during YRHPK but until lockdown happened, people.loved MishBir. Why? Kyunki on screen Abir LOVED Mishti. No one could begrudge Shaheer the fact that he wasn't Abir. No one can say that when Abir said "jaise Kanha adhure bina Radha Rani,- waise tumhare bina adhuri meri kahaani" or when Abir said "paigam ishq woh naam ishq mera zeher ishq mera jaam ishq" that he wasn't saying it to Mishti. When Abir hugged Mishti at least it was Abir hugging Mishti and not Shaheer thinking that Ruchika would be pissed if he hugged Rhea.

Can we say the same thing about the ML and FL in cockroach? The offscreen behaviour soon translated to on screen.

You don't want to make reels, fine.

At least promote your jodi. At least give interviews about the show and the characters at that moment. At least be professional. At least don't bring the PL and ML's on screen non existent jodi into everything.

At least act properly. Show that your onscreen character cares about his on screen wife. Do it properly and do it well.

Disclaimer: I could care less what happens because I haven't watched number 3 show since Anuj Kapadia came to number 1 show, then our hero entered our show but the shoddy acting, direction, characters, cinematography, editing all just got to me.

At work also, one is expected to always be cordial with everyone. One might not like one's team but in front of clients one has to put up a professional front or else the client thinks "this team isn't getting along, sensing cold vibes here. Don't think I will be able to work with this hostility".

I personally wouldn't want to work in a hostile environment and if it meant being happy whilst waiting for the right opportunity in the specialty I am in then give me the peace of mind and happiness and what brings me joy any day over the life where I have to go to work thinking "oh no, another week, why dear Lord"

What covid has taught me is that it's all about being in a good, positive atmosphere and not around hostility or negativity. Tomorrow isn't promised; not in life or in love. I want to be happy. So yes, leave me in the speciality I am in now where I have to perhaps spend a few years struggling and working harder to get to the top vs going to a speciality where I might be at the top but the people are shirty and unfriendly and don't treat others well.

You gave an office example and I gave a work example too.

I m not defending anyone....I don't like the show or the FD..find everything around it toxic but I am just saying why I stopped watching and switched to Anupama and then YRKKH.

I can't watch a show or fangirl over someone who doesn't care about the time I give their show. I can't be asked who the hell I am. Especially considering I have a plethora of choices Netflix, HBO, Apple TV, Prime, Disney Plus and here I am wasting time on a poorly made show and a horribly acted out jodi where the PL asks me who the hell am I? Nope. BYE. BYE. They might be tv stars but I am not a random nibbi on twitter wasting my time.

This is why I love Bigg Boss you know, it shows me the asliyaat of many many people and stops me from wasting my time over the rubbish they star in. I ain't appreciating people who don't appreciate my time. I ain't some random velli homegirl cooking vegetables and watching shows. My world is rather different. Not that there is anything wrong with being a homegirl but it's the example Eijaz Khan and Karan Tacker gave about not doing TV anymore.

Someone tell them no one wants to watch them; if I want to watch online content, I have lots of English language TV to watch. Anyways....

How this became about me, I have no idea😆Guess I was telling you my POV ?


Yeah I totally get what you're saying.


But the onscreen execution and portrayal is bad because it's the maker's fault equally. It's not a love story like YRHPK. It's a family drama, and I think the ML and PL's relationship is being brought into it by fans because they want to see ML and FL together offscreen! I don't think we can comment about their professionalism especially during these covid times, just because someone doesn't give fun-filled interviews with their costar. Their job is acting. Not to be friendly with costars after the scenes are shot.


Some production houses specifically ask actors to post on social media to promote the onscreen jodi. Actors are professionals and they do this promotion as it's part of their job. Some production houses don't have this requirement. The ML doesn't do online promotion of the onscreen jodi. So it's clear that doing interviews or promotions is not a part of his job, as per the requirements of the makers.


They are working cordially on sets, respecting each other and putting up a professional front in front of the camera for their scenes, so I think that answers the question about being professional in front of clients. What they do off camera is like what people do after office ends. After 5 pm, people are free to do what they like. Same here after their scenes.


And the onscreen vibe between Virat and Sai is bad because the writing and direction are just worst in that show. I'm surprised the makers even got approval to air their show on prime time TV, that too on Star Plus. Their show's quality is bad in every aspect. Of course I'm not saying that the acting is Oscar worthy or anything. Just that actors are abused only because fans aren't able to accept that ML is not friends with FL. They want to see ML and FL together in real life and since it's not happening, all the hate and abuse for ML and all the praise for FL's non-acting.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9


Yeah I totally get what you're saying.


But the onscreen execution and portrayal is bad because it's the maker's fault equally. It's not a love story like YRHPK. It's a family drama, and I think the ML and PL's relationship is being brought into it by fans because they want to see ML and FL together offscreen! I don't think we can comment about their professionalism especially during these covid times, just because someone doesn't give fun-filled interviews with their costar. Their job is acting. Not to be friendly with costars after the scenes are shot.


