Member Topic: Your Thoughts On Marriage 💒

When I say Marriage

You say what ?

I say chillar nahin hai mere pass

How the heck would we know? You're the one who's married, you tell us. Is it worth the trouble? 😆

I’m not married (not that I know of at least), so I can’t give you my exact thoughts. However, I do like having my own space and no responsibilities, so being married might be a struggle for me. I like the idea of chilling with my invisible husband but then going home to my own bed. That way, I won’t get sick of him. 😆

Basically, the ideal marriage for me would be to see him 3-4 times a week and have at least 3 days off. I’m sure the readers will conclude that I’ll never get married if I hold onto these expectations. It’s okay, I’ve made my peace. 🤗

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I’m not married (not that I know of at least), so I can’t give you my exact thoughts. However, I do like having my own space and no responsibilities, so being married might be a struggle for me. I like the idea of chilling with my invisible husband but then going home to my own bed. That way, I won’t get sick of him. 😆

Basically, the ideal marriage for me would be to see him 3-4 times a week and have at least 3 days off. I’m sure the readers will conclude that I’ll never get married if I hold onto these expectations. It’s okay, I’ve made my peace. 🤗

@bold: as opposed to the possibility of you being married to a banyan tree like Aishwarya and you not knowing? You do like to boast about special encounters with trees, after all. 😆😆

😆 😆

On a serious note, I totally feel that whole wanting my own space thing too. If there can be a hybrid arrangement with marriage, I might give it some consideration too. 😆

Originally posted by: SmittenKitten

@bold: as opposed to the possibility of you being married to a banyan tree like Aishwarya and you not knowing? You do like to boast about special encounters with trees, after all. 😆😆

😆 😆

On a serious note, I totally feel that whole wanting my own space thing too. If there can be a hybrid arrangement with marriage, I might give it some consideration too. 😆

Who even knows. A person once very confidently asked me how my kids were and because they sounded so sure of me having children, I even questioned whether I had a few hidden underneath my bed or something. I could’ve sworn I’d remember the pain of childbirth though. 😆

We should make this hybrid arrangement a legit thing. Maybe start our own aadha-shaadi.com business. 😂

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I’m not married (not that I know of at least), so I can’t give you my exact thoughts. However, I do like having my own space and no responsibilities, so being married might be a struggle for me. I like the idea of chilling with my invisible husband but then going home to my own bed. That way, I won’t get sick of him. 😆

Basically, the ideal marriage for me would be to see him 3-4 times a week and have at least 3 days off. I’m sure the readers will conclude that I’ll never get married if I hold onto these expectations. It’s okay, I’ve made my peace. 🤗

I knew 2 such couples in my previous workplace who use to meet/stay together only on weekends and holidays😆 One had issue with traffic so Monday to Friday stayed near office and then on weekend goes to her home. Pandemic might have changed things.

Don’t know don’t care. I am seeing too many of my friends divorcing so I don’t feel like marriage is necessarily a good step. Everyone wants companionship though so I’ll wait it out for someone compatible & then see.

Or you know, I could always be a sugar baby. 🙃

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Who even knows. A person once very confidently asked me how my kids were and because they sounded so sure of me having children, I even questioned whether I had a few hidden underneath my bed or something. I could’ve sworn I’d remember the pain of childbirth though. 😆

We should make this hybrid arrangement a legit thing. Maybe start our own aadha-shaadi.com business. 😂

😆 the sheer insolence of some people, right?! I just can't tell which one's better -- that or you showing them your driver's license only for them to come back with "oh, but you look so young".....🤔 Looking forever21 has never been so troublesome.

I'm on board with aadhi-shaadi.com!

Originally posted by: SmittenKitten

😆 the sheer insolence of some people, right?! I just can't tell which one's better -- that or you showing them your driver's license only for them to come back with "oh, but you look so young".....🤔 Looking forever21 has never been so troublesome.

I'm on board with aadhi-shaadi.com!

Girl, with me turning 30 tomorrow, I’m only hoping the oh you look so young comments will remain for another 40 years. 😆