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Posted: 4 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP


celebrities are some of the most impacted by this btw. And given they are in public eye often force themselves to ignore it. U can see it in one star after another. U know Robin Williams committed suicide ? One of the finest comedians that lived and someone who was spontaneously funny .. without a script. …


You are too close to this subject. And given you spend a lot of time making people aware I don’t wanna argue with you. Because you think I am diluting your awareness. I am not arguing with you if India needs a lot more progress on this or any other health topic more than western world. It does.

My point is this needs a lot of progress globally. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 And nope. I am not a subject matter expert. But I do deal with this topic. 🙏🏻🙏🏻 Gonna leave it at that.

Don’t be mad at me ❤️🙏🏻

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Of course not, I am not mad at you at all. I think you have a viewpoint which is valid and thought provoking but I have seen it first hand and I am comparing it with what I have seen. When I was in New Zealand I found out that their mental health funding is peanuts which was shocking but on the other hand USA has the same problem. But the awareness is there - so I took it as two different issues. But chill dear, all good I have agreed with you on everything else 💕💕💕

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Posted: 4 years ago
#92

BB team should now do a complete medical background check before making anyone contestants. It's not easy to stay in BB house where alliances make and break, food shortages, aggressive task, roasting by guest and host.

Hope saanjh and his must be knowing about her mental health already and supports her.


Her family too must not be understanding her mental condition because ppl think such behaviour is because success has gone into head. But they don't understand that sucess brings lot of stress too which is detrimental to mental health.

Edited by naaznin - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#93

Originally posted by: vibha28

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Of course not, I am not mad at you at all. I think you have a viewpoint which is valid and thought provoking but I have seen it first hand and I am comparing it with what I have seen. When I was in New Zealand I found out that their mental health funding is peanuts which was shocking but on the other hand USA has the same problem. But the awareness is there - so I took it as two different issues. But chill dear, all good I have agreed with you on everything else 💕💕💕


bottomline. Some public schools in usa prollly have a bigger budget than health budget of a city or state in India… and I mean single school …


so the resource allocation is not a debate tbh. But if you just go to the “poor sections” of the same city. And see their budget and state of education and healthcare system. The bettwr neighborhood did a $80mm expansion/upgrade Of one school and the worse neighborhood had budget cuts abd teacher layoffs. You will go. W t f. High school kids can’t read and do simple math in those neighbourhoods. Same city - crazy difference…... That’s where our viewpoint differs or rather where my viewpoint comes from — when I say lot more needs to be done globally.

Edited by KJasoosChulbulP - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#94

Sad to see People here are making jokes about Afasana and Mental health

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Can we stop blaming karan umar Or anyone for what happened To afsana? If it was anybody's fault it was bb creative to bring her into show without considering her or other contestants wellbeing.


She was clearly not in the state of mind to handle as toxic environment as bb house is. People have went there to play game they will play the game. Worse cases of backstabbing has happened in the house and contestants have became friends after the show.


Do people even realise how traumatizing it is to see someone you live with try to commit something like that because things didn't went thier way? And getting blamed for something that serious...because you were playing the game that you are supposed to play?


That being said I hope afsana gets all the empathy and help she needs outside the house. May her fans and family helps her get through the tough time. May her music guide her.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I support Afsana. But panic attack aise hi nahi aata.


Kisi kaaran se aata hai.


Why did she get a panic attack is the big question.

Edited by Mumbaikar007 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
#97

Originally posted by: Mumbaikar007

I support Afsana. But panic attack aise hi nahi aata.


Kisi kaaran se aata hai.


Why did she get a panic attack is the big question.


We don't know the full reason nor I think we ever will. I just hope people refrain from playing the blame game. It's not fair to blame other contestants when none of us even have a full context. That itself can be traumatizing, especially once they are out of the house.


I am more annoyed at BB and makers. They knew she had a panic attack once (and even then decided to telecast when she was alone with the doctor).


Even if she was okay, it's simply just not okay to let the world know of her panic attacks and use it for grabbing attention. Pathetic move to say the least.

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Posted: 4 years ago
#98

Abhi suddenly sab maahaan ban rahe hai. No one should be blamed etc etc. I can guarantee if Pratik was even remotely responsible for this incident, people here would be calling for his head on a spike. But forum ka ladla KK and Umar ke repeated backstabbing ke waje se hua to yaha pe full on protection campaign chal raha hai. Nice nice.

Fact is, these two are directly responsible for worsening the mental wellbeing of Afsana which led to this. They already betrayed her trust once and were aware that she gets hyper in such situations. They went ahead and did it again, that too for a certified backstabber Vishal. These 2 along with Teja are absolute heartless monsters. No two ways about it.

Edited by NamelessKing - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NamelessKing

Abhi suddenly sab maahaan ban rahe hai. No one should be blamed etc etc. I can guarantee if Pratik was even remotely responsible for this incident, people here would be calling for his head on a spike. But forum ka ladla KK and Umar ke repeated backstabbing ke waje se hua to yaha pe full on protection campaign chal raha hai. Nice nice.

Fact is, these two are directly responsible for worsening the mental wellbeing of Afsana which led to this. They already betrayed her trust once and were aware that she gets hyper in such situations. They went ahead and did it again, that too for a certified backstabber Vishal. These 2 along with Teja are absolute heartless monsters. No two ways about it.


I find this hard to disagree with.


Let's be honest. Umar and Afsana were friends. Afsana is right to have umeed from Umar.


So the first thing Umar does when he gets a position of power is dump her.

Betrayal 1: He has 3 slots and takes Nishant, Kundra and Teja.

Betrayal 2: Has another chance the next day and dumps her for Vishal Jay and Pratik.


Obviously, this would be offensive and aggravating for a friend. I am thinking about her mental health. How would anybody feel after repeated backstabs by their friends.


it can affect a person's self worth. Afsana must feel like shit. She must feel, meri koi value nahi hai. Mereaa khud ka dost will save people he hates over me.


How would this make anyone feel?


Iss se panic attack nahi hoga toh kya hoga?


Kyun kiya fareb Umar ne?

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Posted: 4 years ago

Posts like the one above (from @namelessking) makes one wonder... are they actually helping the contestant they support or hurting them. Jiskaa dooor dooor se lena dena naheen.. (nor for any other HM), uskaa naam ghaseetoo beech mein and play what ifs!!! Seriously speaking such bakwaas is prolly why even neutral people will go against a contestant....maaan na maaan mein tera mehmaan... No wonder why only Neha is blamed for the situation with Pratik...


Affo ka situation is hers... She could not handle a situation in the house. This is part of the show and being a contestant. Her handling of the situation only reveals that she should not have gone to VIP room as far as the show is concerned.


In the meantime, everyone on this forum (or I should say almost everyone given the post above), always supports a player's real life regardless of their like/dislike for them as a HM in the house.


Same is what is happening for Affo - she needs help and everyone hoping she gets it and gets better soon.. without blaming a single contestant still in the house and their actions - betrayals or whatever will be judged as HMs but in no context of causing harm to anyone else... Its that simple!!

Edited by KJasoosChulbulP - 4 years ago

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