Originally posted by: Deep_deep
Hi guys! Ya Hari.. Morning itslf watchg the tone of Arohi is a headache.. But somewhere she too cares for the goenkas.. its just that she lost her most precious person in front of her eyes and in that trauma its usual to put the blame on somebody else and ak was the easiest choice and victim.. Many reasons are there for arohis complex insecurity, lack of good maternal background and influence where she could have got connected with somebody and guided into right path. Moreover aks biological mom was the favourite and maternal home had better influence and status which fuelled Ar insecurities. Second Aks conditioning of sacrificing and giving priority to Ar happiness over hers. So she is used of getting her way suppressing Ak.. These behavioural issues wont disappear in a day.. It will take lots of counselling or probably several incidents of personal losses in both these girls life for them to realize where they are wrong. Lifelong grudges or emotional trauma are difficult to let go or for that person to understand or see the real picture around them. Thats the reason both these girls have trust issues and doesnt reveal things to the elders and try to work out on their own.. one by bullying and yelling, the other by being mute spectator and bottling up.
Ar for sure wont let go ak easily and instigate and plot against ak and obviously each time abhi will try to protect her. So indirectly ar has to fight with abhi..
Im ok with ar until she doesnt harm ak.. At the end of the day, they are siblings.. actually its very diffcult to see them like that.. Siblings are such a huge support system.
Abhi very much needed this talk with Kv, now he got the picture and see where ak is coming from, her lifelong baggage and guilt and pain. Now probably he has the reason of her panic attacks and slowly will cure her. And KV warned him as well for the future conflicts that can arise related to Ar..
Meher can you tell me Y the name plate of Goenkas home near the entrance gate have thu thu thu.. Do you know the story behind it??
Hari how ru now??
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