*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 16*~* Bakhuda Tumhi Ho - Page 56

Originally posted by: PSharada

I have to say MHRW will be my all time favorite love story of Indian TV because it actually showcased love between 2 flawed characters. Love always makes you be a better version of yourself and that is what I see happening to Raghav and Pallavi here. Yes Raghav is doing mistakes but he will learn from them and grow from them to get his soulmate with him.

While I agree to all the above and thats the reason why we are still stuck to the show..what I cannot digest is a shrewd man like RR being gullible again and again in front of Esha. He got duped once on ONS. He needs to pick up the threads there and see through. He is no child that Esha can emotionally manipulate anytime with her sob stories. Sorry but I cannot buy that he is such a baby and his intent is all good but he keeps getting manipulated by Esha. He has seen so much in his life and knows people can play him for money...he is much wiser than this.

In Mandar track RR clearly saw through Mandar. Here why is he being shown so naive. Between husband wife one of them should be shrewd!! He can easily ask Farhad to find a safe house for her. And keep her away , and take Pallavi out and let her know what happened. Then she can decide what to do....he is still lying to her, hiding from her, he is doing all things that will further implicate him.

Also they showed Amma overheard Raghav Esha convo of back hug. So does Amma know of ONS now?

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

While I agree to all the above and thats the reason why we are still stuck to the show..what I cannot digest is a shrewd man like RR being gullible again and again in front of Esha. He got duped once on ONS. He needs to pick up the threads there and see through. He is no child that Esha can emotionally manipulate anytime with her sob stories. Sorry but I cannot buy that he is such a baby and his intent is all good but he keeps getting manipulated by Esha. He has seen so much in his life and knows people can play him for money...he is much wiser than this.

In Mandar track RR clearly saw through Mandar. Here why is he being shown so naive. Between husband wife one of them should be shrewd!! He can easily ask Farhad to find a safe house for her. And keep her away , and take Pallavi out and let her know what happened. Then she can decide what to do....he is still lying to her, hiding from her, he is doing all things that will further implicate him.

Also they showed Amma overheard Raghav Esha convo of back hug. So does Amma know of ONS now?

@bold:- That is because they need to extend the track. If Raghav tells everything off to Pallavi and sternly tells Esha to not be in RR Mansion what else can happen next ? The track will be done in 2 days - They need to sustain the show right. Hence you have Raghav being stuck between Devil and deep sea. It is just a matter of time for Raghav to get Esha to another place but he is not doing it because a. Esha is emotionally manipulating him and he is yet to realize that b. He doesn't want to do something sudden which might create more problems for him than he can answer.

Right now Raghav is torn between his guilt, Pallavi's hurt and Esha's well being. He is concerned about Esha too because Esha gave the sob story that she agreed for this marriage to save Raghav's life. So at some level Raghav feels responsible for the state Esha is in and hence the empathy he feels for her general well being. But the moment he realizes that Esha is manipulating then he will no longer be polite and will put Esha in her place.

Saw the episode.

R's promise to Pallavi was sweet and I love that he found the courage again to tell her the truth.

I hope all this tadka is worth it bc this is all so hard to watch - as in I just feel bad for everyone (except E) involved.

I feel bad for P because she's being kept in the dark and can't see the weirdness of having not just any random ex of her husband's but her husband's 1st (2nd? lol) LOVE in her home. Like I get wanting to help her but no one is questioning how she managed to fend off her ex husband for the 3 years they've been divorced? Also, why not just get her a room somewhere and give her a security guard. What is so special about RR mansion that she has to be in the home. Honestly, kuch bhi for 24/7 tadka and budget constraints.

I feel bad for R because he's trying tell the truth but he keeps getting averted by circumstance. I didn't get why he even had to awkwardly pat E on the back. He should have pulled her away - not going to budge on that one. I get they showed him awkwardly patting her bc it was supposed to be more like "uhhhh ... well.. this is weird.." but it was filmed for so long bc they wanted to have S see and then P coming and catching them type of tension but it was just blehk. Stupid tadka.

Also, Amma is my favorite.

roll my eyes moment: E saying it's also R's fault as if she didn't pretend to be his wife & proceeded to "sleep" with him. E saying what is she supposed to do, essentially implying how everyone hates her, and then goes and hugs R tightly and cries on his shoulder.

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Also I couldn't comment about the other episodes this week - I'm SUPER salty that we got no follow up to what happened during the ang laga de night.

HOW does Pallavi turn around just have full faith in her husband after he didn't want to touch her? Work stress is a thing but a spouse would just say that's the reason for the distance. So why isn't she digging? Does she remember this is the same R that wanted to get it on in front of her then paralyzed mother because he was that desperate? Why is there no continuity in this show? They just forget 90% of their past. It really irks me.

