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Posted: 3 years ago
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This is sexual harassment.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: NamelessKing

There is no right or wrong here. This is a matter of miscommunication. If Rajiv does not feel comfortable with Pratik or the guys joking with him like this, he only has to raise his voice and tell them to stop. Rajiv himself wrestles with Afsana all day and I have seen him slapping Pratik's butt too. The night before WKV on LF, I saw them have a pillow fight.

You people are just too much. Comparing a woman groped on a bus with this. So disappointing.


Do you feel comfortable watching this?


https://twitter.com/BiggBossly/status/1458024600726478848?t=LEGvLtGuooxMa9DgO7LbaA&s=19

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bluehue

Wow just wow


When afsana voiced her being uncomfortable it was considered oh she is playing woman card. When rajiv is not able to take stand right then and there he should have taken the stand. Victim blaming never ends vidhi was wrong, afsana was wrong rajiv is wrong bas pratik sahi hai.


There is subtle way you can see when someone is not comfortable and rajiv has made it clear he is not subtley and vocally and all he got was laugher from everyone except teja.


He is clearly not comfortable he said as much to teja and when teja is telling them off these guys has audacity to laugh at it and not only that they are doing it again to him where he clearly opposes it.


Homophobia is not normal, bullying is not normal, fat shaming is not normal, touching people inappropriately is not normal, playing with Bathrooms latch is not normal. Victim blaming is not normal.


Apparently Pratik has the intentions of a saint. Rajiv being able to vocalize his discomfort or not is besides the point entirely - fact remains, in what world is it ok to repeatedly joke about and enact shoving a veggie up someone’s butt? On television?! It is not funny. Especially when that someone is not a close friend - Nishant ke saath kare na yeh sab bokwaas Pratik.

And later, when Teja was telling them to cut it out - not a single one of them had the bloody sensitivity to even see that Rajiv was not comfortable - he was not having fun.

But na - Pratik is a well intentioned saint, and everyone else is out to defame him - inside and outside the house. Hadd hain.


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Rajeev did not take a stand for himself - Yes, he should have taken a stand.

Rajeev is still continuing to laugh and joke around with those fools - Yes, that is wrong.

Does that mean Rajeev SHOULD tolerate such harrassment by them in any manner or form just because WE think he is okay post that incident? - HELL NO.


No man nor woman should tolerate it. That was a clear PHYSICAL harrassment carried out, it was action + words, it wasn't just some lewd homophobic joke that was passed at him but he actually went up behind that man and tried to insert some veggie into his backside - That is a NO NO.


No one should ever normalize such behavior even as a joke.


There is boundary that should never be crossed with a person - they set those boundaries for you or you should have enough common sense to understand it.


Rajeev is comfortable with Affo so they play around, Affo has not gone and tried to harrass him in this manner.

Rajeev does not even have half the comfort level with Pratik so what makes this idiot think he can behave in that way? Even if he had the comfort level, why would you degrade a homosexual man in such a way?


Rajeev CLEARLY stated it to Teja that he is UNCOMFORTABLE. The man has said it himself, he did not take weeks or months to make this statement, he said it right after it happened.


So, please to people trying to excuse this behavior by saying that Rajeev is back to being playful ot whatever - it is still wrong, doesn't matter if it was Rajeev or anyone else - it was harrassment.

No person should ever tolerate it.

Edited by .Rinnie. - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: .Rinnie.

Affo has not gone and tried to harrass him in this manner.



Some more sexual joke of pratik for rajeev , affo ko keya samajh hain woh keya bol rahe hai aur kar rahe hain?


https://twitter.com/BBxVideology/status/1458026882604011526


Pratik- rajeev ap apna pajamaa niche kariyee .. apko trophy dena hain abhi


https://twitter.com/BBxVideology/status/1458026630094278656

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: SidHearts

They are all still joking around in live feed now....including Rajiv. So stop possing false narrative.


Tune in to watch live to see more fun.....



Regardless of whether they are all on good terms now in LF, point being Rajiv was uncomfortable by Pratik's actions at that point in time.

And none of the boys showed any empathy when Teja called them out, in fact, they looked significantly worse by taking it as a joke and laughing it off. 👎🏼


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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: opsora2090


Some more sexual joke of pratik for rajeev , affo ko keya samajh hain woh keya bol rahe hai aur kar rahe hain?


https://twitter.com/BBxVideology/status/1458026882604011526


Pratik- rajeev ap apna pajamaa niche kariyee .. apko trophy dena hain abhi


https://twitter.com/BBxVideology/status/1458026630094278656


The difference between Affo and Pratik is this - Pratik KNOWS what he is saying, he KNOWS clearly what intention he is trying to put across, he is well aware of what he is doing.


Affo bhi kar rahi hai and wo bhi galat hai iss baat par but Pratik is worse because she did not go up to that man try to stuff some veggie into his behind and neither has she made Rajeev uncomfortable.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Rinnie.


The difference between Affo and Pratik is this - Pratik KNOWS what he is saying, he KNOWS clearly what intention he is trying to put across, he is well aware of what he is doing.


Affo bhi kar rahi hai and wo bhi galat hai iss baat par but Pratik is worse because she did not go up to that man try to stuff some veggie into his behind and neither has she made Rajeev uncomfortable.


veggie wala part was worse

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Since Rajiv has raised this issue, although he just told it to Teja alone, but once it's said aloud then it needs to be addressed. He clearly said that he is not comfortable.


Also people saying rajiv was laughing, no he wasn't laughing, but laughing it off, as unfortunately in most cases, especially initially the victim tries to play the issue down as it's never easy to talk about it. But whenever it's raised it should be taken up.


Also I do think it will be taken up as they showed this harrasment at 3 different times and Rajiv talking about it to Teja too.


In the Simba pushing Umar issue, the push was badly edited and shown n Simba calling Umar names, was never even shown.


So yes this issue will hopefully be taken up and very rightly so.

Edited by khamosshhh - 3 years ago

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