Let's take the Top 5 TRP shows.
Usmein se 1 is weekend show and 1 is Tamarind show which I never saw.
So let's talk about the 3 shows in Top 5.
Maa
Ghum Ganja
Aeroplane
What is common in them ?
Strong FL
Working FL
Self Respect wali FL
No bechaari rather fights her own battles
Knows to stand against the wrong
Don't take shit from anyone
Do we have anything in common ?
NO
Leave Raavi even Dhara doesn't stand up against the abuse and finds it love of Suman and even Rishita needed others to fight her battles and couldn't say anything to Suman when she fed the sweets to dog.
Our show has non of the women who could be admired and looked upon.
They r simply a big disappointment.
The other 3 shows have atleast 1 of the ML's parents standing by FL and going fully against the son for his wrong and when ML crosses his limit even the other parent support the FL. (Our Shiva hasn't gone that wrong but even for his wrong it Raavi who is blaimed for everything)
We have the one of the worst MIL in history of ITV.
Who is a hypocrite, thankless, shameless and egoistic and most importantly just thinks about herself.
She is abusive and thinks herself as righteous women.
Now when we r trying everything about beti bachao beti padho, beta beti ek samaan, treating dil like daughters she does nothing and we r forced to see her toxic thinking.
These 3 FL doesn't need anyone to fight her battles still they have few people by their side who support them and listen to her and give good advice.
We have non for Raavi.
Those FL atleast breaks down at some point of time but hamari robot Raavi is freaking great abhi tak breaking point nahi aaya reality mein nervous breakdown ho jae kisi ka with soo much abuse and insult.
In No.1 show Ma wasn't educated and nor was aaj ki women with knowing bahar ki duniya that's why she endured soo much abuse but hamari aaj ki ladki yeh sab jhel rahi hain.
Not actually jhel rahi hain she is taking everything and is pretty ok with it.
Shayar Kapadia the best ML of Sitara got them 4+ and most importantly if Karan V grover enters Aeroplane show it will cross 3+
Our show which already had the best ML who was loved by the Audience and majority started watching the show for him is just being bluchered for the most stupid logic and writing.
I am simply not understanding what is there to watch in our show ?
Faltu aur tension and anxiety ho jae after watching the show.
Watching Raavi getting insulted and not standing up for herself makes u feel soo uncomfortable.
(I am happy I barely watch the episodes)
Shiva ka logic ki Raavi deserves better but before she gets better, break her soo much that she start questioning her existence. Kitna khyal hain uska and never leaves a chance to humiliate her in public apni maa ko chup karna toh dur ki baat hain.
All the shows show festivals and more than our show
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They too do drama but they never insult festivals and religious sentiments.
TRP Audience love strong FL bcoz they connect to them as these women themseleves face the problems these FL faces but most of them can't stand against it so they like watching them.
What made people watch our show ?
Bcoz strong and sensible FL toh hain he nahi hamare show mein.
With the strong ML reduced to be spineless and unfortunately sort of abuser for FL.
Biggest reason to watch our show was : We rarely see a middle class story with no vamp living under same roof.
We all the characters have their own storyline and our strong in their own way.
& Now
We have the biggest vamp Suman in our show.
With all the characters being spineless and acting crazingly stupid and annoying.
All the 3 shows have shown 3 or 4 people's journey getting tangled due to 2 people ki nonsense.
But do our writers and makers realise that whenever the 3rd person gets importance TRP falls, when ML does nonsense TRP falls, whenever 3rd person gets scenes with ML TRP falls
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Whenever FL stands up for herself TRP rises and when the leads get ss together TRP rises and when ML does sensible things TRP rises.
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Same things happen with our show too.
But I think they don't see this or rather don't wanna see as they only takes in that 3rd angle hain isliye show is in Top 5.
I simply fail to understand what writers want to show ?
Itni negativity, regressive content, itna disconnect to the characters, the show is making no sense.
Rather than entertaining it causes headache to watch.
Sorry for such a long rant but wanted to say this from long.