How does she act like nothing happened? Why does she act like nothing major happened? Why do they write her this way? This is something she should've taken seriously but nope, she thought about it for 30 sec and then it was almost as if it was wiped from her memory.

(fyi not bashing P but more so criticizing the writers for how they're writing her).

There's no emphasis on her and her feelings. She is just there to do things. They're spending more time showing E's emotional turmoil than P's.

Anyway I know this is all old news bc ya'll already discussed it but I had to let the internet know my thoughts too.

Originally posted by: rubys07

Lol even without watching you raise some valid points Fria. You get the pulse of the show 😆

B: Yes, because who wouldn't want to associate themselves with the Raghav Rao brand?

Esha with her fomo be like Pallavi getting my Raghu's dolla dolla bills and his undivided attention:

I: Dude I bet even Sai wonders why they don't do certain logical things in this manhoos track🤣 Sicku will do absolutely anything as long as he thinks it's good for the ratings/survival of the show while the fd fights amongst themselves and he enjoys😆

Miss you too!🤗

🤣 the last gif.

the accuracy 🤣

@bold: I bleed MHRW

Originally posted by: fria319

Saw the episode.

R's promise to Pallavi was sweet and I love that he found the courage again to tell her the truth. Yes it was good it tried once more to tell her the truth.

I hope all this tadka is worth it bc this is all so hard to watch - as in I just feel bad for everyone (except E) involved. Yeah the tadka is there but we are getting trps fria. Let's tolerate for some more time, kya kar sakte hai

I feel bad for P because she's being kept in the dark and can't see the weirdness of having not just any random ex of her husband's but her husband's 1st (2nd? lol) LOVE in her home. Like I get wanting to help her but no one is questioning how she managed to fend off her ex husband for the 3 years they've been divorced? Also, why not just get her a room somewhere and give her a security guard. What is so special about RR mansion that she has to be in the home. Honestly, kuch bhi for 24/7 tadka and budget constraints. Yeah it's so crazy how they are showing this. No one is thinking of alternate accommodation. Dharamshala khol rakhi hai Raghav ne

I feel bad for R because he's trying tell the truth but he keeps getting averted by circumstance. I didn't get why he even had to awkwardly pat E on the back. He should have pulled her away - not going to budge on that one. I get they showed him awkwardly patting her bc it was supposed to be more like "uhhhh ... well.. this is weird.." but it was filmed for so long bc they wanted to have S see and then P coming and catching them type of tension but it was just blehk. Stupid tadka. Iska na bad luckich kharab hai. The patting on her back was ok. It was tadka. He was emotionally manipulated. It was the first time Esha clearly told him he was party to what happened that night. Rubbed to his face THREE times. Besharam delulu ladki. He didn't sleep with you, you forced yourself on a drunk man🤢

Also, Amma is my favorite. Sabki hai

roll my eyes moment: E saying it's also R's fault as if she didn't pretend to be his wife & proceeded to "sleep" with him. E saying what is she supposed to do, essentially implying how everyone hates her, and then goes and hugs R tightly and cries on his shoulder.

Seriously delulu hai ladki. She's cooking things in her head despite all declaration by Raghav that he loves Pallavi.

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Also I couldn't comment about the other episodes this week - I'm SUPER salty that we got no follow up to what happened during the ang laga de night. That was so sad. I'm half worried about the Revelation if we dont get a breakdown.

HOW does Pallavi turn around just have full faith in her husband after he didn't want to touch her? Work stress is a thing but a spouse would just say that's the reason for the distance. So why isn't she digging? Does she remember this is the same R that wanted to get it on in front of her then paralyzed mother because he was that desperate? Why is there no continuity in this show? They just forget 90% of their past. It really irks me. Yes seriously. He was so desperate for first night. They almost did it two times. Why aren't they confronting each other. Again turned heads away and slept. Celibate couple.

How does she act like nothing happened? Why does she act like nothing major happened? Why do they write her this way? This is something she should've taken seriously but nope, she thought about it for 30 sec and then it was almost as if it was wiped from her memory.

(fyi not bashing P but more so criticizing the writers for how they're writing her). P is written badly. She's given a shorter end of the stick unfortunately. I want to see her cry..is that more to ask. She's a SP bahu. Thoda toh rulao

There's no emphasis on her and her feelings. She is just there to do things. They're spending more time showing E's emotional turmoil than P's. Yes Esha getting more screen space, monologues, but P gets crappy kitchen scenes giving fruit juices to 2 freeloaders and solving domestic disputes of staff.

Anyway I know this is all old news bc ya'll already discussed it but I had to let the internet know my thoughts too.

Thanks for letting us know. Are you ok? Yu didn't add gifs to this post. Hehehhe

Originally posted by: fria319

Saw the episode.

R's promise to Pallavi was sweet and I love that he found the courage again to tell her the truth.

