Originally posted by: AreYaar
So there's a few things worth noting here I'd say:
a) No one has said that Imlie was wrong for leaving T house....as far as I know, everyone here agrees that it was the need of the hour at that point since Imlie had reached the end of her patience with Adi's cluelessness about M and he asked the wrong Q to make her snap.
b) Being able to solve something has nothing to do with age.....age doesn't automatically make someone more mature or wise. If that was the case, then Malini would also be wiser than Imlie - is she? So it's not about age, it's about personality and characteristics.
Adi is older than Imlie, but that does not mean he is savvy about handling all kinds of matters. He is a typical man in many ways who doesn't like to deal with drama so he avoids or sidesteps it.....and the Malini situation in his life is far more complicated cuz he is a victim of her emotional abuse and psychotic manipulations since many years....it's not easy to break out from a cycle of abuse....and every victim has their own way of coping. Adi copes by zoning out M to as much of an extent as he can cuz he doesn't want to deal with her bullshit....if people think that means he agrees with what crap she talks, to each their own. He is trapped in a nightmarish situation vis a vis the drugging and now this pregnancy, so there is no easy path out of this. Constantly berating him for the same thing is not magically going to make him see the light either.
c) What Imlie is doing is out of both hurt AND ego....and her POV had clarity when she initially left....now it's more about her ego about how much she can slam Adi in every other scene by telling him he shouldn't bother showing concern for her or always claiming he is doing shak on her.....she is doing it out of ego even for convos not related to M.
Adi did not drive the situation alone to this point...Imlie also contributed along the way with her impulsiveness and reactions to M's provocations.....so it's not fair to only constantly keep blaming Adi alone. At this point, they are both contributing equally to making the situation worse.
Don't really care about Aryan or his suddenly enthu fandom.....lol they are welcome to their khyaali pulaavs.....sabki chop hogi jaise humari bhi hui hai since 300 epis.