Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #161 - Page 62

Originally posted by: deeps07

When they entered.. I felt.like..this pandit was one of those rackets kind of pandit.🙊..with dekhne ke liye bhakthi and all..aur andar full nasha business..🤪

I felt the same too🤣🤣

I don’t want to take names but there are plenty in India right now in each State - fake Babas and Gurus 🤣

The one thing my husband and I have followed consciously all these years is never to follow any ashram or fake babas. For us going to the Temple is more important than meeting these fake people who claim to have a connection with God 😆 I can’t thank God enough for giving me a progressive guy in my life who mainly believes in Science and broad thinking. He made my MIL change her mind about one of these fake babas and few years later he was arrested. My Jethji is even worse, if he ever sees one of them on TV he will ask my MIL to switch it off. I can’t stop laughing when my husband and Jeth go on a tirade bashing these fake ones😆

Originally posted by: deeps07

Pooh..actually dhara was not even the subject here..I dnt think writers were trying to emphasise mahaantha of dhara here..but they were trying to show , these too bahus have not grownup enough to be worthy enough to be a pandya bahu.(dhara is🤪)..and to support it, they show ravi laughing when rishitha is taunted about her actions to stop devs wedding and save pandyas from a fight with janus gundas by filing complaints against Janu.. I mean why did ravi laugh there..🤷‍♀️..same thing rishitha did. When ravi was taunted for slapping shiva when she was humiliated and questioned of her character in the worst way possible in front of a bunch of crowd. Rishitha was the one supporting her then right?..now she too laughed..🤷‍♀️..so they r technically making rishitha and ravi look like jokers who will learn their lesson with time to grow up and become like dhara.. ..all their sacrifices and hardwork are ignored and never mattered ..such a flimsy writing..I am so pissed.😵

That's my whole point deeps. Agar tumhe raavi ko galat dikhana tha, then why didnt you show her making mistakes? The last time raavi was harsh to shiva was during the yatra fight., And that also was a two way street.

They could have shown raavi sending the divorce papers, they could have shown her insulting and humilating shiva repeatedly, they could have shown her being disgusted by his smell and pushing him away. And then when she realised she is in love, she could have made up to him.but raavi stopped namecalling shiva and accepted him the way he is long back.

They could have shown shiva being inside his shell, hurt but loving and caring for her silently.

Then the audience would have actually bought this argument of raavi being immature. They would have symphatized with shiva.

What's the point of making shiva do all the kaands, making raavi put in all the efforts and then whitewashing him and demeaning raavi? 😆

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Mai to disha ki entry se kuch positivity ka wait kar rahi hu. Jab raavi ne kaha ki kuch kamaal kar to earn her sorry, i thought shiva would do something special for her. But bacchi has a big heart, pighla gayi.pata nahi woh din kab aayega, intezaar is all we can do 😒

Bold

Is there any news of disha entry ??? 🤔

Oooffooo.. The two minute segment+precap.. Thats all I watched... And

Main to thak gyi bhai

Cant chaubeys manage pandyas without kandyas even for a day.

Even the puja and bhog are amidst kaands.

Dev and shiva... Talk to my hand...not worth mentioning😈

Sudhaar do humare shiva ko makers🤦‍♀️

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

No

Ok ur line gave me mini attack 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

That's my whole point deeps. Agar tumhe raavi ko galat dikhana tha, then why didnt you show her making mistakes? The last time raavi was harsh to shiva was during the yatra fight., And that also was a two way street.

They could have shown raavi sending the divorce papers, they could have shown her insulting and humilating shiva repeatedly, they could have shown her being disgusted by his smell and pushing him away. And then when she realised she is in love, she could have made up to him.but raavi stopped namecalling shiva and accepted him the way he is long back.

They could have shown shiva being inside his shell, hurt but loving and caring for her silently.

Then the audience would have actually bought this argument of raavi being immature. They would have symphatized with shiva.

What's the point of making shiva do all the kaands, making raavi put in all the efforts and then whitewashing him and demeaning raavi? 😆

Raavi is writers scape goat. Anything others do will be conveniently blamed on her.

