OK about the housemates

It's true the way umar handled afsana was highly appreciable👏 and it's true that the housemates should have acted in a more rational way. But I could see some of them like jay and rajiv were genuinely concerned about her health but their way of handling was wrong definitely wrong but I will not call that inhuman I will just call that stupidity. And regarding shouting the thinks which afsana said was cheap hence rajiv and jay shouted at her. Anyways I may have different pov here😃

Problem is when she starts speaking she doesn't shut up. She goes on a tangent where people either have to leave her alone or shout themselves to let the message through to her. She can shout for hours at a stretch. And her behavior is absolutely disgusting. 🤢

Originally posted by: locopoco

Problem is when she starts speaking she doesn't shut up. She goes on a tangent where people either have to leave her alone or shout themselves to let the message through to her. She can shout for hours at a stretch. And her behavior is absolutely disgusting. 🤢

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Plus the allegations she made were horrible hence I can understand the shouting part. Jay took a stand for rajiv but he even tried to control afsana. But he is being misunderstood due to the shouting part

Quiet a lot of people tried explaining to her but she doesn't understand.

Originally posted by: locopoco

Quiet a lot of people tried explaining to her but she doesn't understand.

I think it is easy for us to rationalize as we were not there. Once on the subway this man had a knife and he was threatening that if anyone came near him he will stab them. People started screaming and ringing 911 and panicking. I was scared too as I had someone with me whom I was babysitting. However, as soon as the stop came the guy calmed down and walked out with the police like nothing had happened, and everyone was so shocked I think we all missed our stop. I give this example here because if you ask me now, I can give you 100 ways to diffuse the situation but in reality its very different. Why do SWAT and high risk negotiators get burnt out so bad - because the situation is extremely stressful.

Afsana is the only one responsible for herself, no one else. In fact mental health professionals clearly state that do not do anything to manage the situation. Also, I doubt anyone in the house are aware that her mental health is this bad. She acts hot and cold and she has no awareness of anything. She is also very stupid - she thinks her saying sorry means all okay. That's a very childish mentality. They have seen her for what - 4 weeks now? and they know she is prone to histrionics so they don't want to mollycoddle her which makes sense and none of them apart from Umar know what is going on. Umar managed it but he is not her GP so he may not know everything. Afsana should not be in the show - she should focus on her singing and being happy. This is not her cup of tea, this requires strong mind and hers sadly is not healthy.

Originally posted by: vibha28

I think it is easy for us to rationalize as we were not there. Once on the subway this man had a knife and he was threating that if anyone came near him he will stab them. People started screaming and ringing 911 and panicking. I was scared too as I had someone with me whom I was babysitting. However, as soon as the stop came the guy calmed down and walked out with the police like nothing had happened, and everyone was so shocked I think we all missed our stop. I give this example here because if you ask me now, I can give you 100 ways to diffuse the situation but in reality its very different. Why do SWAT and high risk negotiators get burnt out so bad - because the situation is extremely stressful.

Afsana is the only one responsible for herself, no one else. In fact mental health professionals clearly state that do not do anything to manage the situation. Also, I doubt anyone in the house are aware that her mental health is this bad. She acts hot and cold and she has no awareness of anything. She is also very stupid - she thinks her saying sorry means all okay. That's a very childish mentality. They have seen her for what - 4 weeks now? and they know she is prone to histrionics so they don't want to mollycoddle her which makes sense and none of them apart from Umar know what is going on. Umar managed it but he is not her GP so he may not know everything. Afsana should not be in the show - she should focus on her singing and being happy. This is not her cup of tea, this requires strong mind and hers sadly is not healthy.

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

I loved your neutral post👏. Exactly when a person is reacting in this way then it's very difficult to be rational. Though I don't support the statement passed by shamita but I can't say others specially jay and rajiv were inhuman for shouting at her. Anyways I think the main culprit is getting a clean chit and that is bb🤬. Using someone's mental health for trp even showing the confession room discussion I mean how low will bb stoop🤬. This show deserves 0 trp👎🏼

trp

Thank you 😊

I don’t have any favourites maybe that’s why my post are from another perspective. I liked Karan in the beginning but then he decided to turn into Romeo so there goes that.

You are absolutely right and I completely agree, it is bloody BBs fault. Did they not evaluate this woman before allowing her in? How can they allow a sick person and then actually make sure we all see her deteriorate as well? That’s height of callous behaviour. Next is what? Had she stabbed herself or someone else we would get to watch someone die too? For TRP?
It was obvious she was fluctuating and saying I will go if Rajiv goes, I pity Afsana as I found out her mom was a house help and she comes from very humble beginnings. This was her career and now she will be known as lady with mental health issues which is so sad.

Al of them in that house going through do much even they must be mentally drained than to handle someone so hyper who doesn't listen is not easy. I don't blame anyone for it rather than Afsana bcoz she started all of it by putting crap on Rajiv and threatening for something which is a serious thing.

Exactly, people seem to forget what it must be like living with her. I always wondered why the housemates went to comfort after she behaved rudely during punishment task instead of letting her be, but they knew about her mental health condition.

I don't think anyone was trying to aggravate her condition but just getting the last word in as they typically do, which a was bad judgment call. Promos are still showing Afsana's breakdown in the next episode, why is BB letting this go on?

Jai is right to be cautious. People don't expect things to happen until they do.