Didi and her aggressiveness!! - Page 2

I agree asmi

I found pakhi extremely hostile … the way she sprinkled water … was full of negativity.. and even her expressions were of anger ..

yes Sai n virat did not want to stoke seeds if anger after such a heavy week … but they have to talk to samrat .. and bring to his attention how negatively pakhi behaves with Sai ..

he knows that but .. he also has to know .. pakhi shows disturbing behaviour when she sees Sai with virat

Originally posted by: msin

I agree asmi

I found pakhi extremely hostile … the way she sprinkled water … was full of negativity.. and even her expressions were of anger ..

yes Sai n virat did not want to stoke seeds if anger after such a heavy week … but they have to talk to samrat .. and bring to his attention how negatively pakhi behaves with Sai ..

he knows that but .. he also has to know .. pakhi shows disturbing behaviour when she sees Sai with virat

Exactly why I was angry at Virat for teaming up with Pakhi to hurt Sai few days vack...he does this everytime, knowing what Pakhi has been capable of after Ajinkya kaand...infact knowing every other thing that she has done tiil date, he clearly is so casual with her...Any man who loves his wife would lose it all.. and yet he loses it all only at his wife's mistakes..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I usually see Sai bringing her mostly when she is taunted by Pakhi or she sees some closeness..That woman taunted her the moment she was back and ofcourse always taunts her for her relationship with Virat, good or bad...Happened just few minutes back as well...She did not bring her when she was in the hospital.

Take for example Virat...when he was insecure with Ajinkya, he kept bringing her every now and then , even when he was not related in the conversation.. However since Ajinkya does not have a constant and toxic presence in their relationship and in their room , we did not mind it and it was short lived... Pakhi's presence has been always there, irrespective of how they are with each other and Virat's stance and behaviour with Pakhi changes, w.r.t his relationship with Sai. On top of that Ajinkya and Sai did not have a past, Virat and Pakhi have a past and they till recently have been teaming up with each other against her.. There is a reason why she mentions Pakhi..Two infact. Virat's behaviour with Pakhi, especially when Sai and him are in bad terms and secondly her insecurity because of her constant presence in their room.

@bold For avoiding, she needs space from Pakhi in their room, their relationship and Virat's firmness...One can avoid when there is a scope. Here I have not seen that scope till date.

That's the thing. Virat bringing Ajinkya or Aniket lasted a week. But Sai's is forever. Sai wasn't like this before. It started lately, since two or three months. And nope even today when they were talking randomly she mentioned Pakhi. The way Virat gets irritated, as audience some of us are also highly irritated. I think the writers need to stop the unnecessary chant of Pakhi. Yes when angry or when related to her the mention is fine but not when the conversation is about them only. They are killing the SaiRat essence by giving same dialogue and reaction. When they are having a nice conversation why the hell do they make Sai say something about Pakhi ? As cute as they looked and it felt nice to see the positivity back, I am back being irritated by it.

By avoiding I didn't mean physically. Sometimes not letting someone affect us is also avoiding. She can't avoid Pakhi's presence in the room but she can definitely avoid from talking about her. Why give her so much importance. Less she will talk about her more she will be at peace.

For example, I have a colleague I don't like but I have to work with him and see his face everyday. But I won't talk about him 24 hours as if my life involves around him.

Originally posted by: msin

I agree asmi

I found pakhi extremely hostile … the way she sprinkled water … was full of negativity.. and even her expressions were of anger ..

yes Sai n virat did not want to stoke seeds if anger after such a heavy week … but they have to talk to samrat .. and bring to his attention how negatively pakhi behaves with Sai ..

he knows that but .. he also has to know .. pakhi shows disturbing behaviour when she sees Sai with virat

I think by now everyone including Samrat and Virat know how negative and hostile she is towards Sai.. Samrat have questioned her, the reason for her hatred towards Sai... She needs to be sent home to her parents for few days.. I dont even want her to go with Samrat to Mahabaleshwar, she is harmful to him as well.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's the thing. Virat bringing Ajinkya or Aniket lasted a week. But Sai's is forever. Sai wasn't like this before. It started lately, since two or three months. And nope even today when they were talking randomly she mentioned Pakhi. The way Virat gets irritated, as audience some of us are also highly irritated. I think the writers need to stop the unnecessary chant of Pakhi. Yes when angry or when related to her the mention is fine but not when the conversation is about them only. They are killing the SaiRat essence by giving same dialogue and reaction. When they are having a nice conversation why the hell do they make Sai say something about Pakhi ? As cute as they looked and it felt nice to see the positivity back, I am back being irritated by it.

