Originally posted by: Shruti_0505
1. Fateh definitely does not realise and understand how much tejo loves him. He knows that tejo loves him, but that she loves to the extent that she is willing to do anything for him, is an unknown feeling for him. Fateh has not actually understood what love actually is. He still believes that what he feels for jasmine is love. What he feels for tejo right now, is a lot of care, concern and also guilt for cheating her.
2. Fateh has somehwere not completely accepted tejo as his wife (he had started accepting tejo as his wife, before jassu came back and started her game). He formed a friendship with her first. So, he wants his BFF back, who always stood by him, helped him, guided him, made him a better person. For fateh, tejo as his wife is different from tejo as his BFF. To him, these are 2 different relations. He wants his BFF back for now. Fateh is definitely being selfish, there is no doubt in that. Specially since EMA come to light. Fateh is shown as someone who is unable to process a lot of emotions. hence, the confusion and indecisiveness on his part.
But, he helped tejo as well. Before & during her marriage to jass, then helped her overcome her grief, helped with catching jass, then defeneded her. After fatejo marriage, he stood up for tejo when she wanted to work, stopped the family from taunting her.
So, past few episodes, the makers have ruined the character, but he is not as selfish as he is being shown these days. A lot of it is the confusion in his mind. His mind tells him that he will be happy with jassu, nbut his heart yearns for tejo.
He cried when jassu left him, but was heart broken with the thought of anything happening to tejo when she was shot. And this was after he got back with jassu.