episode 471- pretensions hurt the most to those who pretend. - Page 2

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Is such a love healthy? I don’t find abhis way of making Akshu realise her mistake in anyway healthy or fair for that matter. He is using anger when not once has he tried to use intelligence or gentleness. He has never ever Tried to find out why she gets panic attacks, why she lived away from home. It’s always anger with him. Why?

Ukgirl22-

Like everyone else you are also ignoring Akshara.

Please instead of noticing what Abhimanyu does to her, give some attention to what she keeps doing with him.

You will not feel so agitated. Abhimanyu wanted to stay away from her she kept barging into his life giving him those puppy eyes n instigating him.

You dont expect him to give her the same puppy eyes did you?

He did what he felt right just like she kept doing what she felt.

If he is hurt and his mom is not tending to him nor is his fiance who is she to go with jamun ka patta and prick his heart like a babul ka kaanta?

One sided viewpoints are toxic.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Is such a love healthy? I don’t find abhis way of making Akshu realise her mistake in anyway healthy or fair for that matter. He is using anger when not once has he tried to use intelligence or gentleness. He has never ever Tried to find out why she gets panic attacks, why she lived away from home. It’s always anger with him. Why?

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

in general male hero's are shown this way in posessiveness. So they are considered for screen only..we should not imagine them.in.life. it's an unhealthy love in a way but it's ITV procedure. Is female right then pushing him to the core to accept the relationship which he can't anytime..in real life we can never do this. So let them be onscreen burning themselves. Cvs will throw them away from cliffhanger and open their eyes.

Why are so many people saying Akshu is pushing him to Arohi. Akshu never told Abhi to marry Arohi. He came up with this genius plan to move on to rely on his own. Using his high level of degrees and experience. Once he took this decision she has told him to keep the maan of it and said that she will never hurt her sister by being the reason he breaks the marriage that HE INITIATED! How is that her pushing him to marry Arohi! What am I missing here?

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

in general male hero's are shown this way in posessiveness. So they are considered for screen only..we should not imagine them.in.life. it's an unhealthy love in a way but it's ITV procedure. Is female right then pushing him to the core to accept the relationship which he can't anytime..in real life we can never do this. So let them be onscreen burning themselves. Cvs will throw them away from cliffhanger and open their eyes.

I am more like Abhimanyu. I never got dhak dhak but I did not like this hanging in there forever kind of behavior.

If you like someone tell them immediately and chill in their company, have fun and laugh together or dont waste time after unnecessary stupid daydreams.

Dreams should be seen so when you wake up, make efforts to make them come true.

So I like Abhimanyu more. If I think I am not good enough for someone why will I keep going in front of them and stare at them like an idiot. Thats giving an opportunity to people to bully. dont you think ppl will say why are you harassing me staring at me like that.

And as you say, ITV hai to dekho.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Why are so many people saying Akshu is pushing him to Arohi. Akshu never told Abhi to marry Arohi. He came up with this genius plan to move on to rely on his own. Using his high level of degrees and experience. Once he took this decision she has told him to keep the maan of it and said that she will never hurt her sister by being the reason he breaks the marriage that HE INITIATED! How is that her pushing him to marry Arohi! What am I missing here?

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

He came in his own for Arohi but he is telling Ak that i cant moveon. It's his prob so he has to backout. But he is pushing Ak to claim her love so that he can take her. Why will Ak do it. Instead she told accept that relationship which you agreed. That's where he is becoming mad and pushing Ak. He will reject and go that's only way left for his peace.

Not agreed, but prompted. The second time no one but Abhi initiated the relationship talk with Arohi.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I am more like Abhimanyu. I never got dhak dhak but I did not like this hanging in there forever kind of behavior.

If you like someone tell them immediately and chill in their company, have fun and laugh together or dont waste time after unnecessary stupid daydreams.

Dreams should be seen so when you wake up, make efforts to make them come true.

So I like Abhimanyu more. If I think I am not good enough for someone why will I keep going in front of them and stare at them like an idiot. Thats giving an opportunity to people to bully. dont you think ppl will say why are you harassing me staring at me like that.

And as you say, ITV hai to dekho.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

I like both of them. One is forced super expressive what he needs. Another is supressive due to Arohi. If not Arohi their story could have moved fast till now. We just need to analyse both in situations not going for anyone biased. That's how we love a couple as whole. Both are like theeki meethi chutney for me.

Teekhi Meethi is a good analogy.

I am teekhi but I like Meethi. 😉

so ya ya complete and whole.

Bilkul.

I love both of them.

And I am shipping Harshali and AbhiRa both wholeheartedly.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

He came in his own for Arohi but he is telling Ak that i cant moveon. It's his prob so he has to backout. But he is pushing Ak to claim her love so that he can take her. Why will Ak do it. Instead she told accept that relationship which you agreed. That's where he is becoming mad and pushing Ak. He will reject and go that's only way left for his peace.

He told today he doesn't want any heart connection or relationship connection with her. So maybe if truth comes out or not he is going to break the marriage.

Originally posted by: UKGirl22

Not agreed, but prompted. The second time no one but Abhi initiated the relationship talk with Arohi.