Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #138 - Page 24

Originally posted by: Shadow_kira

Forget the brothers, did Dhara even acknowledge Gaumbi's pain or apologize about anything since her insecurity track??? 🤔

We've said that Shivi need to apologize to each other, and we finally got Shiva's apology and now progress....but what kind of a patch up did Gaura have?? Ek song sequence and I love you??

Shouldn't Dhara apologize for doubting and calling Gaumbi a murderer?? What about acknowledging his pain and reassuring him?? So how is the audience supposed to root for them again??

Honestly, I don't care enough about Dhara anymore that it would make a difference for me.....but for the trp audience to invested in them, their relationship needs to have some substance.

@Bold: That's why no connection to Gaura. No matter how hard they try, after 10 years of successfull marriage you can call out your husband in front of whole town and just one I love you and Kiss make it all normal?

If this is a mahaan character, sorry I can't sympathize with her🤔. She needed to be highlight for good she did but also called out for the wrong she did.

1) Beating the brothers like shit.

2) Calling out Gautam's character in front of all.

3) Calling out Raavi and Anita is same. And she also had relationship with all the brothers.

4) Calling Gautam Hatyaara. And also that he never needed both her and child.

If they can't give us one proper apology😡 I can't feel anything for her till then.

Originally posted by: blissfulcanyon

I remember saying that PS evokes a side of me (a bit volatile one) that I don't want the world to see, but alas, this show has only intensified those feelings, kya karun main? 🤣😭

Had it not been for ShiVi, yeh show mujhe phooti aankh na suhata. I'm still here only because of them. They've ruined the rest of the characters beyond measure. Rishita is the only other one who still connects a bit.

Messy haired gunda boy shivaaa ❣️

It's ok blissy ❤️

If someone had told me that I will get frustrated over a tv show 1 yr back I would have laughed it off. But I feel sad to see the potential of the characters and story being wasted like this 💔

And the shivi magic is real, show chodne bhi nahi deta.roz subah sochti hu aaj nahi dekhungi and I end up watching it and doing khud ki beizzati 🤣

Segment ka scope hai kya koi??!

Ki pata chale aage kya bhasad machaenge 😳🤡

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

Messy haired gunda boy shivaaa ❣️

It's ok blissy ❤️

If someone had told me that I will get frustrated over a tv show 1 yr back I would have laughed it off. But I feel sad to see the potential of the characters and story being wasted like this 💔

And the shivi magic is real, show chodne bhi nahi deta.roz subah sochti hu aaj nahi dekhungi and I end up watching it and doing khud ki beizzati 🤣

Gunda boy Shiva explaining my feelings 🤣

I know Pixie 😆

Khud ki beizzati karne ka shauk hogaya hai ab toh.🤪

I just feel my frustration building now and I never thought I would reach this point

Shivi ke moh maya mein phas gayi hoon, can't leave these babies even if I tried 😆

Now, skipping is my mantra, can't believe I'm the same person who used to watch all the episodes through the end up until a couple of months ago, these makers....*sigh*

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This ❤️❤️

You said it all. I also don't hate dhara.never did.but the hyping up her emotions and trivialising the emotions of all other characters is very off putting.

Dhara has a loving brother,her devars and raavi literally worship her, her husband bears all her taunts and Insults but still loves her unconditionally forgetting about his own grief and hurt,the whole household runs the way she wants it to.she is the luckiest and most privileged woman of the show.why will the audience symphatize with her? Her only longing in life is that she wants a baby and she has her whole life ahead for it.she is just 30.

Meanwhile raavi is someone who has been dumped at the altar, almost committed suicide, her marriage is on the rocks, she is on the verge of divorce, she has no solid support from her maayka, she is not respected in that house irrespective of whatever she does, taunted and humilated, had to see her own husband getting almost engaged to another woman.

I don't symphatize with Rishita but no matter what she does dev will always compare her to dhara and she will never be the good enough wife or bahu according to him. He will always make her feel less and unimportant.i agree that rishita's character needs to grow but still a large part of the audience will connect to her more than dhara.

despite being married to an mba topper and being an mba topper herself ( Which I highly doubt) She has to ask even for a rs500 kangan and get refused for the same.how humilating is that ?

I don't even want to write about Shiva's sacrifices because that will be too long and will probably require a separate post.

But the whole point is dhara is loved , respected and cherished by everyone and sadly raavi or rishita will never be treated the same way or even half of it. Shiva and gombis hurt will always be trivialised .the balance is missing.

Jitba bhi dhara ka breakdown aur rona dhona dikha do, it doesn't connect.

@Pink: She is indeed lucky, Gautam did all for her, she is his first priority. Kinshuk is all my heart, Gaumbi is really a best man any woman can ever had or imagined to be? He is best husband ofcourse. All brothers can do anything for her they certainly did:

Dev was ready to marry a girl he can never love why? Just because his love parent disrespected his bhabhi. For her he was ready for no love in his life. He was wrong from many side but his love for his Bhabhi is never to be questioned.

He tried several ways to mend Rishita why? For his Bhabhi. He may not be best brother, friend or husband too. But for Dhara his love is also unconditional as of Shiva. He is not less than Shiva in this.

Shiva married a girl he pretend to hate for her. He agreed as soon as she said it. For him, what Dhara say he will do. He get out of this sometimes but always be there for her.

All three brothers not only say she is their mother. They meant it and always act upon it.

Raavi forget about her character assassination and comes back to home, listen to all the taunts why? For her. She also did a lot for her and even acknowledge her to be best among all.