Some production houses specifically ask actors to post on social media to promote the onscreen jodi. Actors are professionals and they do this promotion as it's part of their job. Some production house's don't have this requirement. The ML doesn't do online promotion of the onscreen jodi. So it's clear that doing interviews or promotions is not a part of his job as per the requirements of the makers.


They are working cordially on sets, respecting each other and putting up a professional front in front of the camera for their scenes, so I think that answers the question about being professional in front of clients. What they do off camera is like what people do after office ends. After 5 pm, people are free to do what they like. Same here.


And the onscreen vibe between Virat and Sai is bad because the writing and direction are just worst in that show. I'm surprised the makers even got approval to air their show on prime time TV, that too on Star Plus. Their show's quality is bad in every aspect. Of course I'm not saying that the acting is Oscar worthy or anything. Just that actors are abused only because fans aren't able to accept that ML is not friends with FL. They want to see ML and FL together in real life and since it's not happening, all the hate and abuse for ML and all the praise for FL's non-acting.

Heer, we both understand each other's POV...

Trust me I don't care about shipping anyone;- maybe I wanted the ML there to be with anyone other than the PL whilst I watched the show but the moment I stopped, I gave two hoots about what he did and how he acted and who he was with. This was the first time I showed any interest in any shipping. Now I regret ever being dragged into that shiZz. Not my finest moment. Can't believe I fell for the BS spinned by someone about on set sources and insider info.

I also was never a fan of the FL. I didn't agree with her character and her "yeh shaadi ek deal hai" gol gol raani kitna kitna paani. Behen, deal hai toh let the guy do what he wants in his free time. But nooooooooo. And yes, the acting is bad. However, she is made out to be Sitara's most precious FL. Matlab anu aunty and Rupaliji's experience kuch nahin hai. I understand our Akshu waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy better. So I am happier analysing Akshu and my Abhi. I didn't understand that character and then I stopped caring about Virat because his character was just ruined. Plus the ML stopped acting well.

Yes, Shaheer and Rhea didn't give interviews or make reels and DKP didn't force them either (which is why when people say my Harshu is being forced, I am.like dude, DKP didn't force Shaheer why will they force HC). However, I found Shaheer very sincere as Abir. Shaheer doesn't even do as much as HC does when it comes to romance on screen and yet Abir was so believable. Virat is not.

Our show S1, the ML and FL didn't get along. Our show S2, the ML and FL dated and then broke up but after the break up there was no dramz on screen or with interviews or BTS. Naagin 3, PVP was dating KT (she is married to someone else now so it's all pointless) but Anita would give so much BTS content and there would be so many lives; yet PVP fangirled over KT off screen.

These are all examples of how professionalism works. You think the BehIr and PearBhi fans didn't abuse KT. Off course they did. Yet they watches BeHir with so much happiness. You think PVP wasn't bashed. Off course he was yet there was no self victimisation.

Anyways, we seem to be going around in circles.

Let's be happy our HarshaLi are friends and we get good interviews and lives and BTS and great onscreen chemistry.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Heer, we both understand each other's POV...

Trust me I don't care about shipping anyone;- maybe I wanted the ML there to be with anyone other than the PL whilst I watched the show but the moment I stopped, I gave two hoots about what he did and how he acted and who he was with. This was the first time I showed any interest in any shipping. Now I regret ever being dragged into that shiZz. Not my finest moment. Can't believe I fell for the BS spinned by someone about on set sources and insider info.

I also was never a fan of the FL. I didn't agree with her character and her "yeh shaadi ek deal hai" gol gol raani kitna kitna paani. Behen, deal hai toh let the guy do what he wants in his free time. But nooooooooo. And yes, the acting is bad. However, she is made out to be Sitara's most precious FL. Matlab anu aunty and Rupaliji's experience kuch nahin hai. I understand our Akshu waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy better. So I am happier analysing Akshu and my Abhi. I didn't understand that character and then I stopped caring about Virat because his character was just ruined. Plus the ML stopped acting well.

Yes, Shaheer and Rhea didn't give interviews or make reels and DKP didn't force them either (which is why when people say my Harshu is being forced, I am.like dude, DKP didn't force Shaheer why will they force HC). However, I found Shaheer very sincere as Abir. Shaheer doesn't even do as much as HC does when it comes to romance on screen and yet Abir was so believable. Virat is not.

Our show S1, the ML and FL didn't get along. Our show S2, the ML and FL dated and then broke up but after the break up there was no dramz on screen or with interviews or BTS. Naagin 3, PVP was dating KT (she is married to someone else now so it's all pointless) but Anita would give so much BTS content and there would be so many lives; yet PVP fangirled over KT off screen.

