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Originally posted by: Zenab78

If they sit and have talk this will hardly take 2-3 episode but we will have to watch only makers know how many episode for all these things.

They really need to share all these things to each other to start a journey together coz without knowing their past and insecurities how they will help each other to overcome it and deal with it together.

The main thing i have been wondering whilst watching old episodes is WHY WHY is Abhi such a loner. He has Neil; he has Parth and he has Nishtha; yet he is so so lonely. WHY???

Originally posted by: Stardust91

The main thing i have been wondering whilst watching old episodes is WHY WHY is Abhi such a loner. He has Neil; he has Parth and he has Nishtha; yet he is so so lonely. WHY???

Maybe when Akshara will come then all siblings and junior Birla will bond more with each other.

Originally posted by: Zenab78

that's a valid question but I think he doesn't connect well with his family... Nishtha is young but Parth and Neil are his brother but he still doesn't share anything with them. Neil is close to Abhi and he is always aware about what is going inside his brothers head. I wish they had bond like Oberoi brothers.

Maybe when Akshara will come then all siblings and junior Birla will bond more with each other.

I think when Akshu comes, Abhi will initially be too too obsessed with her. He will literally follow her around everywhere.....singing at the NGO, Goenka house, "everywhere she went; her Abhimanyu was sure to go"....

That's why Harsh will then erupt and we will get Abhi protecting her and shielding her.

Yessss...I wish Abhi, Parth and Neil were like Oberoi brothers. Why aren't they? Is that also a ploy by Harsh to keep them apart? Something is fishy with this family....Abhi is just alienated from them. Yet he still cares about them and asks after them.

Originally posted by: Zenab78

oh... I hadn't watched it 😆

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Exhibit B

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I think it's just how the Birla family works, there's no obvious reason why the brothers aren't tight (except Abhi and Neil), it's just the circumstances.

Everyone is struggling with something or the other, on the personal front.

Abhi is the most successful, but he hates his mother's treatment in the family. His anger is explosive, and he has too many battles that he's fighting within himself.

Neil struggles for acceptance, only Manjiri and Abhi consider him one of their own. But Sir is rude af to him, and the rest of the family is neutral. Parth may be on team Neil, but they haven't explored it much.

Parth has his own issues with his career, strained relations with parents and wife, and the unfulfilled wishes on the music front.

There's SO much scope of a good back story here, and Akshu being instrumental in bringing everyone together, that I'm waiting for them to explore the whole Birla clan thing. Want all these lose ends to be fixed xD

Originally posted by: Stardust91

The main thing i have been wondering whilst watching old episodes is WHY WHY is Abhi such a loner. He has Neil; he has Parth and he has Nishtha; yet he is so so lonely. WHY???

The main reason is that his parents never had a cordial relation. His father was always humiliating him mom and being mean to her every minute. And when parents go through strained relationships it affects the child emotionally.

In the initial episodes even Mahima was sort of negative. She just treated Manjiri like a house help who was unqualified and not upto her mark. Anand also kept on taunting his wife.

Parth again had strained relationship with his wife. So overall what he saw was just insecurity, jealousy in his house.

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

I think it's just how the Birla family works, there's no obvious reason why the brothers aren't tight (except Abhi and Neil), it's just the circumstances.

Everyone is struggling with something or the other, on the personal front.

Abhi is the most successful, but he hates his mother's treatment in the family. His anger is explosive, and he has too many battles that he's fighting within himself.

Neil struggles for acceptance, only Manjiri and Abhi consider him one of their own. But Sir is rude af to him, and the rest of the family is neutral. Parth may be on team Neil, but they haven't explored it much.

Parth has his own issues with his career, strained relations with parents and wife, and the unfulfilled wishes on the music front.

There's SO much scope of a good back story here, and Akshu being instrumental in bringing everyone together, that I'm waiting for them to explore the whole Birla clan thing. Want all these lose ends to be fixed xD

Abhi and Neil seem tight but when Abhi was telling Akshu how lonely he is, all he mentioned was Manjari...why didn't he say that he has Neil...we know its not to garner sympathy then why?

He needs to tell Akshu what his battles are...how can she marry him without knowing what she is in for...what his struggles are; what battles he fights everyday.

Neil does struggle and how I wish they would realise that there is more to life than just being in the medical profession. Neil seems to be good with organisational skills so why can't he manage something or work elsewhere...

Is it because they are in a small city and not in Mumbai?

So you think that like Naira, Akshu will come and change Birla House?

Won't that be seen as interfering? Won't Abhi ask her to mind her own business?

Originally posted by: Stardust91

I think when Akshu comes, Abhi will initially be too too obsessed with her. He will literally follow her around everywhere.....singing at the NGO, Goenka house, "everywhere she went; her Abhimanyu was sure to go"....

That's why Harsh will then erupt and we will get Abhi protecting her and shielding her.

Yessss...I wish Abhi, Parth and Neil were like Oberoi brothers. Why aren't they? Is that also a ploy by Harsh to keep them apart? Something is fishy with this family....Abhi is just alienated from them. Yet he still cares about them and asks after them.

He is protect her every time

Birla clan is fishy and we will get to see all of it very soon

Originally posted by: Zenab78

He will but I hope he keeps a balance between his job and love life

He is protect her every time

Birla clan is fishy and we will get to see all of it very soon

I don't think initially after AbhiRa ki shaadi there will be much hospital hospital because we will get 1. Abhi thinking how he got so lucky scenes 2. Abhi watching her in the kitchen scenes 3. Waking each other up scenes 4. Feeding scenes 5. Singing scenes while he just watches.

Literally he will get all the "haq" he has been craving so imagine him.

We will get the Abhi who is gentle with her; except obviously their banter and their oye oye to each other.

I remember there was a Kaira scene where Kittu helps her get ready by putting ubtan on her arms.

This is DKP; not Birds Productions thankfully, they gave Kaira fans EVERYTHING. They might have had separations and Swarna going cuckoo and Vedika but they gave Kaira EVERYTHING. Focus on that. They will give AbhiRa moments, festivals, lovey dovey stuff fights and maybe thanks to Aarohi separations but unless we are being duped, AbhiRa will get what Kaira had.

YRKKH is DKP and SP's flagship; they won't just stop. I hope at least.

Originally posted by: delo

The main reason is that his parents never had a cordial relation. His father was always humiliating him mom and being mean to her every minute. And when parents go through strained relationships it affects the child emotionally.

In the initial episodes even Mahima was sort of negative. She just treated Manjiri like a house help who was unqualified and not upto her mark. Anand also kept on taunting his wife.

Parth again had strained relationship with his wife. So overall what he saw was just insecurity, jealousy in his house.

He says he knows everything...I don't think he knows he is adopted...if he knew he would make sure Neil got his true rights. Abhi isn't the type to take away someone's rights....if he knows that Neil is the true heir of the Birlas, not him then he would have done everything to make sure.

It will be so heartbreaking for him to find out that Manjari might not be his real mother.

So will he hold it against Manjari? Will he leave Birla house? Will we get a K3G scenario?

Mahima is annoying but she also reflects people I have come across who feel that women who are homemakers don't understand what's its like to have a career and a job.

As for Parth, why can't he take a step back and admire his wife for her struggles. Maybe that's where Abhi will be different? He will support Akshara and encourage her. Akshara being sensible will also be different from Shefali and draw her boundaries.

What if they show Akshara becoming a big music star and she starts going to events and promotional parties at night and Abhi is upset because he isn't spending time with her? Or will he actually go to those events with her? Lekin wahaan uska kya kaam?