Imlie Written Updates and Episode Discussions 13 Dec 2021 - Page 27

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

What I feel both Imlie and Adi have failed big time in their relationship. Adi is reacting based on the circumstances presented to him and Imlie is reacting based on Adi reactions. Both have forgotten in stead of reacting, they should respond according to their truth. For once if Adi instead of reacting, if he would have listened to Imlie for the last time, may be he would have understood what happened in the hotel room from Imlie’s side. Imlie for once instead of lamenting what went wrong she should have cleared the air to Adi on the things and should have asked him, if you still wanted a divorce I am ready to give you. Instead of that she allowed Adi to sulk in his weird imaginations.

See, ek to since the very beginning Imlie was only upholding this marriage. Aditya did not even consider this as marriage. Secondly, her whole last year has been about either "saving Aditya's ass" or "saving Malini from pain". She is firefighting all alone. Iss jantu ko protect karne ke chakkar me raita phaila. Phir madam ke man ma emosion jaage hua, and Malini didi ko protect karne ke liye aur raita phalaya gaya. By then Aditya was in love with her and she was denying to come in the open. Yahi Game of Secrets chalta raha, match tie hoti rahi aur scoreboard nil raha. Shaadi ko match samajh ke kheloge to dono ko hi haarna padega na.

Iss marriage me na koi set expectations hai, na set boundaries. Ek taraf ek 19 saal ki ladki jo badi ho rahi hai, aur ek taraf ek adher 30 saal ka bachcha jo apni galti hi nahi dekh pata. Usme se kisi ek ko to guidance dena chahiye na ya pakad ke rakhna chahiye. Yaha to ek pe hi pura burden aa raha hai, cause woh "dharampatni" hai. Bhai balance kaha hai. Koi balance hai. Imlie anchors the marriage, anchors the "adharm pati" and also fights Malini, her cuckoo mother, her flippant in-laws. Aur kya kya sambhal payegi.

Thoda Aditya bhi sambhale. I agree table tod shaadi ki, uske right ke liye fight kiya, sab manti hu. But bhai scale pe measure karo to Imlie's dedication just surpasses all his tokens of husband love. And, most important, he chose to trust Malini over Imlie. It started with love, it became friendship in between, and now it is his responsibility. No brother, she is the responsibility of a mental asylum. For Imlie, it started with insults, in between came more insults, and now it has ended with insults and allegations. Waah, kya love hai. Good man, acchha aadmi bol bolke aur sar pe mat chadao usko. Waise hi kuch jyaada hi dimaag hawa me rehta hai uska. Neeche aane do, aur thoda mitti ka anand utha lene do babua ko. Isko kharach ke khaate pe utha ke rakh do. Pranaam.

Bhai, jigre pe haath rakh ke batao, aise aadmi ko main phir palat ke na dekhu, reaction and action durast. Phir bhi Imlie has done more than enough.

I agree with you. Compare to Imlie Adi has failed big time.but the saddest part is they both are going to get hurt badly in the process.

Originally posted by: zubaidah

PPakji I agreed on your points . What I can’t take it , the way he handle it . The tone he use to call her and the way telling her to come back with full authority towards her . She is at sasural place . She is talking to her husband . Let her settle it by herself. Why interfering . He is not helping her at all , If he really concerns, he should discuss about Malini to her . Well let see , how he handle Anu .? I want Imlie to do the wedding coverage . I want her to be strong to fight using her own effort to be successful. No bcos of Adi or Aryan .

I agree - Aryan is being portrayed as an aggressive male but one who responds to correction (when Imlie stops him - he responds immediately...aarthi scene and also when he asked her to come to his home and she objected, he immediately stepped back and offered an alternate solution). He does try to intimidate with his physical proximity which is not great. With Imlie he has started to get possessive but remember he feels he is saving her from a really bad man. What he believes may be wrong but he is acting out of what he knows. He is not thinking he is interfering...he may be seeing himself as Imlie's only support when she has no one. Remember she said she had no one to get help from...and every time he has seen her suffering she has been alone. Also she is talking to her husband not alone but with his ex-wife and mother of his child and family with him.

His initial tone was overbearing and when Imlie ignored him, he had the sense to stop and listen and support without vocally saying anything more. It was Adi who asked him to tell Imlie to give the divorce. Adi pulled him in to the conversation.

