Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9
I completely agree... I will say I have went through it and going through it too. I remember once my elder sister is talking to my another elder sister ... On speaker and I managed to hear their conversation. I heard the other say that she have confidence in my other siblings that they can achieve what they want ... Can get into a reputed company or whatever they want they can do it. But when she talked about me, I heard her say she don't have any hope in me... I was in class 8th nd it broke me ... I cried that night. Nd then after a point of time, I forgot it. Sometime back we are travelling back from our hometown and Papa said he don't have any hope from me ... Kinda because I am not that good in studies as my other siblings are... They are kind of overachievers. It broke me... Nd since we are in train and were having food I became silent... Did not uttered a word... When we reach in the morning and slept ... The nightmares started... I remember waking up crying... It has happened after that too...
So today when Monu talked about it... It felt personal. Monu from my pov atleast is not in love with Karan but when he encouraged her, she thought he trusts her that she can do something... Can achieve her goals. Nd seeing him encouraging her, she felt 'loved' and 'special'. It's a very simple thing... Jab koi hum par bharosa nahi karta hai aur koi ek insaan woh bharosa dikhata hai , woh bhi ho jo pehle unhi logo ke list mein aata hai jo tum par bharosa nhi karte hai... Toh khud par se zyada uss ke bharose par bharosa hota hai. Ki shayad hum mein kuch toh hoga ki humne unka bharosa jeeta hai. Nd ye emotion human vulnerability se aata. She does not feel the same with Sid bcoz he always trusted her... She have grown up with him. Even now if she create a mess, he will find a loophole to defend her... She knows it ki wo uski galti par bhi uss par hamesha trust karega ... So when Karan does something for her, she feels confident and special and she associate those feelings to love bcoz she have never felt that way... It's kind of living in an illusion thing and I am glad her bubble bursted... She have to have confidence on her own skills and if nothing then on Sid bcoz wo hamesha raha hai uske saath.
Sorry for the rant... But when I saw that scene nd read this... I could not control myself from sharing