Originally posted by: Ekahriz
Dude. This is legit scary. I remember a random dude from class texting me by taking my phone number from the WhatsApp group because apparently I smiled at him one day. I didn't even freaking remember him. Who obviously went on to propose and won't take no for an answer unless he gets a reason and won't believe once I gave a reason. I was shit scared for almost a week until I got back home because I kept thinking he would show up with a bottle of acid. Because his messages were very creepy trying to make me feel guilty.
Wow so sorry to hear! Had similar experience - guy was super sweet and polite till I said no to coffee date. Said I had led him on (just normal classmate interactions), sent me dozens of texts with gifs of bleeding hearts. Had to get my Deans office involved. Repeated unwanted advances are never cool and it is not a girls responsibility to stop them or explain herself beyond no - parents and society need to teach boys how to handle rejection gracefully and rein in their egos.
Abhimanyu’s behavior is disgusting and there’s no excuse for it. Decent men don’t use pain of unrequited love to hurt and stalk women. Anyone can be sweet and nice when things are going their way - the true test of character is how a person behaves when things go wrong for them. Kartik also failed this test - these DKP writers don’t understand how to write unresolved sexual tension and just go straight for toxic masculinity.
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