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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

In yesterday’s episode, Sai says he was away for a night without letting her know . Is she suspecting him of one night stand ? Is that the reason why she feels insecure whenever he is away even for a minute? Does she feel as a man he is fulfilling his physical needs so where else . It makes sense why she is getting irritated with just one incident .

Yes! Because she thinks he doesn’t get it from her! If pakhi had not planted that doubt in her few days before she would have been fine! Pakhi said virat wanted a wife not a friend. So at the moment she can suspect him of everything related to that specific aspect

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Nitu (I like your real name too) Sai will have eternal insecurity for Virat in this regard. So understand this from her perspective. You can say it is the fear that will leave her when Virat is close to her but tomorrow if Virat is far away and has a woman someway related to him, she will freak out. There are several reasons for it but the bigger reason is that she was not his first choice, second reason is that she thinks Virat considers her immature (seed induced by virat himself in the beginning), one year of Pakhi's presence.

She might be a confident doctor in future, but when it comes to virat, she is vulnerable. It takes huge effort from Virat's side to make her secure. But in a marriage, as years go by couple do take each other granted and forget the other person's insecurities.

Even in KD, rono keeps questioning Emon's relation with other men. It is not because he suspects her character, it is because he is insecure of his place in her life. For Rono, age difference played with his mind.

Another example is anniversary kand . Instead of making Virat ignore , apologize for anniversary if they made Sai say a genuine sorry then it would be ok but it still bothers me that she hasn’t apologized and repented for her behavior yet . It makes Sai a shallow person

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I understand Sai’s insecurities. The issue I have is not with Sai’s insecurities or her actions but the way the show portrays them . Had they called her out for questioning his character I would be ok because they are trying to show the reality but instead they ignore her insecurities while there is lot of focus on Virat’s. When Virat wrongly questioned Sai he was called out by many but they don’t show the same for Sai ? She called a strong women , progressive for doing the same mistake Virat did . Such a misleading message . The problem is with the way Sai’s mistakes are brushed under the carpet .

Another example is anniversary kand . Instead of making Virat ignore , apologize for anniversary if they made Sai say a genuine sorry then it would be ok but it still bothers me that she hasn’t apologized and repented for her behavior yet . It makes Sai a shallow person

@bold

Yeah there is a bias from the makers too. The audience are women mostly. So may be they wanted to show it 'their' way? makers/writers are human too. Their mindset will pop in also. Thats why leena is the best. She showed the ugliness and beauty so openly in KD. Vankar is a good one too but he gets swayed by popular opinion. ITV business is such. we can forgive that.

@red

I think we should wait for this. In KD, when emon confesses this is the first thing she does. to apologize.

Sai also knows anniversary kaand is a mistake. She has shown signs of her regret. Apology will come.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes! Because she thinks he doesn’t get it from her! If pakhi had not planted that doubt in her few days before she would have been fine! Pakhi said virat wanted a wife not a friend. So at the moment she can suspect him of everything related to that specific aspect

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Do you think she would behave differently if Pakhi hadn’t planted those suspicious thoughts in her mind ? I don’t see her recalling Pakhi’s words . I feel even if Pakhi hadn’t she would still feel insecure thinking he is seeking pleasure outside of marriage as he is unable to get it from her . Just for argument sake , as per their deal did they expect each other to be loyal till they are together for 5 yrs or they were ok in the beginning for an open marriage but as time passed they are possessive of each other ? It applies to both . I wish they had explored this loophole in their deal . It’s a mature content so can’t expect from ghum

@bold

Yes. She would have been in her happy friendship mode. She would not be agitated as now.

@green

thats where the writers fail to establish it repeatedly. The promo and the mission night, pakhi's words are important. She said Sai opened a placed for 'theesri' to enter. Thats a strong doubt that she planted. Sai is naive when it comes to these matters. she is 19 afterall. Pakhi clearly told her, Virat is a man and he needs a wife!

@blue

Thats their facade right? They ARE possessive. If you read my post on virat's realization, they loved each other from long back. But Sai never thought he would cheat. She did not think in that direction because deal was playing strong. Now when suddenly she accepts him as her husband, she sees herself as not being his wife. And now the doubt is planted. So she suspects (high chances)

@red

Wow didnt virat react violently with Ajinkya? He lost it completely. He did suspect her. There his age played with his mind. Here Pakhis's words are playing with Sai's mind.

PS: in KD, after confession Rono tells Emon that he could not see her with any other man! And if she had chosen someone, he would have ended his life 😆 emotional hain banda

That woman has the audacity to call Sai’s husband 15 times,. Because of her he went out in the night and stayed away..DIG said he doesn’t know Shriti

Why wont any wife get insecure and furious? If I am in Sai’s place I react the same way.

I also would break the phone.

https://twitter.com/Lakshmi21471073/status/1471668715989004291?s=20

https://twitter.com/Lakshmi21471073/status/1471667412336398336?s=20

Okay please give me an unbiased opinion, without including the character. Was Ayesha really good in today's episode?

Because I fail to see that while others are praising her.

I really don't understand, In which world, what Sai did today is okay? Its such a toxic relationship for both where months of good behavior and character of husband/wife is questioned on basis of two days of keeping a secret

I understand Virat doesn't want to tell her and make her a part of the crime he is committing, where is this wrong? He is too far in helping Shruti now, he can't involve his family into it, would people rather that Sai knows and goes to jail? What about her future? Do they think she'll get to study in the college after a news of her hiding a maoist comes out?

Point being, there are things you don't need to know, its Virat's job so his risk, a wife of police officer can't act like this, she won't throw tantrums and break things just because he can't tell her everything