• GHKPM Frustration Thread • DT NOTE P.49, P.83- P.92 - Page 31

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Thankyou for speaking up, about be treated as a baby producing machine, for being not treated as a human being.👏

I am appalled reading stuffs by "women", progressive women that what Kaku did was right since Sai was getting comfortable in friendship zone...Such a young girl with so many tragedies in life, just when was breathing, being happy has to be tamed, chained by bringing a child with a husband who till date has not even clarified on how he sees her a his woman and wife. This girl has already lost the fun that teenage girls go through, already struggling with her dreams and expectations of her husband and his family, is now humiliated to this extent and Kaku has to be praised..

Some people are defending Kaku saying Sai is way too 'comfortable' in her friendship that now she should totally make babies with Virat, they say Kaku did the right thing by forcing Sai.😡

Originally posted by: Flying_High

Maybe people don't know what it feels like to be just considered as a commodity to produce babies in return of stupid pearl necklaces, maybe they don't know what it feels like when someone orders you to compromise on your aspirations and dreams for something you never wanted,maybe they don't know what it feels like to be forced to have a baby when your relationship with your husband is finally improving and you don't want it to turn complex anymore. Maybe,they forgot that Sai is just 19...NINETEEN for god's sake! My girl is already compromising with her teen life a lot and my heart breaks to see her struggling everyday.

SHE NEEDS SPACE TO BREATHE:(

Mera dil bohat joro se dukh raha tha.Sai ro kese sakti hai.Woh meri sherni sai hai,kiu ro rahi thi,jawab dena tha na😭😭Aur uss bhavani ki himmat kese hogayi sai se aise baat karne ki.Bass sai thora shant rehti hai ajkal iska matlab yeh nahi ki bhavani use kuch bhi bolde🤬

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Some people are defending Kaku saying Sai is way too 'comfortable' in her friendship that now she should totally make babies with Virat, they say Kaku did the right thing by forcing Sai.😡

I saw... and I feel so insulted as a woman.. Not because what is being shown in the show, but how its being taken by real women.. Khair there is no point talking all this.. Whatever was done to Sai, was insulting beyond humanity. You dont treat women like that and specially someone who has gone through so much, who just found her happiness...How many days exactly have passed since the friendship ? 3 days, one week, 15 days... Can she be given so freaking time to understand things? I mean she has never even got some time to breathe in this house and this relationship, when she was actually doing these two, people cant tolerate that even for 3-4 days..

She gets assaulted, ill treated, abused for the whole year, but cant have a peaceful happy life for 10 days..🤬 The best thing to have done would be Virat letting her go to a hostel and he himself concentrating on his job..That can also make the heart grow fonder...This whole forcing them in a room is so insulting for both of them... Its like just get them on bed forcefully and things would sort out...UrgHH..this is so so so frustrating..

Originally posted by: Devikadish

some people forget that Sai is just 19. That's not a age to get married at first place, and people are expecting her to chill and just make babies like WTF!!😡

Sick minds

You know in a few years I will turn 19 and at that age,I have full fledged plans of concentrating on my career dreams without caring about anything else.Just thinking about me being in Sai's shoes at that age makes me feel suffocated.The writers need to stop with all this non-sense which is suffocating to many. And the people who say Sai should just chill and oblige-wonder what they did or are planning to do at 19.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Thankyou for speaking up, about be treated as a baby producing machine, for being not treated as a human being.👏

I am appalled reading stuffs by "women", progressive women that what Kaku did was right since Sai was getting comfortable in friendship zone...Such a young girl with so many tragedies in life, just when was breathing, being happy has to be tamed, chained by bringing a child with a husband who till date has not even clarified on how he sees her a his woman and wife. This girl has already lost the fun that teenage girls go through, already struggling with her dreams and expectations of her husband and his family, is now humiliated to this extent and Kaku has to be praised..

Agree with every single word. Sai has suffered...simply too much and no human can tolerate this level of torture almost every day.The girl got tortured,abused,manhandled and what not in the past 1 year,got molested and sexually harassed before that(something which has still not been addressed) and still people say that she should stay brave and keep fighting. Just because she hasn't voiced her insecurities and anguish in a clear manner doesn't mean that all this does not affect her.My days of watching this show and being a part of the "progressive" FD are definitely numbered.

Seeing words in defense of Kaku and her sick mentality that too from real women is soo shameful

Originally posted by: Flying_High

Agree with every single word. Sai has suffered...simply too much and no human can tolerate this level of torture almost every day.The girl got tortured,abused,manhandled and what not in the past 1 year,got molested and sexually harassed before that(something which has still not been addressed) and still people say that she should stay brave and keep fighting. Just because she hasn't voiced her insecurities and anguish in a clear manner doesn't mean that all this does not affect her.My days of watching this show and being a part of the "progressive" FD are definitely numbered.

Same ...when Kaku's words are hailed, because she might force this girl on bed...Well certainly numbered/!!!

Today sai looked like barbie doll and everyone made her cry..heartless people. I felt to hug her and make her fall asleep atleast for sometime she get peace

Plz show progressive story lines. I am astonished at the regressive thought process if Bhavani Kaku character. She gives a baby ultimatum to two people who have not accepted their 'married' situation yet. This 'Ghar ka chirag' business should not be allowed to continue. She expects too much from a traumatized 18 yr old girl who is also a student of medicine to become a 'Super Bahu' after declaring she would never accept her as one. C'mon guys, the harrassment and verbal abuse meted out to Sai is just a tad too much. Let's make it believable.

Request to Moderators

I would like to bring into your notice the way derogatory word is used to refer ML in a poll ,posted in main forum .

Luchha is the word used for Virat which I strongly object.

I hope necessary steps are taken to prevent usage of such demeaning and insulting words in the forum .

Here is the link.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/159453320