Abhay a cheater??? Like really?? 🤨

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Like there is this narrative going around the hospital that Abhay cheated Sia and that's why she broke up with him, some would say she was emotionally cheated.

How many days did it take Abhay to realise what he felt for Deepika? 1 week maybe? How many days did it take Abhay to confess the same to Sia after realising that, 3 or 4 days? Now when a person falls out of love or develops feelings for another person will they go and tell their existing partner right away? No, they wait for the right time or moment while trying their best not to hurt them, Abhay too tried to tell Sia about the same, but then her dad showed up, reveals about his lupus disease, then blackmail him into getting engaged, he did try to stall the engagement too but then I guess his impulses took over when he saw Vipika together and made a mess but thankfully when she kept insisting on him telling her especially when he was trying his best to be a good partner to her and brush his feelings for a third person away, he told her because it seemed like she was ready ti handle it. But what I don't understand is how does one become a cheater for just realising their feelings for another person? It's feelings you don't have control over it, but what matters is not acting on it.

If Abhay is cheater just for having feelings for Deepika then what is Deepika for having the same for Vikrant??

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Posted: 3 years ago
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some of us were discussing the same yesterday on the EDT. Abhay in no way is a cheater. At least not to me 😊

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chir-Cute

some of us were discussing the same yesterday on the EDT. Abhay in no way is a cheater. At least not to me 😊

Same for me, but some people are like what he did to Sia was wrong, and I'm like how is that wrong? He broke her heart no doubt but that is any day better than keeping her further in the dark. He is literally being called a cheat for just having feelings for someone else, which could literally happen to anyone.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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I agree. It is literally normal to get attracted to another person. What is important is whether you act on it or not. And Abhay never pursued his feelings becoz he decided commitment is more important to him.


And Sia claiming she is more hurt cos Abhay didn't tell her as even a friend is complete bullshit. Even if he had told her earlier, she would still label him a cheater. And if she is so vocal about abhay being a cheater at the hospital, how about telling the entire world about how her mis-calculation costed a patient's life? How conveniently she let go her mistake. And how is she any different than Ansari who gossips, while she too keeps on calling abhay cheater wherever she goes?


Also Sia calling Ansari names that he is ghatiya, disgusting... etc, is downright mannerless. How civilized is she herself? If you don't like Ansari's company, just maintain professional relationship - only formal.

I find Sia and Vikrant on same level wrt manipulating others. While Sia does it unknowingly, Vikrant is an experinced hunter.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Technically its not cheating. He wasn't having nay affair. You developed one sided feelings for someone, figured it out and then blast😆

Guy was confused, Sia didn't let him make decision for himself, abhay's impulsive decision leading to engagement then realization and clarification that both are sailing in wrong directions.

Relationships are complex and sometimes we failed to understand that not every relations are meant to be together. Actually, its always better to part away on good terms before you could ruin each other.



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Posted: 3 years ago
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No, Abhay is not a cheater. It's better to say about your feelings and break the engagement during the initial stages instead of playing along and then disclose it. This would be more heartbreaking.

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