You guys need to chill - Page 4

Originally posted by: tereliyex

Honestly people being so uptight is the reason I couldn’t care less to visit this forum but I loved your post lol

Even though we interacted once, just know that I do remember you from time to time. Wish we had met in healthier circumstances. 🤗

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

Pretty sure many will care if you go, personally I don't know you but love your gifs and edits ☺️🤗

And honestly, you're not wrong, this forum is trying to find logic in a serial which is running since ten years. Like just watch and have fun. If don't then stop watching or leave, why make it such a big thing.

The last time serial made sense was NEVER

When Mihir came back from life after dying and Tulsi did plastic surgery only to know that was fraud, since then I knew ITV is a big LMAO and I was a kid lol. 🤣

If the show had taken itself seriously then I would have been on board with everyone else. But just have a look at the stupid ass misunderstandings that are being created and how ridiculously stubborn the characters are being. This show is BEYOND reasonable.

What has irritated me the most is the kind of tone people were taking in regards to some of the characters, especially Manjiri. Yes she might have done some wrong things, but that does not mean that her abusers should be sympathized with or propped as being better than her. The fact that people were overlooking the way Mahima has abused Manjiri and are rooting for her just because she's supporting everyone's favorite "ship" is quite frankly disgusting. I have nothing to say to these people and nor do I wish to interact with them. Given the fact that everyone in the forum is positing the same mentality, it's abundantly clear that there is no room for me here. It's better to leave than watch all this bakwaas unfold in front of my eyes.

So fricking truee. I legit hate that they overlook Manjari as a mother and start supporting Harsh and and I'm like bish, he abuses his wife wtf is wrong with these people.

Some even said that Manjari deserves the treatment because she's a dumb person and I'm like, bish, she's the mother and if I was in her place I'd legit ask anyone to help if it was about my child. And Akshara didn't have to climb the Everest to help tbh, it was plainly a mere testimony.

True, I overlook the Manjari degrading posts here and although she's a character, I really like her and she's a mother, blame her for a ship which isn't even a ship tbh. Like, argh

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

So fricking truee. I legit hate that they overlook Manjari as a mother and start supporting Harsh and and I'm like bish, he abuses his wife wtf is wrong with these people.

Some even said that Manjari deserves the treatment because she's a dumb person and I'm like, bish, she's the mother and if I was in her place I'd legit ask anyone to help if it was about my child. And Akshara didn't have to climb the Everest to help tbh, it was plainly a mere testimony.

True, I overlook the Manjari degrading posts here and although she's a character, I really like her and she's a mother, blame her for a ship which isn't even a ship tbh. Like, argh

When someone said they now understand why Harsh hates her so much and began calling her stupid, dumb and whatnot, I fricking LOST IT. Harshwardhan is NOT a good man. He constantly berates and humiliates Manjiri, and has most likely physically assaulted her in the past as well. Mahima, whom they're all saying is so fcking great? She's ALSO an abuser. She too emotionally manipulates Manjiri so that she can demean and suppress her. When Harsh was about to hit Manjiri, she didn't say a SINGLE word in defence of her OWN FCKING SISTER. THIS is the woman that people want to support their "ship"? People who continuously hurt Abhimanyu's mother? Give me a fcking break.

I legitimately don't understand everyone's problem with Manjiri. It's like they're all just finding excuses to hate on her and they're all so ridiculous. Someone once said she needs to stop interfering in Abhimanyu's life and I'm just like, what????? She's his MOTHER, who CARES about his happiness. If she's not going to ask him how he's doing then who is?? Nobody else in the house bothers to ask him how he's doing and even if they do, Abhi isn't going to open up to them. As his MOTHER, Manjiri has EVERY right to be involved in her OWN SON's life. As for her going to Arohi, again, it was simply a mother trying out every option available to her to protect her son. She didn't know that Akshara was already going to give her statement. If she had, she wouldn't have approached Arohi. And even if she did, so what? Does it change the fact that Abhimanyu was saved by Akshara? Moreover, Manjiri giving "credit" to Arohi shouldn't impact AbhiRa's relationship if it is truly strong. But as we all saw with Koi Bhi, AbhiRa don't need a third party to create distances between each other. Yeh dono hi akele kaafi hai.

