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Originally posted by: joliefemme

Aru thin line is blurring 🤣

Meko thin line wali baat pe aur context hone ka karke! I've seen that phrase multiple times yahan pe... PM karo if need be ya phir yahin bata dou please!

Originally posted by: fria319

Also. How do I always manage to say things that go viral on the forum here.

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Fria you viral queen😎

Habitual liar. YES.

Habitual cheater. Ermwut. 🤣

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Aru thin line is blurring 🤣

Isko bolo not to get carried away 🙄

Originally posted by: masin

Meko thin line wali baat pe aur context hone ka karke! I've seen that phrase multiple times yahan pe... PM karo if need be ya phir yahin bata dou please!

I'll add this in the PM reply I need to send you but I'm procrastinating 🤣

Am I the only one who's not visiting mhrw forum at all? 🤔

Anji, episode mein kuch achchha ho toh gifs Tazbu AT mein post karke mujhe tag kardena😳

Originally posted by: rubys07

I love you for bringing this up. I was watching this episode today. He was only starting to realize that he didn't want Pallavi to go away from his life, that he liked doing things that would make her happy even if it meant going against his nature. It wasn't completely love but he was going there, and I remember being so in awe of this guy when VD gave him the condition and he accepted it. I see people taking all the other instances where he failed as Pallavi's husband/love and using it to vilify him, and here I'm like dude, none of us can do all the right things all the time. Even when I love someone with every piece of my heart and soul, I can make terrible decisions and hurt them in the process. That does not mean I don't love them or my feelings for them are shallow/not as deep as the theirs. Like you said, it's not supposed to be a he did vs she did thing, because then it's not a relationship IMO, it's a business transaction.

I was totally onboard when people were getting angry at Raghav for being a complete idiot and asking Pallavi to take a strong decision this time around. I still want it to happen. I still want Raghav to repent and reflect on his habits and suffer and grovel, but I don't see how any of the things Raghav says or does makes him a habitual cheater or an infidel or someone who doesn't value/love Pallavi the way she does. I've seen habitual cheaters, and Raghav is not one. Perfectly said.

I agree with every word you said.

Them saying he is the worst husband and nobody deserves to be stuck with someone like him. 🤷🏻‍♀️
I was watching the same yesterday. Raghav Rao, the one we saw in the first 50-55 episodes is now willingly washing someone’s feet, someone that he also hates for someone who he has not fallen in love with yet. Compare that with how humiliating he knows this act is when he speaks of what his father had to go through. That act that he saw changed everything for him and he is ready to go through the same for Pallavi. And then he’s fighting with her for not letting him do that😂 Bewakoof hai yeh Aadmi. That crying scene soon after when Pallavi tells him that tum ban gaye ab meri priority. And that same night, he comes and cries because he was letting her go.
Bring that into perspective and you can understand why he’s terrified of telling the truth even though it’s utter foolishness to hide. And Pallavi’s hardcore dialogues are not helping either.

And he is never saying that he is right. He is not making excuses for it. He himself knows that by hiding he is going to screw up his relationship because he won’t be able to face her. Even in today’s convo with Keerthi, it was that hyper state where he’s grasping at straws to find a solution when he is seeing Pallavi in that state. Doesn’t make it right but I can understand where he is coming from. I sometimes wonder at what point will he give up and be ready for Pallavi to leave him. Because it’s only at that point, he’ll tell the truth. When he went to tell her earlier, he must have had some hope of her staying back even though he knew his truth would destroy her. But now, seeing all her reactions, he is sure that revelation of truth means losing Pallavi. So I wonder when will we finally give up on his relationship but can’t betray Pallavi anymore? Because that’s the day he’ll tell the truth.

This eediot Aadmi has not realised that when it comes to Raghav, Pallavi has a whole different yardstick and I don’t fault her for that. She clearly knows what’s important for her. Her priority has not changed.

