Originally posted by: book.worm
So, beautifully explained.
I don’t see as Imlie is being butchered or Imlie is not the Imlie we knew from episode 1. Goofiness is her defense mechanism from the beginning. When she was staying at T house in the beginning, it was these goofiness that made her cope with the issues and bounce back. And experiences molds us and the changes in Imlie’s attitude right now is because of the experiences she had.
the change in attitude regarding Malini is because, when she let Malini stay at their house she thought that Adi and she were on the same page, and first time she thought their trust in each other was above everything else and second time she thought that now Adi saw the proof he will not be no longer blind to Malini’s plottings. But now, she knows that they are not on the same page and Adi’s trust in her comes with conditions and hence her demand that Malini be send home.
--> This is what breaks my heart most. Ye tha barabari ka rishta
I feel Imlie accepted to stay at Aryan’s house because of two factors.
1. She had met his mother and sister and had hit it off with them immediately. He is not just a boss at office, she knew his family by the time he offered her a room for rent.
2. She had been homeless, he had saved her from assault and when she refused the offer at first, he actually offered her to keep her self respect and accept the stay by asking for rent.
And at present Adi’s warnings are not based on any solid fact. And Aryan is also not helping Imlie to use her against Adi as was his monologue based on his decision of bringing Imlie home.
And Imlie refusing Adi’s warning it is because she had reacted more on his taunts on “her friend” and she got this feeling that he is doubting her character. And not because she wants to hurt Adi.
It makes sense for Imlie to not seek help from T family because she had left that house and their immediate solution would be come back home and might forcefully take her home with emotional blackmailing. And let’s all accept that T family have never supported her opposite Malini, even today after all that happened they are still calling Malini, “beta”.
wanted to mention this yesterday but forgot… Adi was so heartbroken and shattered hearing Imlie saying she was a naukrani at T house. Where was this despair and anger when AC used to come to his house after all the JM expose and still used to call his wife a “naukrani”?
--> Search me. I really want to ask all Adi supporters this question. Why he didn't shut AC up.
Regarding Imlie’s contribution to the whole mess by forcing Adi to hide their marriage from all. Imlie did ask for her right on his wedding day and he had taunted her and accused her. Then she had sacrificed her marriage for Aparna. By the time Adi had realized his love and accepted their marriage, their truth would have hurt the whole family and Malini, and her fears were proved right when their marriage was revealed to all. So, Imlie didn’t add to the mess, she just delayed it.
--> +10000 . I have been saying same. I don't see how Imlie contributed to mess.
Aparna’s question regarding Adi introducing Imlie as a naukrani after bringing her home was not about the family accepting Imlie as his wife that time, I feel what she meant by that is if he had told the truth then the bigamy wouldn’t have happened and his life wouldn’t be a mess now.
in my understanding, the whole mess can be sorted by only two people, Malini or Adi.
Malini accept that Adi and Imlie are the true husband and wife and what she thought was grand love was just friendship and move out, which will never happen.
Or Adi realize that Malini has been plotting and causing all the problems and keep her at a distance and be just co-parents and no longer gehri dosts.
He needs to realize that he can no longer keep Imlie and Malini at his house. Can he guarantee that when Malini’s mood strikes, that she wouldn’t rape him again? Or her mother give him drugs and dresses up her daughter as Imlie and send to his room to celebrate honeymoon again?
--> Again my question since JM morning. Adi is saying focus on me. He said that before JM then how JM happened. How can you say same thing after JM. What you should be saying is if you don't trust Malini, trust me. I will not allow anything like that happen again and this is my plan to avoid this. Simple "trust me" doesn't work after JM.