Udariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #48 - Page 63

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Despite the fact that I'm really shy introvert, if it's related to emotions, then I am very straightforward in that thing.

Btw I might be crossing the line, and if I'm do tell, and I apologize in advance, but have you thought that your past experiences might be hindering you in expressing your emotions? Shraddha love isn't logical. There's no reason why we love some people more than others. I've met absolutely perfect guys yet couldn't feel anything for them...it's not a science. So if you do feel something, go with it. Sure, there's a chance you might get a heartbreak, but honestly it's still worth it. It fulfills you as a human being.

After covid, seeing so many people die around me, my own mom got it, it just made me realise how fragile life is. Do tell your friends, fam, loved ones that you love them.

Romantically toh I'm just done. Uski tension 3 logon ko hai...mom, faltu ke relatives, and jewelry showroom ka manager.

Originally posted by: 08_maria

hehe ema time and all , he used have those half sleeved shirts , with half of the shirt buttons open , bande ko dekh ke suffocation hota tha pehle. After Jass entry Fateh looked abit different , his proper dressing style made him attractive than before.

But airport kaand and I'm all in love with that smirk of his , and ya physiche baaju rakho to Fateh is using brains these days hence Ankit is looking hotter🤣🤣. But I've always liked Ankit's facecuts 🌝

Same. He's dressed so nicely during airport kaand. And holy F so sharp. Like it's nice that he's a good physque, but kapde pehnana bhi zaroori hota hai. If you wear clothes toh bhi dikhega ki you're ripped.

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

One thing that I always wanted in my partner should be understanding , body and looks nahi bhi hoga chalega.. cz that will fade with time..

I know sab baatein hai but if both treat each other as equal tabhi gaadi patri par chalti hai 😆 pyaar ho naa ho respect and trust hona zaroori hai + giving each other space..

I know I sound like broken record n purani haveli daadi amma types but personal experience se bol rahi hoon..

I had my ups and downs and with ultimate disasters but I moved on..

Originally posted by: 08_maria

my father has literally said that he'll find someone and send me with him on dates to fall in love🤣🤣

He says before me he needs to fall for my future man🤭🤭

My dad doesn't believe in love marriage culture keeping in view our sick society , like there are so many things that need to match to run a successful love marriage! My house anything is ok , either arranged or love but only condition is that the guy should be so good that my dad falls in love with him😁😁😁

I love my father ❤️❤️

So mujhe koi tension nahi , jise laana hai lao , I'm too lazy to look for one and have so much more to do in life until then!😉😎

You have a great dad.

I love my dad too. Honestly I want a guy like him, but I swear they don't exist...or maybe one in a million. Like he'll be 60 next year, and he's one of the most progressive people I've ever known. Dude introduced me to Virginia woolf, periyar, malcolm x as a child. He's from a village, yet he's the first feminist I know in my life. I've not seen anyone like him, in his generation or mine.

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Despite the fact that I'm really shy introvert, if it's related to emotions, then I am very straightforward in that thing.

Btw I might be crossing the line, and if I'm do tell, and I apologize in advance, but have you thought that your past experiences might be hindering you in expressing your emotions? Shraddha love isn't logical. There's no reason why we love some people more than others. I've met absolutely perfect guys yet couldn't feel anything for them...it's not a science. So if you do feel something, go with it. Sure, there's a chance you might get a heartbreak, but honestly it's still worth it. It fulfills you as a human being.

After covid, seeing so many people die around me, my own mom got it, it just made me realise how fragile life is. Do tell your friends, fam, loved ones that you love them.

Romantically toh I'm just done. Uski tension 3 logon ko hai...mom, faltu ke relatives, and jewelry showroom ka manager.

I have to be true as I've already told you how I've had a very traumatic abusive childhood .

Which led me to learn how to mask my feelings and emotions up . To the world I was a very outgoing talkative good looking girl but inside I was depressed and dealt with severe abandonment issues.

I also had to go through alot of councelling to learn how to be more expressve as I'd always put up a tough front which statred to mentally break me.

In college it was when I met that guy karan it felt weird I mean I'm not being narassastic but I've always had people compliment me saying I ur so pretty love ur smile and ur big eues but with him pehli baar I felt connected to someone other than my mom so it was even more difficult as I was afraid to be broken again.

He would keep saying ki take as much time as you want Ill always be there but I never believed him as all my life I was used to people leaving me .

He would always say ki ek din aayega jab tu bhi mann legi ki u too love me but shayad uss din sunena ka liya main na rahunga. I would make fun saying paata nahi kaaha say itna dramatic filmy line laata hain ,who teaches you such nonsense . I used to keep thinking ki je would give up one day but he never did and when he got posted to Nagaland it was his first posting I finally came to terms with the fact that I like him to and had decided to confess last year but before I could his sister who was also my roommate and one of my closest friends told me ki he was martyred in the ambush.

