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Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

I agree with you! Appreciation for Sahu! Very mature thoughts from your side.

Toh aaj ke liye sab maaf for not going to Kaneri Redorts or the sets.

Kal ka pata nahi😃

Liyah bas pure din ye yaad rakhna

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Yes feminism is too overused that it has lost significance in things that actually matter.

Actually I've been literally saying this in most posts cheating isn't gender specific and gender ka mudda math banao.

Trust me now that I am watching this track I can draw clear parallels with Mandar track and I cna really point out how R is going wrong the same way P was. Only difference is tadka times 10 and the fact that P was honest to R (R ka stand is also not conflicted nor was P).

But I don't want to make it a he did vs she did thing. It really doesn't matter. And to address the would Raghav forgive, heck yes he would. Woh Pallavi se itna pyar karta hai that he would forgive 100 murders that she would do. P is the one that holds to more idealistic morals, Raghav doesn't. He was willing to once drink lota pani which basically meant he was willing to kill his self-respect for her. He didn't love her then (or may be he did). Forgiving a cheating spouse is nothing. As long as there is remorse and repentance and penance.

I love you for bringing this up. I was watching this episode today. He was only starting to realize that he didn't want Pallavi to go away from his life, that he liked doing things that would make her happy even if it meant going against his nature. It wasn't completely love but he was getting there, and I remember being so in awe of this guy when VD gave him the condition and he accepted it. I see people taking all the other instances where he failed as Pallavi's husband/love and using it to vilify him, and here I'm like dude, none of us can do all the right things all the time. Even when I love someone with every piece of my heart and soul, I can make terrible decisions and hurt them in the process. That does not mean I don't love them or my feelings for them are shallow/not as deep as the theirs. Like you said, it's not supposed to be a he did vs she did thing, because then it's not a relationship IMO, it's a business transaction.

I was totally onboard when people were getting angry at Raghav for being a complete idiot and asking Pallavi to take a strong decision this time around. I still want it to happen. I still want Raghav to repent and reflect on his habits and suffer and grovel, but I don't see how any of the things Raghav says or does makes him a habitual cheater or an infidel or someone who doesn't value/love Pallavi the way she does. I've seen habitual cheaters, and Raghav is not one.

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

No wonder someone shouted from top of his lungs he also waiting for ESHA to go away 🤣🤣🤣

Thanks to esha for destroying his iconic character which he worked for 200 episodes she destroyed it on one night stand🤣🤣🤣

Now no back Way seetha truck should run at 100 miles per hour🤣🤣

Front hug because she was drunk

Back hug because he mistakes as pallavi

Again Front hug with his own concert

Wah Kamal hai 👏👏, pallu won't see any hug convinentely.

Than episodes from last week I am waiting for this week Thursday trp, which will be trp 2 mhrw will make history at 5.30 slot🥳🥳

Bring it on sikku👏 please destroy Raghvi🥳

Gayu Raghav isn't destroyed if you ask me. We really hold on to a very black and white approach to the world which is so unfair. He's a human who makes mistakes but repents and learns from them.

He deserves a chance. You can watch once the truth is out coz it's overly boring and trp dramatic right now. Thos track isn't form the faint hearted.

Sahu, Liyah and I have been discussing your maturity levels in PMs 🤣🤣 we are proud of u.

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Originally posted by: laughingmonkey

I agree with you! Appreciation for Sahu! Very mature thoughts from your side.

Toh aaj ke liye sab maaf for not going to Kaneri Redorts or the sets.

Kal ka pata nahi😃

Now I want to see what Sahu baby wrote. Mujhe bhi tareefen karni hain Please give me page number, I'm scared to go through the pages there😆

Originally posted by: rubys07

I ventured into the MF by accident a while back and am already feeling sick, that place has turned 100x more negative than the show itself. Went to TT and saw someone sharing walls of text (quoting Zasha lol) tagging ss and saishi. I'm. Just.

Dafa duur.

In other words, don't even bother. I only visit the MF to see if any of the writers I follow wrote something, otherwise I'm strictly sticking to our CC. Aur kuch worth hi nai karta!

Originally posted by: rubys07

I love you for bringing this up. I was watching this episode today. He was only starting to realize that he didn't want Pallavi to go away from his life, that he liked doing things that would make her happy even if it meant going against his nature. It wasn't completely love but he was going there, and I remember being so in awe of this guy when VD gave him the condition and he accepted it. I see people taking all the other instances where he failed as Pallavi's husband/love and using it to vilify him, and here I'm like dude, none of us can do all the right things all the time. Even when I love someone with every piece of my heart and soul, I can make terrible decisions and hurt them in the process. That does not mean I don't love them or my feelings for them are shallow/not as deep as the theirs. Like you said, it's not supposed to be a he did vs she did thing, because then it's not a relationship IMO, it's a business transaction.

I was totally onboard when people were getting angry at Raghav for being a complete idiot and asking Pallavi to take a strong decision this time around. I still want it to happen. I still want Raghav to repent and reflect on his habits and suffer and grovel, but I don't see how any of the things Raghav says or does makes him a habitual cheater or an infidel or someone who doesn't value/love Pallavi the way she does. I've seen habitual cheaters, and Raghav is not one.

Ru I was shaken at the start of this track and was very conflicted. It was difficult for me to see clearly because he was really walking on thin ice. Then I went back to see a couple of the initial episodes post marriage and that is when I had an epiphany. This man loves her so so much that he would never cheat on her. Not emotionally not physically. Also I don't agree that drinking with your ex in a closed room does amount to emotional infidelity. People really have unrealistic expectations. Emotions are complex and there's no one right away. It's a matter of perspectives. Hence, you defer back to intent. He clearly told E he loves his wife, in his inebriated state he was reminiscing Pals.

Even post the night, you'll see the guilt he has only for P and not for E. He doesn't care about her. You know it's easier to argue on the she did he did premise but I feel it's a moot point. Even on a standalone basis, I don't see any wrong in Raghav except how foolish he's been letting his guard down and trusting E and the fact is he's hiding.

I want P to leave for sometime so they both come to terms. It's a big storm and they need time to heal. May be separate at first and then together. It's going to be difficult but it is worth it.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

We are all running in circles Liyah 🤣

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Originally posted by: rubys07

I don't mean to be rude. I just wonder if 60%-70% of these people who are calling Raghav out on his supposed infidelity and "habitual cheating" even know what real relationships are like, and have they or their partners always done the morally right thing. Are we watching a show or Aesop's Fables?

This. Exactly this.

I could easily write a novel on marital bliss and marital woes, and I'm not even as experienced as my peers. Believe me, Raghav is not a habitual cheater.

He's a coward, yes. He's struggling to come to terms with his apparent mistake and he doesn't know how to wrap his head around the impending consequences. He's handling this situation in the most human way possible. I'm not justifying what he did and nor do I pity him, he chose to drink with his ex which was a poor choice from the get go, but I do think that his fear and lack of bravery is stemming from the right place. Hell, I'd be petrified if I ever screwed up as badly as he did!