Aryan's interference is not ideal for Adile...but I think now Adilie relationship is very toxic and needs to wrap up until Adi is able to get his brain in order. Any of Imlie's attempts to patch up will be bandaids. The only way this situation can change needs to originate with Adi.

If Adi was alone I would want Imlie also fighting her battles alone. Given that Adi has the rapist and her mom fighting for him, I'm happy for Imlie to have some back up. It makes watching the abuse more palatable. Otherwise it is pathetic to watch Imlie getting pummeled, I like Aryan being there to offer support to Imlie and if perpetually majboor Adi cannot accept it - its better to be divorced - do you want to go through life with a man who will believe any story concocted by anyone? In his own words he is a Kota sikka. Imlie does not need a kotta sikka. She has tried enough.

Originally posted by: Goddy2010

Absolutely. Also Imlie should have told him to go back as she has come to settle things on her own. I also didn’t like the way she recounted all her life personal details including Adi sleeping with Malini before Aryan. He is a stranger as of now. I felt bad for Adi as his life is becoming a spectacle for which most of it he is responsible.

Adi put their personal life in a newspaper.

Imlie shared her life's detail with a man who has been supporting her in times of need.

I'm glad he knows...it gives him insight into how strong she is - esp when he accused her of being weak when she tried to commit suicide.

If Arylie relationship is to progress - friendship or otherwise...he needs to know and this was perfect because she said it in front of everyone - her story was validated by everyone's silence.

Originally posted by: zubaidah

Imlie equally need to take the blame . Everytime Aryan open his mouth to provoke Adi , she is very silence same as Adi , whenever Malini bad mouth Imlie . Both also same same useless can’t protect their partners

zubaidah ji - she has been depending on his help and she does correct him in private. We all would not want to insult someone we think is helping us. She does not know he may have a prior reason. With Malini Adi has had so many clues and is still ignorant. With Imlie she has a smarter person - Aryan has really not let up anything wrt to his issues with Adi. Even with that Imlie caught on and asked him outright after Adi demotion if he has an axe to grind. Aryan cleverly turned that conversation around. And also she knows Adi is wrong here as Arylie have done nothing wrong to be accused of by aDi like this.

Every time Aryan has provoked Adi - Imlie has believed Aryan was right and Adi wrong. Imlie knows Adi is acting out of jealousy incited by Malini. She told him you have a right to correct me when I am wrong but not when incited by Malini. First during article timing of submission, then during the ask for the interview, then again post the interview what Adi did was wrong, then again accusing Aryan and Imlie of an affair in an article.

Also, Aryan is no stranger. He is a fierce, aggressive man I get it. His certain tactics are debatable and questionable. But, he was the one who picked Imlie up from the road to his home, he saved her from tharkis. He was the one who has had a face-to-face preview of what Malini can do when she came with the ask to separate Imlie and Aditya, he was the one who saw the girl in pain, he was the one who let her cry and break down and stood in a corner, and he was the one, people were maligning alongside Imlie, because Aditya could not wait to talk, instead posted an obituary. No, he isn't a stranger. His only fault lies in helping Imlie in times of real need, and that has been manipulated and presented before Ts and Aditya as Aryan being too comfy and favouring Imlie. After what Aryan has seen in the last two days with Imlie, Malini and Aditya, he is not a stranger. Both he and Imlie have nothing between them, neither they see a future together, and neither they need to justify themselves before people who have already decided what they are.

Aryan is not some shoulder for Imlie to cry on, neither he is her friend. They just have one connection, that of pain, whether its their own or their families. And they are just connecting over that pain.

Yes your points are valid too.

Kalka synopsis ageyaa hain..

Agreed. Since Adi acts impulsively not necessary Imlie also has to act like that. She could have very well told Aryan yesterday to go as she is talking to her family and explain certain things one last time. She could have explained the situation not only to Adi but to everybody, not to please anybody but for her own conscience. Then it is up to them to trust her or not. She can very well give divorce to Adi after that. In this way she won’t have regrets. Since because Adi is becoming puppet in Malini’s hands I don’t want Imlie to become one in Aryan’s hands. I want her to stand by her core principles and values.

I am going to be on a flight for the next 24 hours. Please take care of Adi for me all of you 🥺🥺🥺 Make sure he doesn't do any more stupid things 🙄🙄