Love doesn’t make us perfect. It makes us want to be perfect. But we fall short. In a real relationship, the maximum power to hurt lies in the husband and wife - to hurt each other. It’s not because there’s no love. It’s because you are that involved in each other that the slightest issue will look magnified. We are different people, with different ways of handling things, reactions, thought processes, so it’s gonna clash. We are not going to be understanding all the time. But what matters is what happens after that. Do we realise our mistake? Do we want to set it right? Can we keep aside our egos and apologise and accept apologies?

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Gayu Raghav isn't destroyed if you ask me. We really hold on to a very black and white approach to the world which is so unfair. He's a human who makes mistakes but repents and learns from them.

He deserves a chance. You can watch once the truth is out coz it's overly boring and trp dramatic right now. Thos track isn't form the faint hearted.

Sahu, Liyah and I have been discussing your maturity levels in PMs 🤣🤣 we are proud of u.

Ren to be honest I am feeling bad only for raghvi ✌️✌️

Raghav - hard past so he have huge insecurity. Every occasion he have some reason to hide thinking she will leave him but she always stood and trust him no matter what but he don't realize that instead took as pass Everytime, now he itself got trapped on a grave situation.

For me he lost the moment when he decided to Stay and have drinking challenge with her. He should have asked her to sleep and went out to reach his wife hook or crook because he also knows she would be searching him crazily. For me it's doesn't matter whether he slept or not slept with her, I was totally disappointed he refrained to Stay on the room.

I am not surprised today he decided not to tell her ever. No men would found a courage to say to his wife. He already hided many times at first place to her and she always known from third person so both of them learned anything??? No. He neither started to come clean at first place and she always trust him blindly..

First of all pallavi was upset when esha deleted the message and neither he answered her properly that's why she was upset and slept. Once he got back he isn't allowing her to hug him continuously,.left her hands while she was talking emotionally and she totally broken after seeing his response once she seduced him.. where is the aftermath conversation??

Did any couple could pass a day when they are going through this much??. Don't they deserve to have normal conversation for gods sake ?? Good pallavi wants to talk to keerthi as a friend but who she should really talk and confront? It's raghav and he only should give her all the answers.. esha and raghav both given enough things for her to have benefit of doubt on them.

Aai and amma both are well wishers and can see many things due to their experience. Why neglect it??

Aai alert- I trust raghav on Mandy, we saw how she left RR mansion after she disappointed with his actions.

Amma alert - again i trust raghav on Esha, we know where it's going.. why to neglect the advice instead keeping it on back of her mind. What she learned from Mandy track?

Good to trust your husband but why to trust esha??did she know her??

Pallavi knows what she done on past and even now she can't still neglect the fact why she have deleted the message?? when nothing wrong on that..

I feel completely feel bad and my heart goes for pallavi when will she knows what happened but I really don't want her to drown herself into a deep sorrow for a deed which she didn't committed. I just want when always to think, yes people are capable of doing this?? Always place a love and trust on a person who was worth it instead keeping it blindly so that no one take her naive and innocence as granted and break her Everytime. Once love and trust is broken, it's very hard to come back again.

She is so pure and good hearted, it's doesn't meant anyone can play with her emotions and feelings. I am still not feeling raghav is a cheater but he is doing a grave mistake which going to destroy his Marriage. Did he can hide this truth forever? No. It's going to come out badly through third person as usual.

Pallavi - is he worth a husband to live forever?? Once truth is out...

No wife can answer it easily when they put everything on a man who is their world. Hope she finds a answer. As a woman I want her to be very strong even if she is broken inside because courage will give strength to overcome our weakness. I know she is strong and better be. Wrote what I thought and I am not expecting anyone to agree with me.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Gayu Raghav isn't destroyed if you ask me. We really hold on to a very black and white approach to the world which is so unfair. He's a human who makes mistakes but repents and learns from them.

He deserves a chance. You can watch once the truth is out coz it's overly boring and trp dramatic right now. Thos track isn't form the faint hearted.

Sahu, Liyah and I have been discussing your maturity levels in PMs 🤣🤣 we are proud of u.

Ren, stop disclosing that we are gossiping in PMs 😂😂😂

Walls of texts….. My eyes! MY EYES