Originally posted by: SmittenKitten
 
Between Deepika and Ranveer, he is visibly more in love with her than her with him. Ranbir comes across as someone who has girls making fools of themselves over him, including Deepika. Look at Alia too and how she's always fawning over him on insta, and acting like she's hot property in talk shows, etc. ever since she started dating Ranbir. I think that's why Ranbir looked enamored with Katrina even after their breakup.... she never even once gave off the impression that he has a hold on her in that regard.
We always want what we can't have and Deepika, despite having it all, is obsessed with that one thing that went wrong in her life yearssss back, to the point where she's okay with being butt buddies with Ranbir but continues to take out her frustration on Kat. 😒
Not a fan of that attitude but I feel sorry for her if she is so blind to all the blessings in her life.
Ranbir has great tendency to suck life out of those who are with him , i think it's bz of his childhood. He seemed detached from his relationships.
And Yes, all of exs n gfs seems smitten by him barring Katrina, as if he is some priced possession, it might have to do with Kapoor tag n dreaming to be part of Kapoor legacy. But of all his exs, Katrina was different n self respecting , I think this was one of the biggest reason it didn't work out b/w them n exactly reason why it did work b/w Ranbir n Alia, Alia is totally thrilled to get Ranbir, she is ready to foresee even obvious red flags n this seem to be in favor of Ranbir as Alia is someone who is in unconditional love n doesn't expect much from him, Also his family's approval makes things easy for Ranbir, infact their relationship gives arrange marriage kinda of vibes. 
Coming to Deepika, her selective behaviour with those who she thought wronged her is surprising bz as she projected both Kat n Ranbir were wrong but she seem to keep grudge with Kat n was seen doing movies with Ranbir later. There could be only possible strong reason that she is still in love with him which is very dangerous, it's more like obsession n I think she should get help n work to move on in life otherwise she will live unfulfilled life being insecure all the time. Seriously it indeed is sorry state. 
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