Originally posted by: beastmaster
@Anu1975 
It's so frustrating to see Raghav being such a fickle minded person all of a sudden. It wouldn't have been this difficult to digest, had the character been always this stupid.
Raghav never was a saint to begin with he had his share of flaws, Extremely volatile, Arrogant, Adamant, brutal, cunning, Smart and unforgiving..all coz of his disturbing past..the abandonment and betrayal he faced made him the devil that we saw…but he had is other side too, he is extremely protective, honest and fearless and too a large extent emotional and selfish too..
Chalo, I can still understand makers dumbing him down to give the villains an upper hand, but making him cold and inconsiderate towards pallu and being overly caring towards his ex is not going down well with majority. 
Pallavi came into his life and for the first time he warmed up to a woman, he was awed with her goodness coupled with his regret for having defamed her…she was someone, who after his bitter past, gave him the assurance that he can be trusted loved, cared for and accepted the way he is…which not even his Amma & Keerthi we’re ready to do..so he tamed the beast in him for her to a certain extent but for the larger part he is still the same…she became his need & necessity the go to person, the one who he can trust blindly…then the confession, for her she chose him because she fell in love with him, she was ready to confess even before she saw Mandar, but his confession came due to his fear of loosing her…his love was triggered by his insecurities, so when she chose him for what he is and above Mandar and her family, when she chose to compromise her values and embrace death for him, he just took her love respect and trust for granted that belief that she will never leave him, no matter what…her undying love and that security that she provided him gave him the confidence to betray her…at least that’s how I see it.. to put it simply he never had it in him to be truthful to her love and faithful to their relationship till now..
So to learn to value her love and respect her he needs to loose her, see her picking the devil in him again will bring him out of his insecurities and to love her unconditionally, irrevocably , he also has to trust and wait for her love even when she chooses someone else…that will be his true redemption..will he be able to do it???
Raghav should know that a woman who has feelings for her married ex and shows no qualms in sleeping with him cannot be a person with high moral values. Still he shows no hesitation in entertaining such a loose character under his roof. Now what does that say abt his own morals?
Raghav when around Pallavi feels guilty because he knows he is actively cheating her with Esha under the same roof…and Raghav feels disturbed and annoyed around Esha coz he knows he started loving her and he hates it..His head knows he is doing wrong while he keeps going back to her but his heart is not willing to stop him…he loves Esha period and he feels guilty coz that’s unfair to Pallavi, whom he is not willing to let go coz he can’t live without her…
Pallavi is his breath while Esha is his heart beat..he either has to make Esha his breath which he can’t bring himself too coz she suffocated him in the past and he doesn’t trust her and he is not able to make Pallavi his heart beat with Esha around…This is the mess he is today…this is my understanding of him and his present situation…
I may not have been very active here but the show has been and still is a very important part of my routine. It pains me that it's getting such an abrupt end but unlike others who want to go easy on Raghav now, I'm finding it difficult to overlook his misbehaviour towards Pallavi post Esha's entry.
We have no reason to overlook his misbehavior, insensitivity, selfishness and cheating, when he himself is not denying it…
Even if they give Raghav a clean chit for ONS, his inconsiderate behaviour towards Pallavi's feelings has ruined his image of being a good hearted person for me. They have managed to reduce Raghav into a selfish lying coward. He is everything you have mentioned right now…
The team did dirty on both the leads and I feel bad for SaiShi. Pallavi was never given the importance she deserved. Raghav could have gone into the history of itv as one of the most iconic characters but unfortunately toward the end he turned out no better than any other average ml of a regular hindi daily.
Well I still believe this is not the end…they have razed him down to ground zero probably to show him raise again and this time his journey won’t be his alone and on his terms as her journey begins too and she is going to hold the reins…and if my intuition is right we have a lot to see..and it will be much more interesting than what we have seen yet…they have technically hit the reverse button with this track to start afresh…this is not a story that they can wrap in 10 months I am sure the producer and team know it..🤞