Adi-Imlie perform the aarti together - Page 17

Originally posted by: AreYaar

LOL why is Adi's reason about the blow to his aatmasammman not considered valid for his trauma? 😕😆

Oh right, the same school of thought that considers Malini a "wronged woman" who was "suddenly changed overnight" will obviously not consider Adi's aatmasamman being butchered as a valid reason......lol

Which trauma exactly? The gunpoint shaadi or the assault?

Not sure what one has to do with the other. Malini IS a wronged woman, but no one is making that an excuse for all her subsequent criminal behaviors (as it shouldn't be!!)

And why is atmasamman the exclusive right of the man? Women have to prioritize their sindoor, sasuraal and everything else in between before their atmasamman apparently!

Note to self: **These characters are fictional. These characters are fictional. These characters are fictional.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Yeah, I don't know to what extent Imlie will manage to retort to Malini in the actual scene but it's LONG OVERDUE in the story that it's properly addressed WHY Imlie told that lie and lived it for so long....WHO she told it for and at WHAT COST. How do we keep being brought back to this square one like it hasn't already been explained a HUNDRED times why Imlie hid the truth? And kaun aisa jhoot apni KHUSHI se bolta hai ki main NAUKAR hoon?😕😆

Upar se yeah it's like beyond annoying that no one, not even IMLIE points out that it was ADI who's always come chasing after her every time she tried to leave or push him away.....KAB hogi yeh baat address? Just to keep dragging on Psycho Rapist ke monologues, we have to be subjected to everyone staying mute rather than address the fact that Adi was the one who fought the most to be with Imlie even when she tried to sacrifice everything a ZILLION times?

High time Imlie reminds everyone that she never broke any home...it was her home to begin with that she kept walking away from. Adi ko apne aap ko cheater samajhna hai, his problem.....but Imlie needs to speak up and not let Psycho rapist slander her.

Waise yehi irony hai ki Imlie is now speaking Adi ki boli in the confidence with which she's like "maine koi ghar nahin toda" and the way she's talking about how a world built on lies can never stand.....lol yeh sab isko Adi bolta tha during the phase when she was scared to reveal the truth to the family😆.....Imlie ko toh himmat de di saari aur ab khud laachaar banke baith gaya......lol.....but I hope this Imlie continues to shut down any attempts to slander her and doesn't get guilt tripped over Psycho ki bakwaas again.

If there is one good thing that can come out of this seemingly aimless drag, it's the fact that they all need to get over the manufactured guilt that Malini tries to drown them in.

Very important point...if only it is highlighted more. How they have taken onto ek dusre ka thought processes and points .. if imlie uses his words to refute such claims and so confidently and actually seems to be on the same page not just saying for the sake of saying she actually seems to have understood these then adi is everyday more and more living by her theories and her pov too I mean woh toh pehle hi imlie ke rang main rang chuka tha.

Yes we can never be sure when she will flip but for now it is important to keep calling out her nonsense esp since this woman doesn't miss a single opportunity to show her ugliness I guess that is helping for now for imlie too ke she keeps doing bad repeatedly and then gloat about her ghatiyapanti if she tries to be achi imlie will let go in a sec haha

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Ajeeb logic hai bhai..a man can not have a broken ego and broken confidence in himself after such a trauma ..people forget adi was the one for whom this was even more a shock due to the culture shock too..imlie ke saath bhinkuch acha nahi hua tha but only this thing set this forced shaadi apart always that it was equally traumatic for them both.. inmein se koi kisi ko neecha dikhane ke liye ya kisi revenge ke liye nahi kia tha. But who cares about bothering to see the fine details or understand the context..a man is never allowed to have his aatmasamaan broken simply cas he is a man and a maid ko dsrd nahi hota and a woman even after rape is a wronged.. my foot 🤬🙄

The story has stagnated and dragged so much off late ki the entire forced marriage ka trauma has been totally downplayed and dismissed in the need to only play up Malini's manufactured victimhood......cuz neither Adi or Imlie are the type to constantly keep bringing up their own trauma to that extent so it's easier for all the self-absorbed losers in the story to forget it. Malini never leaves a chance to manufacture and hype her imagined victim mode so they all just fixate on that......everyone has totally FORGOTTEN that Adilie were married in the most ugly of circumstances that would traumatize anyone for life.....just cuz they both discovered a transcendent love after that means their trauma means nothing? 😕......even though they continue to suffer even NOW and are hardly living an ideal life? LOL yeh achha hai.

Wohi baat hai ki jo log halla karte rahein, unke screaming waale jhoot bhi sach maan liye jaate hain

Adi obviously made mistakes in how he handled his trauma....but that doesn't mean that trauma didn't exist....it very much did. He handled his trauma differently than Imlie did cuz she has always been WAY more stronger emotionally/mentally. He freely admits being a weak man on that front....so again, why is his reason not valid? Anyways, jin logon ko abhi tak Imlie ka self-respect nahin dikhta and they somehow thing Malini is a "wronged woman", unko yeh baatein waise bhi kaise samajh aayengi😆

Seems to be mantra of everybody 🤷‍♀️ inside and outside of the show..

So much word about adi ke liye yeh sab aasan nahi hai and he toh openly admits he is not as emotionally strong as imlie.. 🤷‍♀️ that he would not be able to survive without her and kabhi na jhel paata yeh sab on his own..

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Seems to be mantra of everybody 🤷‍♀️ inside and outside

I'm telling you, Malini ji is a VERY inspirational figure for many people😆

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm telling you, Malini ji is a VERY inspirational figure for many people😆

Indeed she is..she is the kharbokza jisko dekh ek everybody pakdooes rang..victim.playing is an art na

Not sure if any of the memes and comments in the last couple of posts are aimed at me, but for discussion sake, are you saying Malini's situation of having been hoodwinked into a shaadi that is supposedly invalid not trauma-worthy?

Again, not withstanding her criminal behavior (which IMO was an extremely unnecessary addition to this family drama), you don't think that her rude awakening about the reality of her husband and her father is traumatic and you don't feel any sympathy for her character? Asking just to understand other POVs.

Do not want to get into personal attacks and barbs! I am too old for that nonsense!

I'm really not interested in any discussions that start with "notwithstanding Malini's criminal behavior".......that someone actually thinks Malini's HUGE list of disgusting acts can be slotted in the "notwithstanding" zone🤔.....lol yeah this is not the thread for that.

Originally posted by: naadanmasakalli

Indeed she is..she is the kharbokza jisko dekh ek everybody pakdooes rang..victim.playing is an art na

Ofcourse victim playing is a fine art jiski Head Girl hain Rapist Didi😆......amazing how conveniently it is forgotten how she behaved with Adi even before he married her.....the few times he tried to work up the guts to tell her the truth, she instantly diverted the convo into victim playing about how he will supposedly leave her, how he will find someone else or that she will die without him.....ROFL remember THAT? Like the HUNDRED times she never forgot to tell him that she will DIE if he ever leaves her?🤪.......amazing how people have forgotten all that in the need to play up her so called "trauma"......GHANTA trauma....a person who is actually traumatized doesn't do a PERFORMATIVE suicide stunt simply over the SUSPICION of her husband's so called EMA.

Selective viewing ke hisaab se koi aur hi Malini imagine kar li hai😆.....and so easy to zone out her criminal acts include a RAPE.....waah waah.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

I'm really not interested in any discussions that start with "notwithstanding Malini's criminal behavior".......that someone actually thinks Malini's HUGE list of disgusting acts can be slotted in the "notwithstanding" zone🤔.....lol yeah this is not the thread for that.

Fair enough! Sorry for derailing your(??!!) thread.