I hope all this tadka is worth it bc this is all so hard to watch - as in I just feel bad for everyone (except E) involved.

I feel bad for P because she's being kept in the dark and can't see the weirdness of having not just any random ex of her husband's but her husband's 1st (2nd? lol) LOVE in her home. Like I get wanting to help her but no one is questioning how she managed to fend off her ex husband for the 3 years they've been divorced? Also, why not just get her a room somewhere and give her a security guard. What is so special about RR mansion that she has to be in the home. Honestly, kuch bhi for 24/7 tadka and budget constraints.

I feel bad for R because he's trying tell the truth but he keeps getting averted by circumstance. I didn't get why he even had to awkwardly pat E on the back. He should have pulled her away - not going to budge on that one. I get they showed him awkwardly patting her bc it was supposed to be more like "uhhhh ... well.. this is weird.." but it was filmed for so long bc they wanted to have S see and then P coming and catching them type of tension but it was just blehk. Stupid tadka.

Also, Amma is my favorite.

roll my eyes moment: E saying it's also R's fault as if she didn't pretend to be his wife & proceeded to "sleep" with him. E saying what is she supposed to do, essentially implying how everyone hates her, and then goes and hugs R tightly and cries on his shoulder.

--

Also I couldn't comment about the other episodes this week - I'm SUPER salty that we got no follow up to what happened during the ang laga de night.

HOW does Pallavi turn around just have full faith in her husband after he didn't want to touch her? Work stress is a thing but a spouse would just say that's the reason for the distance. So why isn't she digging? Does she remember this is the same R that wanted to get it on in front of her then paralyzed mother because he was that desperate? Why is there no continuity in this show? They just forget 90% of their past. It really irks me.

How does she act like nothing happened? Why does she act like nothing major happened? Why do they write her this way? This is something she should've taken seriously but nope, she thought about it for 30 sec and then it was almost as if it was wiped from her memory.

(fyi not bashing P but more so criticizing the writers for how they're writing her).

There's no emphasis on her and her feelings. She is just there to do things. They're spending more time showing E's emotional turmoil than P's.

Anyway I know this is all old news bc ya'll already discussed it but I had to let the internet know my thoughts too.

Hey fria 🤗

I am tired of talking about pallavi😭

She was so upset and slept when raghav didn't answered her what esha replied and if no wrong on the message why esha would delete it??

After 24 hrs she gone crazy and went to hug him two times and he pushed her aburutly.. on night she was speaking so emotionally and he left her hand and went to sleep. Again he didn't allowed to hug her when she talked about baby and top of it after seducing advance she was so hurt of his actions and left from their crying. After this much happened how they both didn't had any conversation?. No monologues of her or her feelings or her frustration??

They both given enough things to have benefit on them why she isn't thinking or digging deep?? He is completely behaving strange from the moment he is back and she can see it , why she is ignoring it by saying what happened to him?. Is it enough?? Did any couple can survive a day after having this much on the plate to discuss😔??

Oh my , I am done with this writing of cvs 🤬. They purposely keeping in her dark for final bubble burst.

Originally posted by: fria319

Saw the episode.

R's promise to Pallavi was sweet and I love that he found the courage again to tell her the truth.

I hope all this tadka is worth it bc this is all so hard to watch - as in I just feel bad for everyone (except E) involved.

I feel bad for P because she's being kept in the dark and can't see the weirdness of having not just any random ex of her husband's but her husband's 1st (2nd? lol) LOVE in her home. Like I get wanting to help her but no one is questioning how she managed to fend off her ex husband for the 3 years they've been divorced? Also, why not just get her a room somewhere and give her a security guard. What is so special about RR mansion that she has to be in the home. Honestly, kuch bhi for 24/7 tadka and budget constraints.

I feel bad for R because he's trying tell the truth but he keeps getting averted by circumstance. I didn't get why he even had to awkwardly pat E on the back. He should have pulled her away - not going to budge on that one. I get they showed him awkwardly patting her bc it was supposed to be more like "uhhhh ... well.. this is weird.." but it was filmed for so long bc they wanted to have S see and then P coming and catching them type of tension but it was just blehk. Stupid tadka.

Also, Amma is my favorite.

roll my eyes moment: E saying it's also R's fault as if she didn't pretend to be his wife & proceeded to "sleep" with him. E saying what is she supposed to do, essentially implying how everyone hates her, and then goes and hugs R tightly and cries on his shoulder.

--

Also I couldn't comment about the other episodes this week - I'm SUPER salty that we got no follow up to what happened during the ang laga de night.

HOW does Pallavi turn around just have full faith in her husband after he didn't want to touch her? Work stress is a thing but a spouse would just say that's the reason for the distance. So why isn't she digging? Does she remember this is the same R that wanted to get it on in front of her then paralyzed mother because he was that desperate? Why is there no continuity in this show? They just forget 90% of their past. It really irks me.

