Udariyaan | Episode Discussion Thread #39 - Page 108

Tag me for the updates. Will read when i return

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

That's a very restrictive way to think. I'll advice you to visit a subreddit, surviving infidelity, it's about people who decide to make it work after they've faced unfaithfulness in relationships.

It's a choice, which requires careful consideration. There are people who decide to go to therapy, do it honestly and make it work. And not because of any external pressures. Sure, you can always say that they'll hurt you again, but 1) that's not always true. People are capable of growth and change. 2) If you're in love, you're gambling on getting hurt. That's given.

And especially in Indian context, if both sides have genuine interest, and emotions towards saving the relationship, then they can. Like Indians make arranged marriage work, which is literally nothing but a very calculated transaction, and involves religion, caste, class, education, looks as different factors. In itself, the idea is so gross, that Bhagat singh (imo very accurately, said that marriages are like prostitution.) If people can have genuinely beautiful relationships outta that, then a relationship surviving infidelity is possible.

I totally understand your point and I do agree because it's about perspective. Two person won't take the exact same descision given the same scenario. People are different and so is their choice. And yes, if anyone chooses to stay with their cheater partner, I wouldn't judge them. I understand where they are coming from but I will not support that descision either. I mean it's not that our support makes a big difference in someone else's life descision but atleast I will be right to my conscience. You get my point right?

I understand everything but still yar how do one ever be normal again with the person who cheated them? Is it even possible?

Originally posted by: FIREMYSOUL

Wo next week dekte hai. Same thoughts by the way.this ph gets good performers and wastes their talent. Round hole square peg ho gaya with kvg here. It's too rushed no depth. Writing tho waise bhi kadde main thi. Just giving him witty one liners is not enough. As for SM hype everyone was fed up with JFT ka stale circus tho any new entry pe kush ho jaate ye log.😆 Just hope karan ke character ko butcher na kare baaki sab ko tho kar hi dia hai.

Yaar do you know how much tolerable the show is since he's arrived. Like he takes the heaviness from scenes. Tbh I don't understand his character at all. Like he's playing cupid in that drinking scene with fateh. He says all the right things, at the right moment which would make fateh use his brain. Then he flirts normally like a bachelor with Tejo (I swear I find it ridiculously funny, he's genuinely hitting on her and she laughs as if he's told her a joke).

He's a crush on her, it's obvious, he's enamored with her. I love their scenes together, and was among the ones who jumped up and down in happiness. But, I don't see them working out together for real. They have too much of mentor student vibe. Idk how to say this, as ronakshi, he's amazing. Can't say same thing about tejang.

Episode updated dedo yar koi🤡

Originally posted by: Lovelydutt

I totally understand your point and I do agree because it's about perspective. Two person won't take the exact same descision given the same scenario. People are different and so is their choice. And yes, if anyone chooses to stay with their cheater partner, I wouldn't judge them. I understand where they are coming from but I will not support that descision either. I mean it's not that our support makes a big difference in someone else's life descision but atleast I will be right to my conscience. You get my point right?

I understand everything but still yar how do one ever be normal again with the person who cheated them? Is it even possible?

One of the toughest things I've ever had an internal conflict was about a video I saw. A rape victim was talking about her experience, and she forgave her rapist, and that's how she was able to heal, and move on in her life. It genuinely made myself so angry that I left a very unkind comment on that video. I had to revise my reaction after a few years when someone else liked that comment. I was ashamed. Idk how, it dawned upon me that people are different, and it's upon them how to heal.

As for moving on with the same person, realistically, therapy. Both individual and couple. They've to grow, and evolve. The only person who's any say in this to make decisions is the one who got hurt. They btw, at any point can check out of that relationship too. It's tough, but I've seen one of my closest friend doing it. They were apart btw for 5 years, dated other people, and are now married. People are fu🤬 complex.

Originally posted by: Lovelydutt

Episode updated dedo yar koi🤡

Just a filler episode

J selecting wedding cards F kya fayda no one will come. Both fathers do background check on angad and decide to take things forward. Virk family refuses to be part of wedding T arrives with green tea packet for KSV and tries to convince them of accepting J. JF sees this. Angad does yoga in academy and makes T do as well. Some light moments between the two. J also comes to sandhu house outside and taunts T that she is doing naatak to get F back and Y she came to J ka ghar. T says y so insecure and some dialogues etc.Next day Angad also makes chai in academy basically keeping everyone happy and light. Both fathers arrive at academy and talk to T abt marriage with Angad. End.

Originally posted by: Aniash

Oh god

Now they are planted in the montage

When will this jasfa crap end??

Just get them married away. Why becoz of them tejo has to go through sacrifices

She's got nothing better to do ??

I hope they don't show itv typical crap

Fateh's haldi on tejo etc

Fatejo touched the bowl of mehendi and they get coloured and bg rab ney benadi jodi.

I am taking break from this marriage track till climax . Who dumps, who marries, who kidnaps, who kills who all will happen on wedding day.

I am traveling to attend relatives marriage offshore so that helps to get away a while.

Have a nice weekend ahead.

See u all next week.

Have a nice break Ani...enjoy the real wedding..

Ye wedding track to chalata hi rahega

Originally posted by: Bluekohl

Yaar do you know how much tolerable the show is since he's arrived. Like he takes the heaviness from scenes. Tbh I don't understand his character at all. Like he's playing cupid in that drinking scene with fateh. He says all the right things, at the right moment which would make fateh use his brain. Then he flirts normally like a bachelor with Tejo (I swear I find it ridiculously funny, he's genuinely hitting on her and she laughs as if he's told her a joke).

He's a crush on her, it's obvious, he's enamored with her. I love their scenes together, and was among the ones who jumped up and down in happiness. But, I don't see them working out together for real. They have too much of mentor student vibe. Idk how to say this, as ronakshi, he's amazing. Can't say same thing about tejang.

Tejo is looking sexy and suave. Her straight hairs, long errings ❤️ no more wearing curtains.

To much of Tejang.. sweet Angad....Angad is the best jaap. .. Tejo acting mahaan ....requsting families to attend Jasfa shaadi.

Jasmin total kamini mode....... Fateh kaha hai Fateh ....bechara his role is gone.....bas Angad hi Angad hai aaj.......

still i will say better......at least you won't get pissed off seeing that pandulam F wagging his tail behind J and looking longingly at Tejo .

TejAng scenes are so refreshing to watch. They did yoga together today. Angad made Tejo do yoga with him cuz he said, “mujhe pata hai apke ashant man ko shant rakhna kitna jaruri hai” . They played bol na halke halke on TejAng today

Angad looking up Tejo’s resume, qualifications and getting impressed and thinking about her. Whereas, Tejo admiring Angad making people happy and spreading joy around ❤️

And Tejo pura haq jamake bolne lagi hai Angad se 😆.. she’s getting comfortable around him