But I liked how Gaumbi supported her and had full trust on her and gave it back to Shiva.

That’s why I made a post 2 days ago, that Gaumbi’s role needs to be increased. He cannot be nodding his head for whatever Dhara says. I need him to speak up about Raavi in front of Suman and Dhara as well.

Enough is enough that both these girls have to keep proving to this nalayak family and their husbands every time. Rishita got excused this time only because she helped Shiva release from jail and made Anita withdraw the complaint. Else her life would have been equally miserable as Raavi now.
It is unfortunate that Raavi is getting the short end of the stick now.
Dhara’s situation used to be like this pre-leap post her marriage to Gautam. It took her several years to be accepted by Suman, but one good thing with Dhara, she has a supportive husband in Gaumbi from day 1 which the other 2 don’t have, probably will never get it😕

Originally posted by: mpks1

Raavi is writers scale host. Anything others do will be conveniently blamed on her.

But I liked how Gaumbi supported her and had full trust on her and gave it back to Shiva.

That’s why I made a post 2 days ago, that Gaumbi’s role needs to be increased. He cannot be nodding his head for whatever Dhara says. I need him to speak up about Raavi in front of Suman and Dhara as well.

Enough is enough that both these girls have to keep proving this nalayak family and their husbands every time. Rishita got excused this time only because she helped Shiva release from jail and made Anita withdraw the complaint itself. Else her life would have been equally miserable as Raavi now.
It is unfortunate that Raavi is getting the short end of the stuck now.
Dhara’s situation used to be like this pre-leap post her marriage to Gautam. It took her several years to be accepted by Suman, but one good thing Dhara was a supportive husband in Gaumbi from day 1 which the other 2 don’t have, probably will never get it😕

I want Raavi to leave & Gaumbhi to support her, standing up to Shiva & Suman Kaki. I want him to help her once she leaves and keep in touch, watch while Shiva drowns in guilt & repents, reject his plea for help, and welcome Raavi when she comes back. In short, I want him to sort of adopt her officially.

This is one relationship that has so much potential for exploration & depth. Both of them are constantly defending themselves to their spouses, often overshadowed by them, still love them with all. Both of them were rejected at the mandap, and yet made the best of the situation they had and came out on top (a bit of a stretch with Gaumbhi, I know, but bear with me).

Plus, watching Kinshuk and Alice in such scenes, I think, would be good. Kinshuk projects that sort of calm & protective vibe, and Alice pretty much nails everything. ❤️

My opinion about the show

I think the main problem is the way makers tries to highlight one charactertrait of any characterso much so that audience strts losing interest why? becoz it becomes repeatitive let us assume this show revolves around devar bhabhi bond and to be more precise dhara - shiva bond

Coming to dhara what she did 10years ago was her choice and a wise decision no body asked her to do so she was jst 19then and decided not to conceive till all her devars become mature and responsible but was it the only reason ? my opinion is no and the reason why i called it to be wise decision becoz whole family was in debt then plus her MIL was totally paralysed which means they need to save for her treatment so solely pushing whole reason on devars that they were kids that's why she did not conceived is jst lame becoz family planning is big thing it requires lot of preparation specially from financial side where they were struggling to snd all three devars to school they jst can't take baacha like that and add one more family member

Even if i consider her case as sacrifice still the makers highlighted it too much like everytime some or the other character is reminding about her sacrifice then it no longer remains a sacrifice it becomes a tool to manipulate which she often uses by saying maine palla hai mere bacche hai meri parwarish etc etc no mother claims her child so much like she does becoz whole society knows what a mother do for their child makers need not to tell or rather i would say remind everytime what she had done

Now coming to shiva for me the sacrifice he did was the real one (i might sound bias ) but why i feel so becoz he never dhindorafied about his sacrifices not even to his closest he never revealed what he did for family, for raavi and why he did

