Being Together

Anupama does her best to ensure normalcy is restored in Leela and Baapuji's relationship. Anuj yesterday summed up what Anupama meant to the family. She was the reason they smiled. The idiots the reason they were apart. Kavya was the cause for Leela- Hasmukh , Dolly- Vanraj and now Kinjal- Paritosh spat.

Kavya alienates people, Anupama believes in forging ties. Though married Vanya and Kintosh are not together. Though not married as yet MaAn are together and do things together with no Ego trips.

Kinda fits the adage: you reap what you sow.

Or that we hold our fate within our hands …

Kavya thought owning the house meant she owned everyone’s heart but once again, she proved that she’s immature, spoilt, and sees how a relationship can benefit her. She can only see A & C but not B inbtwn.

Anu, foolishly (most times), gave herself away BUT she proves respecting another’s feelings inadvertently made her queen of their hearts. (Granted not everyone was loyal or truly respected the unpolished gem she was).

agree

but i m not liking behaviour of vanraaj towards kavya

he has a problem wo har lady par chilana janta h first he used to man handled anupama then he didnt even leave his mother and now kavya . he is totally sick

he behaves like isse jyada doodh ka dhula koi hai nahi duniya mein . he never did anything wrong with anybody and everyone is culprit of him😡

but today maan scene was so beautiful. their relationship is growing slowly and this phase is beautiful

anuj care anupama understanding her guilt and their care free laugh

its like anuj sabse jyada apna ho gaya uska

Infact any relationship has to move this way to remain strong. It can't move like Solomon Grundy. Everyday you reach the next phase.

Agreed hat Ladla has not learnt how to treat women and Kavya has not learnt to treat others well.

Kavya thinks this is the way to become the lady of he house, Ladla thinks that by willing it, he can become a business tycoon. The obsession with outcomes interferes with their genuine response. it is hilarious to hear Kavya tell that she has got her love...What is love? Are one upmanship , taunts, fights and dominating love? what an MBA she is.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Kavya thinks this is the way to become the lady of he house, Ladla thinks that by willing it, he can become a business tycoon. The obsession with outcomes interferes with their genuine response. it is hilarious to hear Kavya tell that she has got her love...What is love? Are one upmanship , taunts, fights and dominating love? what an MBA she is.

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These epis, especially with the available parallels and juxtaposition of MaAn & VanYa, have really helped mold a good discussion about the meaning of love. A little tired so I might not remember all my ruminations BUT the dialogue is strongly focused on “What is love?”

Is it something we proudly beat our chest and declare to the world or is it devotion? It’s both but the idea is where do we put the emphasis on?

Love happens but where do we go from there? MaAn as individuals are able to incorporate love into their lives BUT VanYa as people know how to take but where do they go after declaring love?

Can love always be maintained as 50-50 or is it give&take or just take-take-take? MaAn balance each other out but is it feasible to say VanYa, who are used to receiving and usurping, need to change their base nature in order for their relationship to stay?

Both couples are pairs of like personalities - yet one is thriving and the other is sputtering. One, with years of distance, have almost everything in tandem; whereas the other, with years of subterfuge, seem to be oceans apart and stagnant.

One doesn’t need a perfect lover (Anuj & V have shown they can be flawed) or a thorough provider (V was the most basic of providers for Anu whereas Anuj gracefully opens doors) but what makes the perfect partner? Can you have one thing without the other, do we need both?

I think, other than the obvious reasons, Anuj is attractive to me because he is a true tiger whereas V is a paper tiger. I think there are a lot of women who are attracted to what V portrays - healthy, angry young man (but is that attractive after the age of 35-37+?), and he brings out that inherent desire for one to “fix him.” But Anuj, bluntly put, has big d energy - he’s a mentally secure and self-assured man. He isn’t any less by having given more to someone else

vey aptly put Moksha agree with every point you have mentioned.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Anupama does her best to ensure normalcy is restored in Leela and Baapuji's relationship. Anuj yesterday summed up what Anupama meant to the family. She was the reason they smiled. The idiots the reason they were apart. Kavya was the cause for Leela- Hasmukh , Dolly- Vanraj and now Kinjal- Paritosh spat.

Kavya alienates people, Anupama believes in forging ties. Though married Vanya and Kintosh are not together. Though not married as yet MaAn are together and do things together with no Ego trips.

