Originally posted by: Bluekohl
It depends on your location. As in from where you/your parents come from. Both my parents come from rural/townish north indian BG and we have strict codes about black and white. They are nope. However if I were to get married, my parents would be fine, because it'd be delhi.
I think you can wear black... just not on weddings/ any pious occasion, pooja etc. But isn't black considered taboo in other cultures too? In weddings it's certainly a stigma. Once we were shopping for lehangas, and the woman beside us did not buy a lehanga she really liked just because it was black.
Ah I see
Mum just doesn't like wearing black at all. Blouse or something is okay but not saree. As long as there's a mix of colours. But for her, married must wear red/brown bindi. I told her I don't care and she stopped bothering about me 😅
On the other hand she strictly doesn't wear pure white. I understand it's also something that isn't auspicious.
That Lehenga bit is actually quite sad. I'm very picky so if I reject that, I probably would have to settle for something I don't like and the feeling is awful.
I believe they were full black for Christian funerals. White for Chinese and Hindu funerals. We don't do that in my fam. I've seen people wear random colours last time