Sorry for ranting, but I'm just done with all this bullshit.

Nope, no need to apologise, you're right. I hate the Manjari bashing posts and the fact that they support Harsh and Mahima over her when I really like her and Neil, these two and Akshara are the only good vibes people on the show.

Honestly, it's good to leave if it gets you riled up, because shows and forums are supposed to be fun and light and not weird and wrong.

And I'm always up for rants! 😳

Originally posted by: asmaanixx

When someone said they now understand why Harsh hates her so much and began calling her stupid, dumb and whatnot, I fricking LOST IT. Harshwardhan is NOT a good man. He constantly berates and humiliates Manjiri, and has most likely physically assaulted her in the past as well. Mahima, whom they're all saying is so fcking great? She's ALSO an abuser. She too emotionally manipulates Manjiri so that she can demean and suppress her. When Harsh was about to hit Manjiri, she didn't say a SINGLE word in defence of her OWN FCKING SISTER. THIS is the woman that people want to support their "ship"? People who continuously hurt Abhimanyu's mother? Give me a fcking break.

I legitimately don't understand everyone's problem with Manjiri. It's like they're all just finding excuses to hate on her and they're all so ridiculous. Someone once said she needs to stop interfering in Abhimanyu's life and I'm just like, what????? She's his MOTHER, who CARES about his happiness. If she's not going to ask him how he's doing then who is?? Nobody else in the house bothers to ask him how he's doing and even if they do, Abhi isn't going to open up to them. As his MOTHER, Manjiri has EVERY right to be involved in her OWN SON's life. As for her going to Arohi, again, it was simply a mother trying out every option available to her to protect her son. She didn't know that Akshara was already going to give her statement. If she had, she wouldn't have approached Arohi. And even if she did, so what? Does it change the fact that Abhimanyu was saved by Akshara? Moreover, Manjiri giving "credit" to Arohi shouldn't impact AbhiRa's relationship if it is truly strong. But as we all saw with Koi Bhi, AbhiRa don't need a third party to create distances between each other. Yeh dono hi akele kaafi hai.

Sorry for ranting, but I'm just done with all this bullshit.

i was most surprised by people saying they like HARSH now. If i were AKSHU i would definitely not want to marry into that family because of HARSH 😳

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

Nope, no need to apologise, you're right. I hate the Manjari bashing posts and the fact that they support Harsh and Mahima over her when I really like her and Neil, these two and Akshara are the only good vibes people on the show.

Honestly, it's good to leave if it gets you riled up, because shows and forums are supposed to be fun and light and not weird and wrong.

And I'm always up for rants! 😳

@bold - agreed!

I'm just gonna stick to watching the show and writing stories on AbhiRa. I can't be asked to deal with all of this anymore.

As for the rants, I'll probably PM you instead. 😂

Unpopular opinion -

I get the whole mother and her feelings thing.

But by my personal experience - I don’t like when my parents get involved in my life or ask me too many questions. I get they are concerned and want my well Being.

The reason why I am annoyed at Manjiri is because- she is always about mera abhi like Abhimanyu is meri Akshu and that stupid Akshara is meri aaru. Arre yaar 🤦🏻‍♀️

Coming back to Manjiri - nobody told her to go and talk to aarohi. Motherly feelings fine but there was no need to go and request when she doesn’t know what is going on. She could have directly spoken to akshara. She knows Akshara more then she knows aarohi. But no - who wants to use logic. In no way I am defending Harsh. He is pathetic and I am a feminist so I can never defend such man! Never ever.

She has messed up once and feels sorry but did she learn from her mistake - no!

Abhimanyu is not school going kid.

She met Aarohi on the roadside temple, she didn't specifically asked for her and requested her to speak to her sister. That's what anyone would, any sane person would do and she's very possessive about him because he's the only one for her in this huge family. When you're in an abusive relationship and no support, your only support becomes your whole world

I don't see the point a mother being bashed for being a mother. I've a mother too and I treat her as a friend, the same way Abhi treats his mom and I won't mind my mother being in my business and me in hers.

I see it both ways. But if they make MANJARI emotionally blackmail ABHI to marry AAROHI they will mess with her character. Even so it's his fault if he listens to her