• MHRW Episode Thread Discussion • #75, DT Note pg 19 - Page 90

Originally posted by: Anu1975

Pallavi is a selfless emotional fool and no one knows it better than Raghav and he will play it to his advantage every time…that’s why my heart goes out to her…he is selfish and a player…and she deserves a somone better…

I thought she was a smart and strong woman. I have always seen her that way. If she chooses to move on and start a fresh life without him willingly then she's strong and independent, but if she chooses to forgive him out of her own will, then she's an emotional fool?

Pallavi can make up her own mind as an independent woman, she doesn't need pity or sympathy. She can face troubles in life head on.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Drowning her eyes? People are convinced of certain things so no point trying to show them the truth. Let them believe what they want, I will take from the show what I see and interpret. The amount of venom being spewed has made the track seem worse than it actually is. Also. who brought her home and for what? It's fine if Pallavi brings her home to protect her from Sumit but not when Raghav does it?

You have to forget your insaaniyat when it comes to ex but not anyone else, right?

People are only seeing isha's nasheele aankhein and raghav drowning into it... Exactly... People are just making it more than worse what's showing on TVApparently Raghav shouldn't help anyone.. I mean you went to treat Mandar for Aayi baba sake and trusted his words but Raghav can't show sympathy to Isha... I wonder what would be people's reaction when they haven't shown the ONS thing.. will this be called his kartavya when he brings Isha home... I mean he didn't even bring her home.. phir bhi us baat ki galti bhi isike sir pe thopdo...

Originally posted by: subbuappu

People are only seeing isha's nasheele aankhein and raghav drowning into it... Exactly... People are just making it more than worse what's showing on TVApparently Raghav shouldn't help anyone.. I mean you went to treat Mandar for Aayi baba sake and trusted his words but Raghav can't show sympathy to Isha... I wonder what would be people's reaction when they haven't shown the ONS thing.. will this be called his kartavya when he brings Isha home... I mean he didn't even bring her home.. phir bhi us baat ki galti bhi isike sir pe thopdo...

I want to see people's reactions when Esha's full plotting is revealed and they show that nothing happened that night. Just waiting for that.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I thought she was a smart and strong woman. I have always seen her that way. If she chooses to move on and start a fresh life without him willingly then she's strong and independent, but if she chooses to forgive him out of her own will, then she's an emotional fool?

Pallavi can make up her own mind as an independent woman, she doesn't need pity or sympathy. She can face troubles in life head on.

She will not forgive him out of will but he will emotionally manipulate her to soften towards him, at least that’s what BTS suggest…I will still wait for episode to pan out..

He didn’t let her feed Mandar in front of the family but had no issues feeding Esha in her bedroom voluntarily and had the audacity to get annoyed with Pallavi when she confronted him with Esha’s feelings while knowing that she was speaking the truth eventually making Pallavi feel guilty..

He was not ok with Pallavi going to Deshmukhs to take care of Mandar but he brought the woman he slept with to home after accepting her as his mistress and also acknowledging his feelings for her while creating sympathy for her with his wife under the pretext of being harassed by her Ex husband…

He jerked away his wife when she hugged him out of concerns but has no qualms in letting his Ex hug him and comforting her in the middle of night…

He thinks about Esha everytime he is with Pallavi but not once he remembered Pallavi while he keeps going to Esha

so yeah she is a emotional fool and he is a player who knows how to use it to his advantage…

What Pallavi does is her doings and I don’t have to agree with her..I don’t Stan any character blindly…I am here to give my two cents about what I feel is right/ wrong about them…

Raghav did not take Esha home out of Insaaniyat…neither did she ask him to show insaaniyat nor did Raghav propose to take her home out of insaaniyat…he took her home after She clearly asked him to give her haq/rights as the other woman in his life and accept her unscrupulous proposition if he still had feelings for her and the next we get to see is the Honorable husband of Pallavi bringing her home…at least that is what I saw in the episode..hope we all are seeing the same show…

Off course when Pallavi asks him he tells about Ex husband attacking as an excuse but clearly there was no such conversations between Esha and Raghav at her place…

Originally posted by: inlieu

That night was the biggest mistake of his life. You clearly don't say that to someone if you have feelings for them.

Did Pallavi feel jealous, hearing Raghav say this? "You told me that loving me was the biggest mistake of your life. How can you reject another woman the way you reject me?"

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want to see people's reactions when Esha's full plotting is revealed and they show that nothing happened that night. Just waiting for that.

