Originally posted by: lovereading14
Bold: I disagree, at that time she was very clear that her end all be all is Canada and the only criteria she had for her to be husband was that he would take her to Canada. In her eyes Fateh betrayed her trust, and put his wishes above her own. Fateh was the one who was ok that she did not 'love' him but 'loved' Canada instead. He still pursued till marriage.
Where Jasso goes wrong is pushing Tejo towards Fateh and then doing this ema, calling jas, and all the crap she has pulled ever since. This whole lashing out at Tejo for her spoiled entry was also not needed and just shows how much of a spoilt brat Jasso is.
Isha did a good job (after a long time) and appreciating her was the right thing when we criticise her for poor performances.
I still put part blame on her for the marriage.
When she first met fateh she was adamant about canada being the most important thing in her life. So he decided to fulfill her dreams and wanted to win her love.
Along the way , they used to meet and date . That's where she was also drawn to him .
She also confessed to fateh she loves him during their pre marriage rituals . When we are in love with someone we forgive the person and go ahead coz the love matters more. Here on marriage day she was adamant canada was above everything. Nothing else matters.
During the premarriage rituals, she showed him that she loves him dearly as well. So he thought she might give him another chance. There was a little hope there from his side that she will understand him.
I agree she has every right to be angry at that time that the news of him not getting that job was hidden from her but she must also look at the situation where she was standing at that time
Baraat has come. It's marriage day. Family humiliation at stake. She never once thought about that. She still go ahead with her decision despite numerous efforts of everyone explaining to her coz she feels just becoz her dad couldn't fulfill his promise to her mother to take her to canada, she thinks her fate will be the same. There was no trust. She didn't trust him despite him leaving everything for her
A guy is willing to leave his adored family , willing to be away from his family just to be with u , to spend his life with u wherever u wanted to live. Can't u trust him a little. There are many opportunities that will come on the way. He even told her he will keep trying. MLA son with good sports background, qualified guy , don't tell me he can't take u to canada someday. All she had to do was just wait a few miore days as he had other job interviews on the row. There was defo another chance
The main problem here as overall is not canada, it's her nature. Selfish, only puts importance to her own desires and do no think about the consequences. How it might affect others.
To me, jasmin sandhu has always been wrong from day one. Her selfishness , self centredness and being unappreciative is to be blamed