Originally posted by: peacenfun
From Suman's pov all drama between Shivi happened only because 'Raavi ne mere Shiva ko dil se nahi apnaya', he fell for her but she didn't reciprocate his feelings, 'wo samjhi hi nahi iss khare sone ko' 'jisne maut se bacha kar iska haath thama uski kadar na kar payi'
She doesn't know Raavi's pov or her feelings but as a mother she knew Shiva fell for Raavi n now he won't be able to love anyone else again, also that Raavi not reciprocating his feelings was killing him, as per Suman every action of Shiva was in retaliation n frustration because Raavi didn't love him, and it frustrated Suman too, nothing she tried to make Shiva forget Raavi or move-on from her worked and that was her biggest fear that Shiva will be deprived of love for his whole life, thats why she liked Disha so much, because as a mother she knew Disha was crazy about Shiva n she hoped that she will treasure Shiva
Even I tried to understand her pov..
She definitely is a typical MIL, for whom her children's happiness matters more than anything else.. She loves her DILs also, but only after her sons.. She is trying to be strict with her bahus so that they don't dance on her head..
Many of the times I have felt that the kadvi baatein she says about her bahus, she doesn't mean them.. and Dhara knows it very well, I think to an extent Raavi bhi, that's why she didn't take all the taunts into heart and acting very normal with her, she has seen her since childhood..
About mangalsutra, I think she expected Raavi not to remove it and give it to her even if she forced her to.. The whole thing is more like, she will say whatever she wants to say, but she expects her DILs to do only the right thing.. like she was not upset that they stole the MS and she wore it, deep inside she wants the same but she speaks otherwise!!
Ps. I am not trying to justify her, I am trying to understand her