Thats because their existence in Sai's life was hardly a week... Sai's forever is because Pakhi's existence in his life is forever.Pakhi is always there in their room, at any given time...Ajinkya and Aniket were NOT.. Pakhi gets to attack Sai, her relationship with Virat, call her names with Virat being silent, Ajinkya and Aniket were not allowed..... Pakhi is Virat's ex and till date claims to love Virat, Ajinkya and Aniket did not. There is a zameen Aasman ka farq in these two equations...

Sai was not this way before because she was not falling in love with him, because she was not this attached to him...she did not have hopes from him...Just like Virat grew insecure of Aniket and Amey without having any relationship except that of a guardian at that point of time. Virat has till date not told her what that past was..Whether it was a day long a year long or 10 years long, for Pakhi to behave the way she behaves with him and her... Pakhi is existent in the story only because Virat behaves the way he behaves...Also Sai was quick to understand his insecurities and clearly told him who were those two people to him...Virat fails to see her insecurities...even today he did not see how she was liking in that room how there was wistfulness in her questions/taunts, just like you mentioned how she failed to see his smile when she was in his room..

For instance he was all pally with Pakhi, fighting for her respect with not just his wife but his sister one day, calling his wife names and asking his ex to come out with him to talk, because he was done with his wife and since that girl wont let them talk and next day he was sitting there holding her hands listening to her bitchi**g about Sai and then next day, asks her to get out of the hospital. Even Pakhi gets confused on why and how he behaves with her.. He allows her to help him with his tshirt, he allows her at any given time to enter his room without permission..

How would we take if a woman were to be helped by her ex, a married woman, for setting her saree palloo and or duppatta and hardly react. A man who was clear on his persue for this woman.

Sai used to question it in the beginning, claim her haq on him, even when Virat denied. ..But when the whole Sabse pyaari cheez happened followed bhi Pyaar dosti slip, she stopped asking pakhi to not enter the room at any given time..

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's the thing. Virat bringing Ajinkya or Aniket lasted a week. But Sai's is forever. Sai wasn't like this before. It started lately, since two or three months. And nope even today when they were talking randomly she mentioned Pakhi. The way Virat gets irritated, as audience some of us are also highly irritated. I think the writers need to stop the unnecessary chant of Pakhi. Yes when angry or when related to her the mention is fine but not when the conversation is about them only. They are killing the SaiRat essence by giving same dialogue and reaction. When they are having a nice conversation why the hell do they make Sai say something about Pakhi ? As cute as they looked and it felt nice to see the positivity back, I am back being irritated by it.

By avoiding I didn't mean physically. Sometimes not letting someone affect us is also avoiding. She can't avoid Pakhi's presence in the room but she can definitely avoid from talking about her. Why give her so much importance. Less she will talk about her more she will be at peace.

For example, I have a colleague I don't like but I have to work with him and see his face everyday. But I won't talk about him 24 hours as if my life involves around him.

But then when your colleague is in your cabin taunting you, questioning every little thing you do with your boss, not saying anything to you and questioning you on answering back...How are you to ignore.. She tries hard to not get affected her, but there is a great degree of insecurity which has not been addressed by Virat till date...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Thats because their existence in Sai's life was hardly a week... Sai's forever is because Pakhi's existence in his life is forever.Pakhi is always there in their room, at any given time...Ajinkya and Aniket were NOT.. Pakhi gets to attack Sai, her relationship with Virat, call her names with Virat being silent, Ajinkya and Aniket were not allowed..... Pakhi is Virat's ex and till date claims to love Virat, Ajinkya and Aniket did not. There is a zameen Aasman ka farq in the two!!

