That business deal comment was wrong

How can priya even think of such a statement even in anger?? This statement in anger also cannot be justified and priya was wrong to say that. I understand priya's anger she is totally justified there but passing such horrible statements is absolutely wrong

And one thing is wrong from both sides. Always trying to show our marriage is not real, important sirf samjhote ki shaadi I mean no one forced them for marriage it was their own decision inspite of facing so many misunderstandings and problems to get married then why they are trying to leave in this delusion😡. Cvs should change this thing

I have to agree with you. Priya made a truly below the belt comment.

She has seen Ram and Shivina together a lot of times now. She knows how much he loves the family and will do anything for them. He will be the last person to get her married to Sid because he knows that there is no love there. To say that he would force her to get married for a mere deal is too much.

Priya crossed a line.

Ram has never questioned her character. Not even when they questioned her about Neeraj. So this judgement is very harsh.

Originally posted by: BlurredLines10

I have to agree with you. Priya made a truly below the belt comment.

She has seen Ram and Shivina together a lot of times now. She knows how much he loves the family and will do anything for them. He will be the last person to get her married to Sid because he knows that there is no love there. To say that he would force her to get married for a mere deal is too much.

Priya crossed a line.

Ram has never questioned her character. Not even when they questioned her about Neeraj. So this judgement is very harsh.

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Exactly even in anger such horrible statement cannot be justified👎🏼. Priya should have a control on her language

She has no control over her emotions and language.

And to be honest, it's back to square one. Priya's first impression of Ram was this; that he was forcing his sister for marriage. Now again. Back then, at least she didn't know him and was going by Shivina's word. Now she does know him a little. Still her assessment is the same.

If he was evil, he could have done so many things with her. And logically, if he wanted to marry off Shivina to Sid, he could have done that irrespective. Why did he need to marry this one?

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

How can priya even think of such a statement even in anger?? This statement in anger also cannot be justified and priya was wrong to say that. I understand priya's anger she is totally justified there but passing such horrible statements is absolutely wrong

And one thing is wrong from both sides. Always trying to show our marriage is not real, important sirf samjhote ki shaadi I mean no one forced them for marriage it was their own decision inspite of facing so many misunderstandings and problems to get married then why they are trying to leave in this delusion😡. Cvs should change this thing

But can you tell me what else was the basis of Sid-Shivi's marriage other than business deal?

They were never in love. The entire idea of Shivi-Sid marriage was conceived because Vedika took promise from Ram in the first episode. Where is Shivi’s wish in all this? Did Ram give word to Vedika, without asking Shivi first? Isn’t that unfair? Even in case, Shivi was a loving, caring sister and not selfish like she is, knowing that your marriage with a man , is highly related to a big business deal of your brother, won’t that exert undue pressure on the girl?

Everytime Ram and Shashi say the deal got cancelled because Sid-Shivi did not get married. I really don’t understand the logic behind. Was Ram supposed to sign the deal as a dowry for giving Shivi’s hand? How is Ram ok with his sister’s marriage and business deal being so highly corelated?

Coming back to Priya's statement being harsh. This is not something she is saying at the heat of the argument alone . Priya has always thought Ram fixed Shivi-Sid marriage for a business deal. Because this is exactly what Shivi told Priya at the bakery in Episode 3.

She told Priya, mujje us ghar me pinjare ki tarah mehsoos hota hai. Ram bhai hamesha wahi karte hai jo unke hisaab se sahi hota hai.. So as per Priya , the entire Kapoor family forced Shivi to marry Sid only for a business deal.

Just watch this clip. You would know this is what Priya has always thought about this marriage. "Ek paisewali family , tumhe paise ka laalach deke doosri paise wale family ke saath shaadi karana chahti hai" to which Shivi agreed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=amcOyWYDW_o

Ram won't tell the real reason behind breaking off the marriage. Therefore according to Priya, Ram may be doing this for the business deal, because that is exactly what they discussed before their fight.

Priya's argument with Ram is inclusive of Shivi's rights as well. Ram cannot every time unanimously decide about Shivi's marriage , fixing it with someone , breaking it someone , as per what he thinks is right for her.