Even though Rishita never said she also respects and love her. For her she comes first but still she changed herself a lot for this family, while many times I think Dev failed to do that. She is learning but never meant bad for anyone.

@Bold: Totally agree with all of this

All they needed to do was show dhara as a normal women..with her own needs and weak points...mistakes acknowledged and accepted..no one would have judged her..people like realistic characters than zabardasthi ka mahaan atma.....dhara avoiding pregnancy for 10years can be shown as a sensible progressive mentality.. sumans and societies taunt would have been realistic though unjustified..and dhara would have gained our sympathy too..because her decision was sensible and right at the moment..

The devars love for dhara should have just been becz of dhara rather than sacrifice jaap..preleap equation between devars and dhara were so beautiful and nothing toxic..

And ravi too comes into the list..I still dnt get what made her go so crazy for dhara that she became her idol..all I get is I prefer the haveli times ravi, who despite her anger for the betrayal, admired dhara and loved her but was righteous enough to call out on her for dharas overpowering behavior..

dhara should have apologised to gombi before the ivf track..dhara should have shared gombis pain along with her own..she should have fought with him for hiding abt her medical condition but also acknowledged her own mistake in suspecting him unnecessarily and accusing him..she should have acknowledged that..she can't ignore her own mistakes while she so mercilessly accuse gombi as a murderer..make her real, a person who make mistakes , acknowledge it and tries to rectify it..

But nahii...

They r imposing mahaantha ka tag forcefully on dhara and forcefully showing unrealistic bhabhi jaap..and gone totally blind on others sacrifices and ordeals in the show..shivas sacrifice on education. Ravis whole life. Everything ignored..rishitha atleast ackwledges herself that she has sacrificed her whole family and luxury for dev..even though dev or anyone doesn't give a penny for that thought..even gombi acknowledged his side of sacrifice when dhara constantly accused him as a murderer..until then even gombi was ignored..shiva ravi don't even get that...maybe shivas sacrifice will come up in future track if the writers have even an ounce of sense left in them..if not..they best of luck with dhara..they r racing towards doom.. ravis life..I highly doubt they have it in them to explore her life struggles since childhood and her emotions with respect to it....

Originally posted by: mpks1

I am going to make series of posts about my observation on certain scenes.

Motiben tell Rishtia that she got to know about Dhara's IVF from the Doctor who is going to treat her. We all know Motiben is lying and she got to know through Anita and didn't want to tattle-tale on her, but using Doctor's name is violating the rights of patient -Doctor confidentiality. I am appalled that ITV is very casual about these things. In reality the Doctor should be sued for sharing the patient's private history.

I really wish the writers take this seriously and not write such scenes even for drama purposes.

Originally posted by: Pixiepadhi

This ❤️❤️

You said it all. I also don't hate dhara.never did.but the hyping up her emotions and trivialising the emotions of all other characters is very off putting.

Dhara has a loving brother,her devars and raavi literally worship her, her husband bears all her taunts and Insults but still loves her unconditionally forgetting about his own grief and hurt,the whole household runs the way she wants it to.she is the luckiest and most privileged woman of the show.why will the audience symphatize with her? Her only longing in life is that she wants a baby and she has her whole life ahead for it.she is just 30.

Meanwhile raavi is someone who has been dumped at the altar, almost committed suicide, her marriage is on the rocks, she is on the verge of divorce, she has no solid support from her maayka, she is not respected in that house irrespective of whatever she does, taunted and humilated, had to see her own husband getting almost engaged to another woman.

I don't symphatize with Rishita but no matter what she does dev will always compare her to dhara and she will never be the good enough wife or bahu according to him. He will always make her feel less and unimportant.i agree that rishita's character needs to grow but still a large part of the audience will connect to her more than dhara.

despite being married to an mba topper and being an mba topper herself ( Which I highly doubt) She has to ask even for a rs500 kangan and get refused for the same.how humilating is that ?

I don't even want to write about Shiva's sacrifices because that will be too long and will probably require a separate post.

But the whole point is dhara is loved , respected and cherished by everyone and sadly raavi or rishita will never be treated the same way or even half of it. Shiva and gombis hurt will always be trivialised .the balance is missing.

Jitba bhi dhara ka breakdown aur rona dhona dikha do, it doesn't connect.

100 baat ki ek baat - Dhara is NOT a bechari 🤔

Originally posted by: mpks1

Did you see how Suman thumb printed the agreement without even getting the money, by that we should know where stupidity begins in that house😆 If the matriarch is stupid, ofcourse others will follow suit in that house which has lead to

Gautam being diffident and is not the voice of reason

Dev being useless in all possible ways

Shiva acting like a true gawar

Krish becoming insensitive with lack of perception

Dhara becoming a Mahaan for no reason

Rishita flips and flops according to her convenience

Raavi will be the dobi who cannot keep secrets

Stupidity is a disease, if not cured at the beginning, can become contagious and brings the said person and people around them down😆

This line is making me laugh and the post is making me angry!!!🤣

#PagletMakers

Sbb segment dhara confronting raavi scene was shown agan then bts of dhara selling her jewelry well it was shinys bd lol gaumbi shiva and dev spot her and start looking for her i guess there was an intv of the guys joking around and then they were teasing about gaumbi having ghar wali and bahar wali lol kd even said he thinks baby will come from anita lol

They showed another scene from later that day raavi serving food to shiva their hands touch all shy awkward lol then dev and gaumbi are there too both look worried near eating area with shivi.