Originally posted by: spicysagar
It is not subjective, action speaks for itself.
Devoleena was uncomfortable and had given direct warning to Bichukle many times in last few days telling him not to cross the line. She had mentioned this to couple of housemates, earlier but did not make an issue.
It is not normal when you have to accuse someone of sexual harassment to just raise an alarm. Some women will use sexual harassment just for revenge with false accusation, some will just make an issue misjudging the reality. But some will think 10 times before putting the allegations, it is question of someone’s image. Devoleena has to do this on national television. She has to be sure she is not rushing to judgement. Devoleena is matured and has given stern warning few times already before it came to this. She also knows that she will have to own it if she makes issue out of this as this will be sexual harassment topic.
Regarding Devoleena’s reaction at a drop of a hat, like fighting with Shamita, Nishant, Umar and Rashmi, it is part of her game for content to get noticed that every housemates are doing it. It is fine to pick up a mudda and fight. Pratik, Umar, Rashmi, Teja , Rajiv all are doing it.
But a sensitive topic like sexual harassment that also with serious allegations is not something easy to speak about. Devoleena did give ample of warning to Bichukle many times. This is first time he pulled her cheeks and was trying to get physical. This is when she felt to speak up about it.
When she took courage to speak, our host shuts her down saying Bichukle was joking. After giving few warnings Devoleena spoke about it. Bichukle was not joking. She also must have thought 10 times what if no one believes me, what if no one stands for me.
Salman was idiot who twisted to blame Devoleena and let Bichukle go free without punishment.
As I said Salman narrative was - No, victims can’t come forward when they have courage or are sure about the allegations later, they should suffer in silence, why they did not come forward at the time of incident.
i don’t think Devoleena had any agenda or game plan to raise this issue.
It is subjective for me as some women who dont have the support and are not mentally strong keep quite ..and a strong woman like Debo would speak up there and then ..just like she did when he grabbed her hand ...
But same Debo smiled when he pulled her cheek
Since when did Debo start thinking about other's reputation before accusing She was quick to start about 'me too' in her situation with Sid ..this is all happening on tv with many cameras around so i am saying all this based on her behaviour ..and considering this is Bigg boss there will always be a doubt whether its genuine or done so to create drama
As for Bichukule ..joke or no joke ...he should be kicked out instead of blaming Debo ..such actions should never be justified!
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