Shivi deserves to know , why is the wedding getting called off. She deserves to know the family she is getting married to has a person who could have killed her brother. Then it is upto her whether she feels unsafe or not. Atleast first listen to what she has to say , about matters concerning her life and then decide if she is immature.

The Sid and Shivina marriage was happening because they had broken up and she wanted to Spite Akshay. I thought that was pretty obvious since the first episode. She wanted to make him jealous but that didn’t quite work out well. Shashi, and rather Nandini made Ram believe that Shivina loved Sid. She kept pushing Shivina to marry Sid. There is a scene in the gym episode. Ram even asks Nandini if they are doing the right thing or not.

Hence the decision.

Shivina lied to Priya that Ram tortured her when clearly that isn’t the case. Shivina is confusing with where her loyalties lay. She thinks only about Akshay and nothing else.

Irrespective of Ram’s actions about Shivina, Priya’s comment is in poor taste.

Did he need to ask Shivina, yes.

Did he need to hear that he is selling his sister off, no.

That was Priya’s first judgement of him when she didn’t know him, met him first and there is zilch growth or improvement. If she can’t see that he isn’t exactly cunning and money minded to sell his sister off, then there is no point of this marriage. She is harsh and very very very judgement. No excuse for this crass behaviour. Not even anger.

Asking questions and doubting motives does not mean that one gets the free pass to say things like this. It could have been better framed too.

Ask Ram, why is he taking decisions alone. Ask him if they are going back to Sid. At this point, the wedding is cancelled. Priya does NOT know if they forcing Shivina to marry Sid again. So how can it be about a deal?

Did Priya ask him that? Did she even clarify it? No.

The point is, she assumed. She concluded that it is because of money. It is her vice that she is judgmental. Priya does not think before speaking. She loves saying mean things to people not worrying about the consequences. It is her trait.

If it was Ram who had said such words, said that you are getting Akshay married to Shivina for money, there would have been a revolt here. I don't see why it should be any different if a woman says it. The whole justification about the "whys" of Priya said it are funny. Does not change the fact that it is in poor taste.

Well you both have a solid points. I agree vaidha that ram should have talked to shivi but shivi was equally at fault. Secondly blurred I can assure you one thing priya didn't say that wrong thing intentionally. She doesn't think like that about ram but when she is angry sometimes she says thinks which she does not mean and that's what happened here. But yes unintentionally also she shouldn't have said that. Actually both ram and priya are victim of circumstances created by those venomous snakes vedika and nandini clan🤢

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Well you both have a solid points. I agree vaidha that ram should have talked to shivi but shivi was equally at fault. Secondly blurred I can assure you one thing priya didn't say that wrong thing intentionally. She doesn't think like that about ram but when she is angry sometimes she says thinks which she does not mean and that's what happened here. But yes unintentionally also she shouldn't have said that. Actually both ram and priya are victim of circumstances created by those venomous snakes vedika and nandini clan🤢

Yes. They definitely are victims of circumstances. Ram's kryptonite is when it comes to his family, he goes blind. He instinctively tends to believe whatever Nandini feeds him. And now, he is more frustrated because he has to hide the whole stepfamily thing from Priya too.

And of course, Priya didn't say it intentionally. Even when she went to confront him in the rain for sending her the marriage proposal; she lashed out at him despite knowing that he couldn't have known it. Her kryptonite is that she does not think. All her reactions are kneejerk and stem from her own prejudices. She has this complex about rich people, about men and she keeps regressing to those thoughts all the time. So now also it is like oh rich people can sell sisters for a deal too.

Originally posted by: Biggboss15

Exactly even in anger such horrible statement cannot be justified👎🏼. Priya should have a control on her language

Y’know thats the problem I hv with Priya’s characterisation. If u got a raw deal in life, how is it justified for u to go around with an unsmiling demeanor being khadoos & rude to everyone, esp those who have not done u any wrong?

She is almost arrogant about her troubles, as if she is the only wronged person & the weight of the world is on her!