Uska baad it took me a long time to moveon and come to terms with it as I regretted not acknowledging my feelings first but when I read his last letter I realised I must move on and learn to value people around me as kal ka koi bharosa nahi.❤️

And no you've not crossed your line , I actually like it when you go out of your way and share your viwes or experiences. ❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗😊

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

One thing that I always wanted in my partner should be understanding , body and looks nahi bhi hoga chalega.. cz that will fade with time..

I know sab baatein hai but if both treat each other as equal tabhi gaadi patri par chalti hai 😆 pyaar ho naa ho respect and trust hona zaroori hai + giving each other space..

I know I sound like broken record n purani haveli daadi amma types but personal experience se bol rahi hoon..

I had my ups and downs and with ultimate disasters but I moved on..

You are not wrong at all. I mean I can't marry without love because I don't consider marriage really important, but if you want to get married, or have to, then these are the things one need to look for. My parents marriage is one of the best, and it wasn't love (arranged bhi nahin thi🤣). My dad and mom's cousin were friends, and dad went to mom's house, he liked her and then sent a rishta. Now they are ridiculously in love, but there's been always respect and trust between them.

The only reason it doesn't apply for me is, because I don't want to get married. Only time i thought about it was once upon a time in a serious relationship.

Originally posted by: dusk2dawn

One thing that I always wanted in my partner should be understanding , body and looks nahi bhi hoga chalega.. cz that will fade with time..

I know sab baatein hai but if both treat each other as equal tabhi gaadi patri par chalti hai 😆 pyaar ho naa ho respect and trust hona zaroori hai + giving each other space..

I know I sound like broken record n purani haveli daadi amma types but personal experience se bol rahi hoon..

I had my ups and downs and with ultimate disasters but I moved on..

Naa it's good that ur sharing ur views it helps cause I get to learn more varna agar sirf apne experiences sa seekhna Beth gaayi toh Maina paaka zindagi ki band bajani hain causeost of the things I do are disastrous and usually land all the people around me ina jeopardy.😂😂😂

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

I just ordered a goddamn three course meal in this wedding season, made a drink that I'll enjoy the confession dhang se. Kya kata hai makers ne😭

Sabka kat gaya ab to🤣

Originally posted by: 08_maria

Kohl tu kitni achi hai , jewelry showroom ke manager ji ki bhi fikr karti hai ..... Tejo is nothing before you🤣🤣

Sachi 😂😂😂 I want a wedding in the mountains 😂😂. I love heights zero kharcha mast camping karega pura baarat waahi shadi niptaeinga in trekking clothes cause yeh joda Jewelry mujhsa nahi hoga.😂

Originally posted by: Not_James_bond

I have to be true as I've already told you how I've had a very traumatic abusive childhood .

Which led me to learn how to mask my feelings and emotions up . To the world I was a very outgoing talkative good looking girl but inside I was depressed and dealt with severe abandonment issues.

I also had to go through alot of councelling to learn how to be more expressve as I'd always put up a tough front which statred to mentally break me.

In college it was when I met that guy karan it felt weird I mean I'm not being narassastic but I've always had people compliment me saying I ur so pretty love ur smile and ur big eues but with him pehli baar I felt connected to someone other than my mom so it was even more difficult as I was afraid to be broken again.

He would keep saying ki take as much time as you want Ill always be there but I never believed him as all my life I was used to people leaving me .

He would always say ki ek din aayega jab tu bhi mann legi ki u too love me but shayad uss din sunena ka liya main na rahunga. I would make fun saying paata nahi kaaha say itna dramatic filmy line laata hain ,who teaches you such nonsense . I used to keep thinking ki je would give up one day but he never did and when he got posted to Nagaland it was his first posting I finally came to terms with the fact that I like him to and had decided to confess last year but before I could his sister who was also my roommate and one of my closest friends told me ki he was martyred in the ambush.

Uska baad it took me a long time to moveon and come to terms with it as I regretted not acknowledging my feelings first but when I read his last letter I realised I must move on and learn to value people around me as kal ka koi bharosa nahi.❤️

And no you've not crossed your line , I actually like it when you go out of your way and share your viwes or experiences. ❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗😊

Our past makes us who we are. I've my fair share of traumas, they'll never go away, but we need to learn how to deal with them. It's a lifelong thing.

It's dramatic but as SRK said KHNH, jo karna hai aaj karlo, kya pata kal ho na ho❤️

Next time, if you feel something, just go with it.