Hehe... Don't wait for that... You think anyone gives a cent whether he did it or not?? He will still be blamed for emotional cheating... I want RaghVi separation and him checking on his diamonds and Pallavi at DSE... This may give a scope for season 2.. hoga toh hoga nahi toh nahi... Pallavi can blame all she wants to Raghav but if I hear anything from her saying that he got Isha home, I won't buy it... He never ever got her home nor he wants to spend with her... Fasting for KC for an abusive husband or an ex (god knows for whom she was asked to keep vrat) was not RR's idea... Getting her to stay at his home is not his idea... Khichdi made by Isha for RR is not his idea... If he was blamed for all these then I won't wonder he will still be crucified for EC

Had Raghav shown the least dignity to tell his wife about the night out at Warangal with his Ex, probably Pallavi would have done nothing like bringing her home, taking care of her, asking her to make kichdi…

She believed her husband who was cheating her…onus is on Raghav for not telling her the truth not on Pallavi for trusting her husband…

She should not trust her husband and bring his Ex home out of humanity but after knowing the truth she should forgive him and trust that he won’t do it again and live with him???

Just like Raghav will say I love you to Pallavi and we believe it but Raghav will say I got carried away with emotions and slept with his Ex but we won’t believe it..

Originally posted by: inlieu

I want to see people's reactions when Esha's full plotting is revealed and they show that nothing happened that night. Just waiting for that.

Rose tinted glasses my friend 🤗

The ones who have cancelled Raghav don't care that eventually it will be proved nothing happened. We don't live in an idealistic world, it's not a big deal to remain friends with your ex and having drinks with your ex or sharing a room with your ex when there are riots in the city and no other rooms are available. You need to see the intent of the person in light of the circumstances. Is main self respect aur feminism ki koi baat nai hai. I would say the same thing if genders were reversed.

Raghav's care and concern for Esha in all subsequent scenes is exactly the same that Pallavi felt for Mandar. If she isn't blamed for emotionally cheating Raghav why should he be blamed. Why do women get more leeway than a man. Raghav made a mistake by hiding things from Pallavi and he will pay for it. Pallavi was honest and was let go off without as much as an apology.

Raghav doesn't love Esha and only loves Pallavi but delulu people like Esha ko kaun samjhaye. Esha jaise log can only see things they want to see, Raghav can scream from rooftops but Esha won't understand.

I'm so excited to see the upcoming episodes as I dig angst and we are being served it finally.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I thought she was a smart and strong woman. I have always seen her that way. If she chooses to move on and start a fresh life without him willingly then she's strong and independent, but if she chooses to forgive him out of her own will, then she's an emotional fool?

Pallavi can make up her own mind as an independent woman, she doesn't need pity or sympathy. She can face troubles in life head on.

Jean if I understand feminism correctly it is to give the woman a choice to decide what she wants to do. If Pallavi decides to forgive Raghav she is an emotional fool? She will be accepted as strong and independent only if she moves on either alone or with someone better than Raghav, may be someone like Mandar?. Aisa kaisa chalega.

If Mandar hugs Pallavi that is ok but if Esha hugs Raghav that is not? Had Raghav not come to interrupt Pallavi from feeding Mandar she would have fed him the food. So why is Raghav feeding soup to Esha when her hand is injured wrong? Mandar ka toh haath nai toota tha na?

When Raghav applies ointment and blows Esha's injury it's wrong but Pallavi did the same to Mandar when he was fake injured with the iron, toh woh chalta hai? Mandar and Pallavi did the rasam of the mirror which a married couple do but an awkward eyelock of Raghav and Esha didn't sit well with people. When Raghav carried Esha home when she was injured, Mandar also carried Pallavi to his room when she was drugged. Pallavi going with Mandar to the doctor and having tea with Mandar without informing Raghav is ok (knowing Mandar wanted his wife back) but Raghav sharing drinks with Esha is not ok? You literally see the parallels here with each instance?

I'm not blaming Pallavi and I'm not blaming Raghav. They both only love each other. He made some mistakes (biggest being lying to her) and he will have to repent for it.

I was glad Raghav pushed Pallavi away because he was dirty and he didn't want to taint her purity. The ones who blame him for pushing her away would have liked him to consummate the marriage while hiding the truth from her? That is a low blow according to me.

He doesn't think of Esha while with Pallavi, he thinks of how he wronged Pallavi when he gets flashbacks of the night. He's not excited remembering that night, he feels immense guilt. Am I being delulu like Esha?

I have enjoyed thinking about this track coz it made me idk more flexible? and no amount of differing opinions on this forum can make me change my stand.

They did not show us Raghav agreeing to carry on an affair with Esha. Have I missed any episodes in between, let me know.