These are all examples of how professionalism works. You think the BehIr and PearBhi fans didn't abuse KT. Off course they did. Yet they watches BeHir with so much happiness. You think PVP wasn't bashed. Off course he was yet there was no self victimisation.

Anyways, we seem to be going around in circles.

Let's be happy our HarshaLi are friends and we get good interviews and lives and BTS and great onscreen chemistry.


Yeah I totally agree with what you're saying! 🤗


Of course I'm happy HarshAli get along very well here! And yes their interviews are surely a lot of fun ❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Do these people live in oppression?

Matlab which universe would Abhi have been like "Yes yes YES, the only person i have ever loved isn't admitting that she loves me BUT she makes gooey eyes at me, saves me from getting struck off the medical register, is always buzzing around me, makes me think she also has something for me and then wants me to think she is OK with me marrying someone else?"

Also what's with the constant comparisons to ASR? Have they forgotten that ASR before realising he loved Khushi was emotionally VERY abusive towards her. Plus I am perhaps in the minority but I don't think Barun can act; he was really stiff as ASR. 1 Asur won't change my opinion. Every 2 days there is some comparison to Barun.

I hate that comparison. Though like that show, I personally didn’t feel that Barun did anything for ASR acting wise. He was stiff and rigid like you said and there was no expression change at all.

1. Kairav was a silent and mute spectator. He could have insisted that he would tell Abhi the truth. Fine, if not that then what stopped him from saying that it wasn't appropriate for Abhi to marry Aarohi. Suddenly he's become their guardian? Where was this guardian when 3nlives were almost ruined and he was just there existing, breathing and doing nada?

Same. What did he even do? Rather than show is helplessness and being simply hopeless. Just like he stood watched Anisha jump into the lake, he kept watching.

2. This is one other thing they will dump on my jaanemann jaanesanam isn't it? Abhi my lover,get ready to also be Goenkas ka karta dharta. Manish gets a heart attack and my jaanejaan saves him;, Kairav's congenital heart issues are sorted by my jaanemann. This is exactly what will happen. Jaanemann doing Goenkas ki seva. Jaanesanam being Goenkas ka problem solver. Diamonds issue will soon also be sorted by BAE.

Papa Harsh be like: Birlas ki ek loti shaan mera beta, jaa kar beth gaya hai apne sasuraal. MANJARI apne bete se puchna, yeh bhi uska ghar hai yah phir Goenka house jaake settle hona hai?"

Sach mein yaar…. Kitna karega yeh Banda. They are expecting way too much. Abhi hospital sambhalega ghar ke saare problems handle karega and families ko manayega. Toh baaki sab kya baithe ke show dekhenge kya and these so called Akshu jaap people are blaming him so much even after he doing every possible thing.

3. So he lied to Vansh bhaiyya about pehle beheno ko settle karna hai. Plus, not shaming Anisha BUT I think Kairav can find someone better. They could have shown me.Vansh and Reem's story. I like them better.

4. A relationship has two people. Why I'd Kairav making all the decisions?

Exactly.

My answers in colour.

Let me ask one straight question,

If Abhi had given up like how Kairav is giving up on Anisha, then as a brother will he be quiet??? He was super angry with Abhi for nothing but a “hi” message to Arohi. The Goenka kids are simply framing the others in the name of family.

Pehle aise meethi baatein karo, unko pyaar mein kheencho phir Bol do ki nahi family nahi manegi

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I want to name our next CC: Fangirls badnaam hui, Abhimanyu tere liye😛😳😆

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Sach hi toh hai 😆

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Posted: 3 years ago

I have dropped this plan sadly because hum bahut phamous (famous) hojayenge, behen agar hamare Abhi ka naam hamare title main aagaya. Toh imma name it Munni badnaam hui darling tere liye. Then they will accuse us of being anti feminist because we named our CC after an item song.

Kitnaaaaa mazzzaaaa aayega🤣

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I have dropped this plan sadly because hum bahut phamous (famous) hojayenge, behen agar hamare Abhi ka naam hamare title main aagaya. Toh imma name it Munni badnaam hui darling tere liye. Then they will accuse us of being anti feminist because we named our CC after an item song.

Kitnaaaaa mazzzaaaa aayega🤣

So did you finalize the title yet?

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

So did you finalize the title yet?

Well I was going to name it Munni badnaam hui darling tere liye; then I thought best to avoid controversy.

So it will be Teri Hoon Jaan Le Rooh Mujhse Band Le❤️❤️

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Posted: 3 years ago

Kahaan hai sab?

Should we continue our discussions from yesterday? Also previous episodes?

I know Heer and I started talking about Ghum and YRHPK and Anupama and Shaheer but we can go back to talking about my jaanemann jaanesanam...

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Stardust91

Well I was going to name it Munni badnaam hui darling tere liye; then I thought best to avoid controversy.

So it will be Teri Hoon Jaan Le Rooh Mujhse Band Le❤️❤️

is it about the ene thread ? May be tera hone laga hoon 😆

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