Sai was not this way before because she was not falling in love with him, because she was not this attached to him...she did not have hopes from him...Just like Virat grew insecure of Aniket and Amey without having any relationship except that of a guardian at that point of time. Virat has till date not told her what that past was..Whether it was a day long a year long or 10 years long, for Pakhi to behave the way she behaves with him and her... Pakhi is existent in the story only because Virat behaves the way he behaves...Also Sai was quick to understand his insecurities and clearly told him who were those two people to him...Virat fails to see her insecurities...even today he did not see how she was liking in that room how there was wistfulness in her questions/taunts, just like you mentioned how she failed to see his smile when she was in his room..

For instance he was all pally with Pakhi, fighting for her respect with not just his wife but his sister one day, calling his wife names and asking her to come out with him to talk, since that girl wont let them talk and next day he was sitting there holding her hands listening to her bitchi**g about Sai and then next day, asks her to get out of the hospital. Even she gets confused on why and how he behaves with her.. He allows her to help him with his tshirt, he allows her at any given time to enter his room without permission..

Sai used to question it in the beginning, claim her haq on him, even when Virat denied. ..But when the whole Sabse pyaari cheez happened followed bhi Pyaar dosti slip, she stopped asking pakhi to not enter the room at any given time..

I think you are not understanding my point or not reading what you don't want to read. You are just reading that I said Sai brings Pakhi everywhere. 😆 That's not the only thing I said.

I already mentioned Virat is definitely at fault and it's time he actually bans Pakhi from entering their room and life. And if there is something urgent at least teach her to knock and take permission to enter. He is damn irritating when he keeps mum. That's probably why the entire forum enjoys when he does Didi's epic beizzati. Done dusted about Virat's mistakes.

Sai being insecure is also normal and as I said it's fine to bring her when needed. Like she used to do earlier. Her reaction is justified.

The only part where she goes wrong is when she brings her unnecessarily. As I mentioned she can take her name even while she is going out on an ice cream date. That's when things get irritating. There is no excuse about how she ruining her own peaceful moments. Soon she will be reading her study books and take Pakhi's name. If that happens whose fault will it be ? Hers only. That's my point. Someone can invade in your life and mind but you have the power to cut them off when you can.

In short 90% times she is right but 10% times she overdoes it. That's all I had to say. 😳

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

But then when your colleague is in your cabin taunting you, questioning every little thing you do with your boss, not saying anything to you and questioning you on answering back...How are you to ignore.. She tries hard to not get affected her, but there is a great degree of insecurity which has not been addressed by Virat till date...

I am not saying she has to. In fact it's pretty much normal. For example I can talk about that taunting mocking colleague but I won't let that guy ruin my whole day. If I am eating my lunch, I won't take his name. If I am shitting after that, I won't bring his name. Sai is right but sometimes she overdoes it.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

That's the thing. Virat bringing Ajinkya or Aniket lasted a week. But Sai's is forever. Sai wasn't like this before. It started lately, since two or three months. And nope even today when they were talking randomly she mentioned Pakhi. The way Virat gets irritated, as audience some of us are also highly irritated. I think the writers need to stop the unnecessary chant of Pakhi. Yes when angry or when related to her the mention is fine but not when the conversation is about them only. They are killing the SaiRat essence by giving same dialogue and reaction. When they are having a nice conversation why the hell do they make Sai say something about Pakhi ? As cute as they looked and it felt nice to see the positivity back, I am back being irritated by it.

By avoiding I didn't mean physically. Sometimes not letting someone affect us is also avoiding. She can't avoid Pakhi's presence in the room but she can definitely avoid from talking about her. Why give her so much importance. Less she will talk about her more she will be at peace.

For example, I have a colleague I don't like but I have to work with him and see his face everyday. But I won't talk about him 24 hours as if my life involves around him.

For eg: Had virat made pakhi shut when she was telling how sairat are not husband & wife because of different rooms & by which right sai will live in CN. Then sai wouldn't have brought the matter that ur bf told this about our relationship. That's why most of the talks of her about pakhi are not unnecessary. It was her hurt & disappointment at virat speaking.

That 'hey there' gif 🤣