Originally posted by: Dotslover22
Apko kisise pyar ho iska yeh matlab nahi ki woh apki liye sahi ho.
-Dr Abhay Sathe
Kya baat bola bande ne👏❤️
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Today's episode had a lot of good quotes and morals.
1) Shayad tumse pyaar tha hi nahi, us insaan se karti thi jo maine socha tha tum banoge - We many times are in love with the idea of someone/ or their potential in your eyes and not their reality, hence when reality hits you hard you are unable to accept why were we in love with this person in the first place. Its important to acknowledge what's in the present and accept and not gamble a future on the potential of change (which might never happen).
2) Kyunki koi standard utha nahi sakta, main apna gira nahi sakti - Hard truth to accept but I wish every person has the self respect and confidence to accept that its okay to have standards for a life partner. I mean its a life partner we are looking at, not going veggie or fruit shopping that "unees bees" is okay! What Vikrant said is a trademark response from society as you age, that your expectations are too high and no one can satisfy you but I am glad Deepika said what she did. You accepted it may be true but that's OKAY!! You rather live a satisfied life on your terms than a miserable one on others.
3) Apko kisise pyar ho iska yeh matlab nahi ki woh apki liye sahi ho - Another great one. Falling in love is very different to someone being right for you. Love can fade but true companionship/ partnership is defined by other requisites and that's the RIGHT person for you.
4) Forgive yourself - Be easy on yourself and that's the only way you can move on in life. Holding onto "whys" and "hows" doesn't give you anything, acceptance and forgiveness does :)
5) Gussa thodi dher ke liye hota hai, par friendship forever ke liye - And the most important pillar of Dhadkan is back - friendship. Friends are the ones who even after a rainy night, come together with the hope of seeing sunshine tomorrow. My fav aspect about Sia is she is all heart ❤️