Originally posted by: RainFire125
Alrighty, no rotten tomatoes or chappals at me pls!!! You can give me galis, i will take it but lets not waste tomatoes, alright??? 😉😉
I went and rewatched the episodes again from Monday (YES, I am that MAD!!), and now that I have, I want to tell what i observed!
Our mind is such a powerful element that we feel so much irrespective of the current existence of a situation. Our mind just goes back in time and feels that its happening all over again. Mukku reliving those scenes again, even though right now she is OUT and Safe, is the power of mind!! She still has pent up anger, pent up pain and no wonder she is running still and is scared to put roots. Fear makes one do that. Fear to acknowledge things first and then face them. If at all the writers give us some scenes of doctor visits or visiting a therapist, i think it might not be a cakewalk for Mukku as somewhere this girl also has ego. She has accepted Anu wholeheartedly and has appreciated her today, she does love her BRO too, no doubt, but above all this is her buried anger and pain. The physical pain surfaced with Anu encouraging her to get it out, however her pain is still very much there. I agree with ANu that this trauma can resurface again. Its to be seen whether the writers bring that up again or not for their spice and kaand! Also the day she completely forgives her brother for making choices for her and letting her make choices, even if it turns up wrong, that day she will stop running. Its imp for us to allow people to make choices. That gives them the accountability and even if they are wrong, it becomes their mistake and not someone's else. So should i assume that this time when she makes a choice again, Anuj will let her or as a bro he will again stop her?? Lets wait and watch.
Coming to Anu and V and him being in this whole track - this had a purpose even though I hated it too. I did not want him to see Mukku's outburst as that will give him a scope to manipulate her. He knows that ANuj made choices for her and that had backfired. However, for this whole plot and moreso the conversation that the trio had about abuse in general, who better than V to listen in to all that!!
There was so much power in that scene when Anu was speaking her heart out and the focus was on V. I know everyone is upset about V’s presence, i was too, but whether V acknowledged Anu’s words or not, this moment mattered to Anu. This was the first time a survivor could face her abuser and release her pain. In the presence of that MAN, Anu was able to speak about her pain, and trauma. She suppressed her pain just like any survivor and never addressed it, except that one time when Devika forced her to vent it OUT. I also now understand that her flashback is not only ack what hapened to her was also abuse, but it also gave her that idea to make Mukku vent out. She also must have though that how could she have let it happen to her!! I felt this heavily weighed on her for 25 years. The lack of support system to be able to stand up for herself, to scream, to express!! Imagine the burden of fear when V started to vent his anger on her. This almost made her wonder if yelling could have lead to physical harm? Perhaps V hasn’t acknowledged his evil and sins but this moment is everything… this is the moment that Anu was able to consciously face her abuser and speak her pain. And V was listening!! I am not saying he felt any remorse, not at all!! But he listened!! That was IMP for Anu and somewhere for me too.
V is a totaly egoistic man, we saw that vividly in today's episode. We will start seeing it more in the upcoming episodes. His being in this plot, is also a illusion to him that he has lend his hand, he has helped Anuj!! Which inturn adds fodder to his ego!!
Anu is a very very good person at heart, her saying thanku today actually did not surprise me!! Her aspect of "have moved on" is also very visible. She ofcourse has not forgotten, but she has forgiven atleast what was done to her and has moved on. This habit is prevalent in many people in reality too and we cannot do anything. I have told this before too - we accept it or we dont!!
Now, does V understand what happened to Mukku was wrong???? maybe he has empathized with Anuj and understood the position of a brother but I don’t think he still fully comprehends what he did to Anu was a abuse!! He may recall the memories and state that men need to change themselves but does Vanraj truly understand the extent of his actions? One thing is true, it is our duty to to speak up when sense something is wrong but sadly even in the US many individuals avoid confrontation. We start to rationalize things, but we dont ask questions!! We need to learn to ask the questions, are you okay? do you need help? Perhaps we’re afraid to hear the truth so we turn an ignorant ear. And similar to Kavya, we project our anger instead of trying to understand what’s happening. I am glad Babuji is starting to speak up but part of me is so angered by their empathy towards Kavya while they watched Anu be mentally tortured. Yes, Baa was part of the problem, but could Babuji not have to shown Vanraj the anger he did when the affair surfaced? As Anu said once remaining silent is an injustice in itself. Perhaps they’ve learned from their mistakes, but no one has fully acknowledged the injustices done to Anu for the last 25 years!!! Do the Writers have the guts to show this pls????????????
Mukku finally got the love, the security of family, the blanket where she can go under. However she still has demons to face and fully come out. It was good for Anu to call out Anuj also today as he has to come out of the guilt and move ahead!! Let us see how these three get entangled again with V and the story moves ahead. Today's episode really covered good aspects. Precap - no comments, let things play out!!!
As usual am ignoring MaAn moments...hahahahaha, u guys talk about it better than i do!!!!!
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