Help me understand Anupama

Apologies, in case you find my words harsh. Just wanted to share my opinion and understand from you folks. May be i am looking at things from a different perspective than you are and would like to understand. Generally, i try not to judge people but this time I can't help; maybe since its fictional character i am giving myself the liberty this time.

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After seeing latest SBS update, I am just not able to understand Anupama, any more. She was sitting next to Vanraj planning celebration and then that talk about staying for night. Chalo whether she actually stays or not, we will know. But how can you be so normal with Vanraj.

Now, what troubles me is was she really that offended, invalidated during those accusation that she was left with no choice but to leave that house. Or as Kavya said, was it really an excuse (from CVs) to make her leave the house.

Anuj only said today, 'shabdo ke jakhm bharne main waqt lagta hai.'

Are kaha, humari Anu to Vanraj ke saath party planning kar rahi hai. Yaar, ek bar maan lu, ki chalo baa ne tujhe sorry bol diya but behen Vanraj ne kab sorry bola. Remember it might me weeks for us but in Anupama's world its just being 4 days since she left that house.

That day, she gave example of draupati, didnt she asked for duryodhan’s blood after that. Here, humari Anu to kitty party kitty party khel rahi hai Vanraj ke saath.

I like what anuj said nafarat main sharafat. First they make those accusations a big deal and next movement it’s all in thin air.

I can understand, she cannot break ties with Vanraj as he is your children’s father. But madam can you please kept some distance. Any working women will tell you how, we deal with it on daily basis, where you have to work with all kinds of people. You learn to survive, maintain distance, be professional and find your way to get work done.

Sorry, but if all that was really that hurtful, how can she even think of platonic relationship with Vanraj without him being apologetic.

Honestly, during these marriage celebrations next week. I will be watching for Anuj’s behaviour towards Paritosh. As he was witness to his accusations. I don’t want him to fight but be human, ignore him completely. Don’t play friends or buddy with him until he realises his mistake.

Plz don't compare Draupadi with Anupama .

After d humiliation Draupadi asked for dussashan's blood & she made sure Pandava don't forget her humiliation .

Don't pay attention on Anupama's dialogues vo sirf bolne ke liye bolti hai uska matlab kuch nhi hota kyunki usko khud unka matlab nhi pata hota bas bolna hota .

Writer sahib should stop insulating inspiring characters like Draupadi & sita coz both stick to their words .

Writers have a major problem in this regard. They work as per their convenience. Convenience ke liye drama hota hai and convenience ke liye uss drama ko bhool jaate hai. If anyone faces the consequences of their actions/words on this show, it's only Anupamaa and that too when the writers find it convenient. Nobody can believe ki yeh lady aise aadmi ke saath party planning kar rahi hai who has called her so many names and raised so many accusations on her. It used to trouble me a lot how she can just talk to Vanraj so casually after everything par yeh writers ki purani aadat hai - I've just learned to let it go.

first make it clear reality ki baat kar rahe hain ya anupama ke world ki we cant mix these they are diffrent

reality main agar itna kissi ke saath hua ho woh dubara mud ke us family ki taraf bhi nahi dekhegi regarding kids if they want to meet her can come to her home can stay to her in home will ask for alimony and move out

anupmama world she will fight kill with words no literraly kill then next day are meri baa ki tabeyet kharab main jati hoon atleast she was skeptical to keep visiting the house when baa said i havent expected that also . ya family is important but at what cost i dont understand they try to show and starnge thing is nani and dadis are liking this attitude they explain me aurat kabhie bhi aopna parivaar nahi chod sakti kuch bhi ho so now get the pint this show is for everyone no carrier oriented women frankly unke pass itna time nahi ki woh log baith ke show dekhe bhi large audience are those who appreciate anupama like this aage badh rahi lekin family ke saath badh rahi. and they are targetting that large mass audience who like this but anyways i have accepted the fact anupama shash ke saath nahi codegi anuj might shift to that house 😆

the best charector is devika for me will alwasy be

Anupama wo paheli jisko bhagwan bhi banane ke solve nahi kar paye to hum insaan kya cheez hain🤣

Hypocrisy has always been her biggest criticism. So many topics made and discussed but all logics fail in front of trp drama.

So chill dont take anu seriously when she gives bhashans because the very next day she is always back to being a doormat.🤣

Just enjoy the show, performances, MaAn without involving too much in the story.

You offend me (not) with this question.

Mahanta is not a sin. Dil main doosro ke lie sadbhav rakhna hi insaniyat hai. Jo beet gyi so baat gyi, vanraj ne kal bezzati ki thi aaj nhi.

Aaj agar karega bhi toh its the holy duty of good human to show that man righteous path. Anu haar nhi maan sakti. Aaj vanraj akela hai, uski family asahay hai, they need anu varna kon ghar sajaega, loan bharega, unki taraf se kavya se ladega. Ab pyaar kia toh darna kya, apni anu sab karegi baa ki mohbbat main, aur apne ex pati ke dukh ke shano main

Thank you😛

Heinnnnn....are we talking about logics in anupamaa😲

Mai kisi galat forum me to nahi aa gai🤓

Thank you all for the sharing your thoughts. I cant tag or reply to you each individually, as being Newbie i have limited permissions

You are right, is serial ko sirf 'Dil se MaAn aur Anuj ke liye dekhna chahiye, dimaag aur logic jaye tel lene'

I have been personally trolling ITV for years because of this and honestly, have followed very very few selected serials. Most are good in beginning, i watch for 1-2 months and then drop.

Here, one point which bothers me at times, is how we shield/protect the mass audience they target from these wrong message. As in our elders who have very limited view of world and feels they will 'learn something new from Anupama'. After certain time see, roles do reverse; children start getting protective about parents and try to show them the world.

Ahh, i know, still it bothers.. will learn to make peace and divert my mind. Like i did today, by focussing on a new OS. I love writing, so if you get time please read and let me know.

Thank you once again for responding and understanding my dilemma. Appreciate you all taking time to reply.

Not only Draupadi, didn't Anupama refuse point-blank to prove the chastity of her relationship with Anuj stating "Agni Pariksha Ram ko di jaati hai, Raavan ko nahi" alluding Vanraj as Raavan and herself as Sita??? Didn't the same incident made her choose her self-respect above Shahs including Baa?

I wonder why do the makers keep on bringing religious/mythological symbolisms and allusions if they can't stick to such allusions at the very next instant?? Ekta Kapoor uses all the hymns and sacred chants on her protagonists just to show the evil (antagonists and vamps ) trouncing them throughout the Show and here we have Anupama, all talks and nil actions, happily helping Raavan to prepare a celebration for the same Baa who had been hands in gloves with her son to malign Anupama's character and tarnish her image.