Sidelining buddi aurat

I don’t think Indian families should feel guilty about making sanki buddi type baas irrelevant. Like why do we even care what this person has to say!

I had a thought the other day ...

Baa said she doesn't abuse her DIL(s) like her MIL abused her (physically, verbally, and emotionally) but she does. Her complaints, while maybe predictable ("what will society say," "my son is my raja beta..."), her mannerisms have no tact. I also dislike the "Taane mein spice honi chahiye" comments in the show .. it's like they're trying to justify some of the unhinged bs comments.

those who have been abused end up becoming abusers themselves .. too bad baa didn't have anyone support or steer her right. Perhaps her nature, while not maleficent, is constricted and narrow. This makes Kinjal's praise of DILs being treated right a big compliment for Anupama and her character. Anupama is kind, pure, even if naïve and highly accommodating, and inherently good.

Originally posted by: moksha89

I had a thought the other day ...

Baa said she doesn't abuse her DIL(s) like her MIL abused her (physically, verbally, and emotionally) but she does. Her complaints, while maybe predictable ("what will society say," "my son is my raja beta..."), her mannerisms have no tact. I also dislike the "Taane mein spice honi chahiye" comments in the show .. it's like they're trying to justify some of the unhinged bs comments.

those who have been abused end up becoming abusers themselves .. too bad baa didn't have anyone support or steer her right. Perhaps her nature, while not maleficent, is constricted and narrow. This makes Kinjal's praise of DILs being treated right a big compliment for Anupama and her character. Anupama is kind, pure, even if naïve and highly accommodating, and inherently good.

I don’t know how much truth is she speaking when she makes that kind of statement.

But i would love to meet the kind of saas baa had🤣

If she was really tortured she would have known the feeling of how it feels and should have been more caring toward her dil. But she was not. I believe that baa was the one who tortured her own saas instead if vice-versa

Originally posted by: 07RB

I don’t know how much truth is she speaking when she makes that kind of statement.

But i would love to meet the kind of saas baa had🤣

If she was really tortured she would have known the feeling of how it feels and should have been more caring toward her dil. But she was not. I believe that baa was the one who tortured her own saas instead if vice-versa

Aisi aurtein hi hoti hain jo dusro par atyachar karke khud hi victim play karti hain.

That budhiya is just intolerable🤢

And what bothers me the most is anupama now openly gives reply to vanraj but she is still in control of this baa. Anu takes all bullshit of baa for the sake of 'bado ki izzat'🤢 baa is still acting as anu's saas only. Even bapuji has said it now that baa has only said anu is her daughter but she hasn't accepted it.

You dont have to respond to every taunt of the old woman but after the earlier entry returning with Anuj and burning the dance floor is a fitting response tothe zeher taunt for Baba Yaga.

Originally posted by: moonwearer

You dont have to respond to every taunt of the old woman but after the earlier entry returning with Anuj and burning the dance floor is a fitting response tothe zeher taunt for Baba Yaga.

@bold aptly named🤣🤣