Abhimanyu is not a neglected child..pls share insights on problems.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Abhimanyu is a loved child of the family....

His mother loves him..Father loves him...

Anand is proud of him...neil..nisha..parth shefali all loves him...

Then why is there a deep mental problem...he is not normal..

He has daddy issues...but not that profound for Abhimanyu to display obbsessive..psychotic behaviour...

He is too extreme..dangerous..his possessiveness

Akshu has a deep reason...seeing sirat's death in front of her and that too arohi's accusations of her being responsible for it..sirat was a mother to akshu no doubt..akshu loved her..in that 8 years leap..sirat has brought akshu up..loosing 2 mothers..Father is not a normal thing..it's breaking...

i can understand akshu and her mental trauma..

If not for harshad and his controlled performance..Abhimanyu would have been a full psycho .. only my love for harshad is making me tolerate Abhimanyu..

Abhi grew up in a toxic household, watching his father constantly abuse his mother. Children who grow up watching their parents fighting all the time suffer a lot psychologically. There was no love between his parents, and he saw that. As a result, he felt the need to protect his mother from a very young age. This type of feeling of burden can deeply impact a child. While his father does love him, he also has a twisted way of showing it. And, the damage he caused to his mother, also took a toll on his relationship with his own son. Abhi never felt safe or protected around his father, as a child should. There are parts of Abhi that appear childish, because he was never able to be a child during the beginning years of his life. He was surrounded by abuse, trauma, and chaos... emotions that no child should have to bear. We also don't know the details of his childhood beyond his parent's equation...and I'm sure they will be revealed in the upcoming tracks. The rest of the people in his family do love him, but they also have their own selfish reasons... in yesterday's episode, Mahima wanted to make sure Abhi doesn't quit the hospital just as much as she wanted him to stay home. This is not called true love. When you feel a lack of love, you grasp on to whatever you can. That is why Abhi is so deeply attached to his mother and now Akshu. He wants to protect both of them from all of the pain in the world, because he himself knows what pain feels like. He gives his all to those he loves, so naturally he expects the same in return. And he is ignorant of his family (excluding his mom and brother), because he has been on his own from a young age. His mom was always too weak to stand up for him the way she should have. So, he has gotten used to making his own decisions. Akshu will teach him the power of family and we have already started to see those shifts in him. Yesterday, it was clear that he was concerned for his father when he fell during the fight. He just didn't let it show, because of the toxicity that has existed between them for so many years.