What's wrong with the Birla men?

Honestly, something is really weird about the married men of the Birlas. All of them are so insensitive towards their wives and treat them like trash and I can see Abhi doing the same towards Akshara or Arohi, whoever he gets married to.

They're so full of themselves, and I thought the younger one, Parth, was sane but even he's the same. Many don't get a lavish leave for Diwali and of course, since they own Birla Hospital, they can go on leave but people like journalists and everyone else with heavy workload don't get leaves. And as always, the woman has to adjust and understand while the men do nothing.

Really hope they show Parth understanding and not vice versa.

Precap: don't even get ne started on how two rich families are getting their children engaged and the groom doesn't know who he is getting married too. Brush.

I am confused about recap too🤔🤔 because in yesterday's recap they show that kairav clearly asked abhi whom he want to marry; akshara or arohi? So why the engagement drama😵😵

I totally agree. In the beginning I thought I liked Parth. But with today's episode, he was so whiny and disrespectful towards his wife. Anyway he stays at home, take care of the house, no, when she goes out for work.

The day Abhi starts behaving that way to Akshara I will stop watching it. That's exactly what I did with Kaira too. The moment Kartik turned unbearable, I stopped watching.

Clearly there are two things which are wrong. First thing there needs to be balance between work and family life. If your going to neglect one for the other you are going to face problems and one shouldn't be looking down upon the person who looks after kids and home. Both are equally important. So clearly parth alone cannot be blamed. The difference between him and abhi mother is that she doesn't complain and fight but adjusts while he is vocal about his feelings. Nways the main point here the Birla family faced this problem of incompatibility between the couples so abhi s parents want an equal match for abhi and abhi is certainly going break this notion about it.

Whole Birla family is selfish and self centered..🤢...

Neil is the only positive guy [and most sorted out one] in Birla family

Unlike Goenka's [who were shown in some neg light in begining]-- they loved each other to the core

Originally posted by: Shiner

Clearly there are two things which are wrong. First thing there needs to be balance between work and family life. If your going to neglect one for the other you are going to face problems and one shouldn't be looking down upon the person who looks after kids and home. Both are equally important. So clearly parth alone cannot be blamed. The difference between him and abhi mother is that she doesn't complain and fight but adjusts while he is vocal about his feelings. Nways the main point here the Birla family faced this problem of incompatibility between the couples so abhi s parents want an equal match for abhi and abhi is certainly going break this notion about it.

I completely understand that there needs to be a work life balance, but she is a journalist and they have to be on their toes 24 7. News happens everywhere and anywhere, thats what Parth should've known before marrying her.

I've often seen women adjusting and understanding their husbands and their busy profile, why can't just for once a man get that women work hard too. Plus, atleast as of now, she seems decent to me, the rapport she has with the other siblings.

I think what’s going to happen is that, when Abhi comes to tell about his interest I marrying Akshara, and Kairav ask is the proposal for Akshu or Arohi, I think before Abhi can respond he probably gets an emergency call from one of his patients at the hospital and goes without telling. Then obviously the Birla elders thinking Abhi went and spoke to the girls family, so they should now proceed with the relation and calls and tells that they want to make Arohi their bahu. Of course at this point the Goenka’s will be like we were thinking for Akshu but Arohi at this point will probably confess her feelings and also say that Abhi also likes her. So then Akshu will think it’s one sided love from her side and keep it to herself for Arohi’s happiness. (She might even misinterpret Abhi’s phone call to tell his feelings as him considering her as a friend wanted to tell about Arohi). So Akshu would say Abhi is a perfect match for Arohi and as usual Arohi will show her arrogant side and the Goenka’s will accept the proposal. Abhi on the other hand is going to find out that the proposal has moved forward and thinking that his mom know it’s Akshu ( when she obviously doesn’t) will be ok until when he realizes the mixup. That’s why they show the shocked faces of Kairav, and Abhi’s parents. Anyways moving forward. It’s going to be a lot of misunderstandings and trying to convince both families and Akhara as well( even though she has feelings for him, she’ll suppress it for Arohi’s sake). Abhi’s got his work cur out for him. Poor guy. I do feel sorry for Arohi but how can she assume that he wants to be a relationship without confirming his feelings with him. Abhi was right yesterday when he told his family, I like a girl, let me talk to her and find out what she feels before you guys go to speak of any proposal.

Possible. I also saw a short clipping where Mimi interrupts him while he is answering the question.

And for some reason, I feel the entire Goenkas think the alliance is for Akshara and it's only Arohi who thinks it's for her. She might talk about it later to Akshara with so much happiness about her dream coming true finally and hence Akshara backs off. Also, Abhi's family will think it's Arohi. The whole thing will be a misunderstanding between the families and they will be arguing with each other instead of Abhi rejecting Arohi at the last moment.

I agree with the last statement aarohi never tried to know about what abhimanyu feels..relationships are a two way street ... it should be there from both the sides but arohi is so full of herself that she didn't bother about abhimanyu's feelings...and now she'll have to pay the price in the most brutal way by getting rejected in front of everyone.

Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala

I completely understand that there needs to be a work life balance, but she is a journalist and they have to be on their toes 24 7. News happens everywhere and anywhere, thats what Parth should've known before marrying her.

I've often seen women adjusting and understanding their husbands and their busy profile, why can't just for once a man get that women work hard too. Plus, atleast as of now, she seems decent to me, the rapport she has with the other siblings.

Parth doesn't seem to be someone who doesn't seem to be understanding. If that was the case he wouldn't have married a journalist. Secondly do we know the adjustments parth made ? I think it's her every day job all he was asking to be at home with family for festival that's it. Plus his wife's side it didn't even look like she has to go or she will try to talk to boss she was more than excited for covering that scandal and meeting big people. I feel the man was asking was to spend time at home with family for one day. Just because her relationship with other siblings is good doesn't mean he is wrong. Her going out doesn't affect other siblings right.