I don't understand what this episode is. These guys just need an excuse to make a ruckus.
Also why couldn't they make a distinction between just doing special decoration vs "suhaag" raat. Like why do they need to keep saying suhaag raat as if they are suggesting that NiNj need to have sex tonight. Whether they do or not, is their problem. Age doesn't determine physical intimacy between a couple. sairat were NOT calling it suhaag raat, the first person to say that was devi, but these days everyone latches on to her every word. As soon as devi said it, everyone says suhaag raat. Arey bhai 🙄
Although in principle and in body language/expression I understood what Sairat were saying I dont understand why it needed to be called "suhaag raat" which is essentially the "first night" which couples have only on their wedding night..it makes it very awkward fot everyone including NiNi. They could have said - aap sab ne kya suhaag raat laga rakha hai, its just a simple romantic dinner decoration to celebrate their love and their togetherness for 37 years despite all the issues n is for a fresh start. Putting candles, roses, balloons, lights makes any occasion festive, intimate. Thats all. Why is everyone making it crass- its like they are imagining NiNi doing it n are embarrassed about their own imagination. Hadh hai.
I'm really glad that going from requesting, Virat just stated his decision to bk and him/Sai just took Nini n left. He was very point blank today leaving no room for more sawaal jawaab.
Yeh joh unnecessarily har cheez mein permission aur bk ko ghusaya jaata hai- that needs to stop. Bk does not need to bless every little thing and control/micromanage everyone's lives.
Today finally Samrat got dialogues to shut pp up. But what I dont get is how shes allowed to get away with saying everything without any interruptions all the frickin time. When you see a person is constantly saying provocative things n rubbish, isnt it easier to cut her off rather than allow her to complete every sentence before reacting?!
And every single time she raises Sai's brought up- her not having a family etc. Why doesn't Virat or anyone notice that n shut her up for that part too. Har baat par Sai ki parvarish peh kyun sawaal uthana...you have a problem with Sai-ok, why drag her family/lack of it or her aabas parvarish each time?!
NiNi looked genuinely happy to see the room decorated and made warm/cosy. But that suhaag raat song by Sairat to tease them was cringe. Actually its tolerable only coz Sairst performed it decently. But it wasnt needed to add that
Today Ashwini stops Sai for a word as Virat leaves and talks about celebrating Sairat anniversary just like they organized her anniversary.
That gets Sai to really break down and talk about how deeply she has been impacted by the circumstances of this marriage. The way it happened in a hurry, whem neither bride/groom were willing to get married, there was no blessings of elders, none of the usual anticipation/build up or prep of wedding, where groom said- dont keep expectations, the groom's ex is standing and looking accusingly.... everything to do with the marriage itself triggers very very painful things for Sai. Reminds her of her fathers death. As she broke down, I could understand that anniversary is a trigger word for her. It was very emotional...
Ashwini is trying to get Sai to focus on the relationship itself and how Sai n Virat feel about each other .... sai calmed down when she was distracted from the word "marriage n anniversary" itself.
Sai when asked about the events post marriage DOES acknowledge how happy she is to finally have a family specifically her aai. Shes never known a mothers love and no one can be a mother except a mother. So to Sai she does acknowledge that due to Virat she has parents again- mainly a mother , she has a family n she finally after much tribulations has a friend in Virat too. And she doesn't want to lose that again. She cant lose the happy space she has now after 1 year of largely fights between her n virat n between her vs full CN khaandaan...she is exhausted n needs a break from it all.
Virat sunny have a small conversation where sunny calls MiMo the "jadugar couple" n talks about how finally Sai Virat bonding is growing n Sai sahi hai ☺️ but then he says "kaash Teri anniversary bhi aise hi manti" . Virat is about to respond but Sai has walked in angry hearing only part of the conversation n the squabble of Sairat has started. She thinks virat raised the topic n she's blown a fuse because she is already touchy about the issue after Aai talked about it.
I think she will likely calm down based on precap still being Sai saying yeh kamra mera, Virst bhi mere...mere dost hai. I think sunny/virat will tell her that Virat didnt bring up anniversary talk n she misunderstood.
I skipped pp-bk, pp/omi/bk/Sonali scenes so someone fill me in on the crux of it all later. But i k ow that it must just be provocative things about Sai. 🙄
I think aai told virat to be patient but she herself lacks patience too.... everyone needs to give Sai a break and if they want to talk about sensitive topics- they should pause n think about how to frame what they are saying in a way that it gets Sai to pause, listen n think. Samrat did that effectively once where he told Sai to view their relationship through different lens and Sai registered that but cafe kaand happened sadly. But Samrat had found the knack of getting Sai to listen to him there...
Episode n writing is back to being all over the place. 🙄