How does she act like nothing happened? Why does she act like nothing major happened? Why do they write her this way? This is something she should've taken seriously but nope, she thought about it for 30 sec and then it was almost as if it was wiped from her memory.

(fyi not bashing P but more so criticizing the writers for how they're writing her).

There's no emphasis on her and her feelings. She is just there to do things. They're spending more time showing E's emotional turmoil than P's.

Anyway I know this is all old news bc ya'll already discussed it but I had to let the internet know my thoughts too.

Agree with all you are saying fria - I am super salty that Pallavi did not even broach the subject of seduction with Raghav again ever. If my husband had rudely told me off if I tried to get him to love me, I would be down with worry and would not be fine until I asked him the reason - even if the reason is as simple as I am having a headache.

The only thing I feel is that they are all keeping these red herrings for Pallavi to make her fall more impactful. Maybe when she knows the truth she will think that Raghav was avoiding her because he desires Esha and maybe that will make her step back. Because Pallavi stepping back is the only thing that will push Raghav to come out of his yo-yo inertia and fight for their relationship.

Today's promise of Raghav to Pallavi that he is and will always be hers and belongs to her makes me believe that Pallavi might take a step back and Esha might try to jump in the chance but Raghav will stay firm and fight for their love. We need to wait until Pallavi knows the truth - I really want a good breakdown scene of Pallavi. Raghav seeing his Pallavi being hurt like that would finally break his stance and he will rush to reassure her but by then the damage would have been done. I am more interested in dealing of the characters after the aftermath of the truth disclosure.

Originally posted by: fria319

Saw the episode.

R's promise to Pallavi was sweet and I love that he found the courage again to tell her the truth.

I hope all this tadka is worth it bc this is all so hard to watch - as in I just feel bad for everyone (except E) involved.

I feel bad for P because she's being kept in the dark and can't see the weirdness of having not just any random ex of her husband's but her husband's 1st (2nd? lol) LOVE in her home. Like I get wanting to help her but no one is questioning how she managed to fend off her ex husband for the 3 years they've been divorced? Also, why not just get her a room somewhere and give her a security guard. What is so special about RR mansion that she has to be in the home. Honestly, kuch bhi for 24/7 tadka and budget constraints.

I feel bad for R because he's trying tell the truth but he keeps getting averted by circumstance. I didn't get why he even had to awkwardly pat E on the back. He should have pulled her away - not going to budge on that one. I get they showed him awkwardly patting her bc it was supposed to be more like "uhhhh ... well.. this is weird.." but it was filmed for so long bc they wanted to have S see and then P coming and catching them type of tension but it was just blehk. Stupid tadka.

Also, Amma is my favorite.

roll my eyes moment: E saying it's also R's fault as if she didn't pretend to be his wife & proceeded to "sleep" with him. E saying what is she supposed to do, essentially implying how everyone hates her, and then goes and hugs R tightly and cries on his shoulder.

--

Also I couldn't comment about the other episodes this week - I'm SUPER salty that we got no follow up to what happened during the ang laga de night.

HOW does Pallavi turn around just have full faith in her husband after he didn't want to touch her? Work stress is a thing but a spouse would just say that's the reason for the distance. So why isn't she digging? Does she remember this is the same R that wanted to get it on in front of her then paralyzed mother because he was that desperate? Why is there no continuity in this show? They just forget 90% of their past. It really irks me.

How does she act like nothing happened? Why does she act like nothing major happened? Why do they write her this way? This is something she should've taken seriously but nope, she thought about it for 30 sec and then it was almost as if it was wiped from her memory.

(fyi not bashing P but more so criticizing the writers for how they're writing her).

There's no emphasis on her and her feelings. She is just there to do things. They're spending more time showing E's emotional turmoil than P's.

Anyway I know this is all old news bc ya'll already discussed it but I had to let the internet know my thoughts too.

Word..to what you said im bold. I am completely with you on all these points.

Being rejected in the bedroom is a huge deal for a woman. That too newlyweds who did not consummate as yet. There is no conversation or apologies from Raghav, effort to take her out.

The RR who hates lies and adored Pallavi for her honesty and strength now is behaving totally opposite.

And Pallavi? This woman was a businesswoman who figured out antidote for every trick of Raghav s till and even after marraige. She openly caught the school saree order lady on sangeet night for cheating. Pallu is no idiot. Whats with her??

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/159221159

This is a really beautiful post - I totally agree with everything the author is saying.

Originally posted by: PSharada

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/159221159

This is a really beautiful post - I totally agree with everything the author is saying.

I have some thoughts. Will respond to this post soon. I don't agree with the cheating part mentioned here but rest of it is pretty accurate.