Rightly said. Kavya was the reason that the whole family got splitted. However Anupama is the reason due to which they have the strength to laugh and stay motivated.

Well yesterday someone here shared a Twitter post, there is was mentioned of couples two are in marriage yet they are apart and two people are not a couple yet gave a couple vibe. So it is evident loud n clear.

Originally posted by: moksha89

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These epis, especially with the available parallels and juxtaposition of MaAn & VanYa, have really helped mold a good discussion about the meaning of love. A little tired so I might not remember all my ruminations BUT the dialogue is strongly focused on “What is love?”

Is it something we proudly beat our chest and declare to the world or is it devotion? It’s both but the idea is where do we put the emphasis on?

Love happens but where do we go from there? MaAn as individuals are able to incorporate love into their lives BUT VanYa as people know how to take but where do they go after declaring love?

Can love always be maintained as 50-50 or is it give&take or just take-take-take? MaAn balance each other out but is it feasible to say VanYa, who are used to receiving and usurping, need to change their base nature in order for their relationship to stay?

Both couples are pairs of like personalities - yet one is thriving and the other is sputtering. One, with years of distance, have almost everything in tandem; whereas the other, with years of subterfuge, seem to be oceans apart and stagnant.

One doesn’t need a perfect lover (Anuj & V have shown they can be flawed) or a thorough provider (V was the most basic of providers for Anu whereas Anuj gracefully opens doors) but what makes the perfect partner? Can you have one thing without the other, do we need both?

I think, other than the obvious reasons, Anuj is attractive to me because he is a true tiger whereas V is a paper tiger. I think there are a lot of women who are attracted to what V portrays - healthy, angry young man (but is that attractive after the age of 35-37+?), and he brings out that inherent desire for one to “fix him.” But Anuj, bluntly put, has big d energy - he’s a mentally secure and self-assured man. He isn’t any less by having given more to someone else

An excellent analysis of the two couples.

There is a fine line between ego and self respect, between confidence and arrogance. Which side you spill over into colours your relationships in life. There is also the burden of expectation which plays a significant part in V and Kavya's equation, which isn't there, to a degree, between Anupama and Anuj.

Kavya in particular comes across as a very shallow and needy person. Anuj is very sorted and confident in his own skin. Both are the complete opposite to what Vanraaj and Anupama are accustomed to. These very personality traits are a significant reason for one relationship floundering and one flourishing.

Originally posted by: moksha89

100%

These epis, especially with the available parallels and juxtaposition of MaAn & VanYa, have really helped mold a good discussion about the meaning of love. A little tired so I might not remember all my ruminations BUT the dialogue is strongly focused on “What is love?”

Is it something we proudly beat our chest and declare to the world or is it devotion? It’s both but the idea is where do we put the emphasis on?

Love happens but where do we go from there? MaAn as individuals are able to incorporate love into their lives BUT VanYa as people know how to take but where do they go after declaring love?

Can love always be maintained as 50-50 or is it give&take or just take-take-take? MaAn balance each other out but is it feasible to say VanYa, who are used to receiving and usurping, need to change their base nature in order for their relationship to stay?

Both couples are pairs of like personalities - yet one is thriving and the other is sputtering. One, with years of distance, have almost everything in tandem; whereas the other, with years of subterfuge, seem to be oceans apart and stagnant.

One doesn’t need a perfect lover (Anuj & V have shown they can be flawed) or a thorough provider (V was the most basic of providers for Anu whereas Anuj gracefully opens doors) but what makes the perfect partner? Can you have one thing without the other, do we need both?

I think, other than the obvious reasons, Anuj is attractive to me because he is a true tiger whereas V is a paper tiger. I think there are a lot of women who are attracted to what V portrays - healthy, angry young man (but is that attractive after the age of 35-37+?), and he brings out that inherent desire for one to “fix him.” But Anuj, bluntly put, has big d energy - he’s a mentally secure and self-assured man. He isn’t any less by having given more to someone else

one does not need to stay together all the time to see the authentic other it is a pity that Vanya didn't see beyond the external.The MaAn equation is one based on the inherent goodness one perceives in the other. It has evolved beyond attraction. Yes Ladla is a paper tiger thrives by terrorising others. As a provider Ladla is in control his ego gets boosted. By empowering Anuj makes Anupama realise the potential to be tapped.