Originally posted by: _Seera_
Jojo This is absolutely fantastic! Definitely gives us glimpse in Imlies innner working.. only unfortunate part is she is not able to understand what exactly she needs apart from Malini out of house... Malini is not a root cause.. its Imlies adityas nature to take their relationship for granted.. and it will not solve with malini leaving.. it will only solve when they loose one another
She is expecting complete surrender from aditya and he would do that if just knew how to.. right now in her hot n cold demeanor has left him so confused he just doesnt get how to calm her down.. she always was and will remain his guiding light.. right now he cant seem to find his way... as she is gone..
Imlie seem to ave choosen PD ki wajifa prapt ladki and she has rlled clock back on her learning of this whole year too.. how does she find her way back to Adityas wife will be worth a watch!
Thank you Seera đ
Agree with you Malini is not the root cause. AI's reactions and responses to various situations created by M are the root cause for their situation right now.
Imlie was already on edge because BBSB was not openly declaring his trust in her by throwing Malini out. In her mind the only way BBSB can prove his trust in her is by believing in her no questions asked and throwing Malini out. She has equated throwing Malini out to trust in her. And that is what she is demanding now - his trust.
But BBSB will not throw Malini out because
a) She is pregnant and he considers M his responsibility
b) She has no relevance between pati - patni.
c) He doesn't want to know the truth and he does not want to believe that Malini is capable of harming herself or the unborn child.
d) Seven/Eight years of history, trauma pattern etc.;
For Aditya, I think it is not about not knowing how to surrender. Imlie clearly said "I will be back if you throw M out". But BBSB views this as a petty retaliation because M got SK arrested. Because Imlie herself decided to forgive/forget what Malini did for Aditya and the baby.
Situation with M is a coal mine. BBSB was hurt and furious when he found that Malini assaulted him and wanted to drag her to court. But conveniently she was pregnant and since then BBSB is dealing with her hands tied behind. He chose to ignore everything M did for the sake of unborn baby. His policy in dealing with her is simple. Ignore her as much as he can. Concentrate on what's important - his relationship with Imlie. M's presence or lack of should not impact AI relationship. But Imlie has intrinsically tied M to trust in their relationship and she refuses to explain her stance anymore.
Till the recent fight, Aditya was trying to find traces of Imlie, his wife, under the hardened shell of Imlie from PD. The only woman who understood him. We the audience are getting glimpses of Imlie - Aditya's wife, but unfortunately for Aditya, he is only meeting imlie from PD.
A woman who feels wronged. Who refuses to listen or to explain herself. A woman who makes it clear that she does not need BBSB. A woman who reduced him to a bigamist who treated her as a naukrani in the initial days of their relationship.
And BBSB is unable to figure out the reason for sudden change in imlie's behaviour. But their last fight has made it clear Imlie has really changed, there was no trace of his Imlie. He equated this change to ASR's riches and his influence on her for the lack of any better explanationđ
He is feeling isolated, lost, traumatized, dejected and jealous. It will be interesting to see how their relationship develops from here.
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