Sorry, don’t like the new promo-honest opinion - Page 9

Originally posted by: hinz

imagine if that happens, Bapuji bhi naa...bade woh hai😉🤣

I remembered that cadbury ad

Agar bapuji ne sach mein aisa kar diya to...anuj will look so embarrassed from outside but andar se-

Beta, mann mein laddu phhota☺️🤣

babuji ka segment either vanraj/anupama/baa ki dream hogi🤣

First sorry for the late response. I slept today😆

After watching, promo twice, I can tell the expression on Anu was disappointment that ohh God what he is saying. I cannot place anyone in my heart. Its paap.

Well if we are concerned that love story will start too early, then please be aware that she is Anupama. Processing that someone loved her, she was divasted and when for job someone had to fight with her to tell her the right path.

Loving someone, she will take ages. No matter babuji gave her that sense or someone else. Opening heart for someone else is not an easy task no matter samne wala Banda Anuj hi kyu na ho.

So chill. Upar se humara villian bhi to use confuse karne ke liye ready ho raha hai na. To chill.

Tujhe tag karna bhul gayi upar

TBH, I am finding Anupama's reactions towards Anuj fake. No matter what age/situation a (normal) woman is in her life, she cant be this nonchalant when a man expresses his love for her.

She is acting like a sanyasi where nothing will affect her! 🤔

I wish they showed how she really felt instead of Bapuji interfering in her personal space.

Haan vanraj ka pyaar karna bhi selfish tha btw i was talking about this scene

https://www.hotstar.com/in/tv/anupama/1260022017/vanraj-proposes-to-anupama/1000256949

Yes hinaaa. Even i don't want her to marry him under pressure. It shld be totally out of love. And i am somewhere confident anu won't disappoint us 🤞👍👍

Too soon to judge based on the promo. Sometimes when you are reluctant to try something because you had a bitter experience in past, you just need someone to encourage you to not be scared. Explain that just because you failed once doesn’t mean you will fail again.

Anupama is scared rightnow, if Bapuji is just giving her simple nudge in the direction or asking her to not close her heart because of her experience with V, I don’t find anything wrong in it.

But again, hoping thats where Bapuji stopped. There is fine line between advising and pressuring someone and I hope Bapuji didn’t cross it 😇

Originally posted by: yuvanaa

Thing is anu had been submissive for 25 years in her sasural. She was conditioned to be submissive and also was convinced that she is not worthy enough to be loved. Simple put we all know shr had been treated like a slave for 25 yrs by her own husband.

I have seen anupamaa previous epis too. So i know why anu needs this push from bapuji .

It is not like she is waiting for their permission to move forward in her life. It is more like a guidance.

For a woman who had been mentally abused for 25 yrs and who is completely broken inside won't be so easy for her to find love , even give a chance to love again so easily.

She is living in denial mode. Even if she herself realises she loves anuj na she wld still live in denial mode. That is why bapuji's push here is necessary.

One user had commented this - just like how devika had to give her the push to accept the partnership.

Coz she lived in such submissive conditioning all these yrs.

Samar bapuji guide her to walk on the path which wld lead to the destination of happiness in her personal life and not force their wishes on her. So ultimately the decision wld be hers.

As G said , she wld take time even might avoid etc but this is a push for her towards her progress in personal life.

As for trashraj, i am counting on kavya coz she is a pycho obsessed lover who still loves her V.

This is my pov. Just thought to put it here 👍👍

rightly said yuvaa, plus after relooking at the promo, V is all set to play the "nice cop" game to show his family that he has changed i think....it is yet to see how Anu will interpret this and whether a mirror is needed or not. We have to live with the fact that at every junction Anu does need a push, till she comes out of that submissive state and realizes her self worth, gains confidence that she is worthy of that love and to live a life like a Queen. Its not going to be easy.

Originally posted by: hinz

you put it so much better, no wonder you are an educator😀

thank u thank u hinzeee, analogies and perceptions are part of me and my habit now hahahaha 🤗