But now the problem is his behaviour even though he divorced raavi for her betterment we all as shivi fans and neutral viewers got attached to him more becoz he truly loves his chipkali and he deliberetely never said sorry to raavi becoz he knew if he does so raavi will come back and have to live with him as compromise(which he believed so) even he went against dhara and gautam jst to free raavi from this compromised relation which was big thing for him going against his parental figures becoz of his love and this is shiva we all fell for who will stand for raavi even if situation requires against his own family

During disha kaand he never stood for raavi against his mother and even asked dhara to stay out of it becoz he wanted his saache ehsaas okay i understood this point too that he would make move only if raavi truly wanted to live with him

Finally he took the step in newyear to propose her for which i give credit but jst one misunderstanding and he forgot all her good deeds here lies the problem here his sacrifice makes no sense becoz the way he is behaving right now with her makes question his love for her (not talking about domestic violence case) but everything else like she jst saved herself from being trafficked and shiva rescused her jst to take her home and allege her even when he knew she was not in her senses plus throwing tomatoes (nobody does that if u proclaim love and even though u r angry) plus not allowing her to sit with family for dinner all this makes question his love for raavi and his sacrifice that he was doing for raavi jst only rescuing her from NDE and showcase your love only when she is even in slightest pain becomes all questionable

I don't know how makers gonna take this track if it shows shiva's anger issues like how it overpowers his love along with his redemption then that will definetly fetch then trps otherwise i don't know for how many days kdice off-screen chemistry will make me (and many more like me) to watch this show

Originally posted by: mpks1

I felt the same too🤣🤣

I don’t want to take names but there are plenty in India right now in each State - fake Babas and Gurus 🤣

The one thing my husband and I have followed consciously all these years is never to follow any ashram or fake babas. For us going to the Temple is more important than meeting these fake people who claim to have a connection with God 😆 I can’t thank God enough for giving me a progressive guy in my life who mainly believes in Science and broad thinking. He made my MIL change her mind about one of these fake babas and few years later he was arrested. My Jethji is even worse, if he ever sees one of them on TV he will ask my MIL to switch it off. I can’t stop laughing when my husband and Jeth go on a tirade bashing these fake ones😆

Ohh yes..I too have a similar experience..my father in law was a blind believer in one of those shady guy( and abt whom I had heard rumours abt being jailed for drug rackets too)..my husband too is ofnthe same opinion as me..just temple and prayers are enough..so I am alright.. though even if he believed..I wouldn't have followed it.. belief is always personal choice..no one can force anybody..so fine.. But my fil..😪..he won't give that freedom ..I had even visited one ashram in his pressure once. I hated even the aura there...temple's always feel bright.. gives us peace in the heart..here it was the opposite...I was feeling restless.. and everything felt off...the people were too ignorant. Talking stupid stuffs blind belief..doing superstitious stuffs..boy child is the best.🤪. during the initial days of marrg, my husband was away at work..and I was at my father in laws place for some weeks... I was left to deal with it and my husband said whatever I do I have his mental support.🤷‍♀️.😠.so I had to tell my father in law that I won't come to that asram after that..and never I will believe such things. he didn't like it..but let me off...thankfully becz I objected, my mil too objected ...she never liked to go there either😆...and she was let off too.....and one day he brought a letter and read it to me..something that said..the priest/man( God he called).. wrote it to him..saying he knows his daughter in law doesn't believe him. And it's OK... I just looked at my father in law..I dnt knw why.. The devotion he had in his expression. And I laughed out loud..🙊..he didn't like it..and started showing irritation and complaining to my husband abt me.... after that my husband realised the danger in me dealing with this my way..and he started dealing with his dad abt the subject for me too. 😆anyways..that man was exposed after some years..🤣

I think the writers are worst. They want to glorify Dhara but after haveli there is not even one scene which makes you like Dhara. They want us to feel the pain on Shiva, but whatever they write, it makes me hate him more & more. They want to show Raavi & Rishita as jokers and undeserved bahus but with every track, Raavi is coming out as the most sensible person in the house.

Idk what are they trying to execute exactly but they are failing miserably